This some true shyt. U cant come off as being creepy, dumb as fuk, or just saying shyt she doesn't care about. U have to have the social skills to know when to approach, what to say, and how to vibe with her and she needs to reciprocate with the engaging convo....its 2 people engaging each other...u just gotta have the social experience and understanding to know how to play the game. U cant be too afraid to approach but u gotta do it right also...or like some said....have a social circle that's not so limited where u can just be urself and let things flow.Never once approached a female in my adult life, turned down many tho ..
and im a shy aquarius introvert...
Nothing wrong with being shy, quiet, etc.. but when you do open your mouth and there's nothing intelligent or of importance coming out... then you lawst.
Funny thing is I was more comfortable with public speaking than 1 on 1 with a chick.
yet literally yesterday I got over the fear. 
None of my boys would ever say no shyt like that. 
Actually, women dont even notice shy dudes, because they dont approach"OLDER" women choose.. (ex. in their 30's).
Young women (in their early 20's) are usually shy and want to be approached. Thats why they hate shy dudes, because there is no room for two shy people to be fcking around.
Young women aren't very confident, so when a young head pumping nikka comes along with the "you a bad bytch" garbage, she feels alive.
Age brackets speaks volumes to what the OP is talking about. its really no set in stone scenarios to it.
The only reason this site champions cold approaches so much is because nikkas on The Coli have no friends.
Don't salute that bullshyt.
Ummmmm no
I've never had a dime approach me. I've had plenty of chics that were "straight for the stroke" as Corey Holcomb says approach me. You think Beyoncé got at Jay-Z?
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