If You're A Shy Man You Should Know Women Despise You And You Don't Deserve to Get Laid

[DREAMZZZ]

False. Women know whether they find you attractive physically, but "liking" is at a different level. If a woman finds you physically attractive but you come off like a weak ass b**ch, then she ain't gonna wanna deal with you. Whereas if she finds you attractive, and you come off as confident, intelligent, witty, then the draws are yours. Approaching with confidence gives you the opportunity to show yourself in a appealing manner to someone you don't have regular access to.

As far as making your feelings known upfront, if you aren't coming off as thirsty, then she can't use it against you. Yeah, she knows you want her, but there's a gang of other chicks that you want as well, and she may have to s**t or get off the pot. It's only a disadvantage when you have one-itis and only are focusing on her.

If you are getting the quality and quantity of women you want without approaching, and without having to expend excessive effort into social situations to create opportunities, then cool. Do you. But for some cats, they may want something a little better or different than what is in their social circumference, and may not feel like trying to make 8 billion friends just to get in those type situations, when they can just spit at something they like when they see it.

You make a good point. I should have specified the difference between physical attraction and personality.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Expect Nicki Minaj looking type of broads to approach you on the street brehs.

 

[Weaver31]

Assuming you're a guy, I find it hard to believe that any man would have the mentality that approaching a woman puts the man at a "disadvantage". (Maybe I need you to elaborate what you meant by that)

As a man you should know that YOU are the hunter. You go get what you want.

As a man you should also know that women love boldness & aggressiveness. Walking up to a lady respectfully, introducing yourself and dropping a light compliment makes you more attractive IMMEDIATELY in her eyes.

Not saying its always gonna work, but women like being hunted. Women like to be pursued. Its how its always been since the beginning of time.

If men stopped being the more aggressive and waited on "signs", the worlds population would decrease dramatically because its NOT in a woman's DNA to hunt down the opposite sex. That's OUR role as men.

If you approach and make it clear that you're feeling her, THEN its up to her to give back signals that she's open for further interaction. If no signals, KIM.

Maybe I'm just from the old-school but I feel that its a mans role to pursue. I can't get with y'all "bu but but why can't women approach" mentality

I agree with a lot what u saying but ur old school mentality doesn't factor in how shyt is nowadays and how much power a woman has. Approaching a woman can put a man at a disadvantage if the woman isn't sexually attracted to him or attracted in any way...or if it doesn't benefit her social status. Social media helps giving a man a disadvantage because even women who aren't in the top percentage are gassed up...that includes obese, unattractive and ill built women. So many thirsty men, simps, and top level men gas these women up...both the top tier women, average ones and lower tier ones. This give those women high confidence and even cockiness. They could dismiss a good man for no good reason and people will fault that man and look down to him. Society doesn't hold women accountable for a lot of shyt and that includes choosing men who aren't good for them long term. This is part that gives them power. Some men just don't want to put themselves in a position to fail.

 

[Ill-Mind]

Women do not feel an obligation to approach men because of the mentally that a mans job is to chase women like pray. Women decide whether they like you or not before you even approach them. Saying a witty one liner or dropping compliments will not better your chances if she has already written you off. A lot of time and energy can be saved if men would dial back this mentally that we have to chase women. In my experiences of approaching women I meet a lot of time wasters, attention wh0res, people already taken, and users. Also, when you peruse, you are making your feelings for the other person known up front. This information can be used against you to manipulate you into doing things for her because she already knows what you are after. This is why I stated in my original comment that approaching women puts you at a disadvantage.

Not true. In a LOT of cases, a woman may not be feeling a dude based simply off of his appearance. But once said dude interacts with her and she gets a FEEL(keyword here) for who the dude is, her perception of the dude changes in his favor.

That's why you see a lot average/below average dudes with tight mouthpieces eatin.

 

[DREAMZZZ]

Not true. In a LOT of cases, a woman may not be feeling a dude based simply off of his appearance. But once said dude interacts with her and she gets a FEEL(keyword here) for who the dude is, her perception of the dude changes in his favor.

That's why you see a lot average/below average dudes with tight mouthpieces eatin.

I've already conceded that point.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Too much attention put on p*ssy is why we are we're we are as a nation and why bytches out of control. Stop gassin em and keep it moving with whatever you doin. shyt got so bad that fat bytches thinking they on some other shyt.

 

[ZoeGod]

Assuming you're a guy, I find it hard to believe that any man would have the mentality that approaching a woman puts the man at a "disadvantage". (Maybe I need you to elaborate what you meant by that)

As a man you should know that YOU are the hunter. You go get what you want.

As a man you should also know that women love boldness & aggressiveness. Walking up to a lady respectfully, introducing yourself and dropping a light compliment makes you more attractive IMMEDIATELY in her eyes.

Not saying its always gonna work, but women like being hunted. Women like to be pursued. Its how its always been since the beginning of time.

If men stopped being the more aggressive and waited on "signs", the worlds population would decrease dramatically because its NOT in a woman's DNA to hunt down the opposite sex. That's OUR role as men.

If you approach and make it clear that you're feeling her, THEN its up to her to give back signals that she's open for further interaction. If no signals, KIM.

Maybe I'm just from the old-school but I feel that its a mans role to pursue. I can't get with y'all "bu but but why can't women approach" mentality

I think it comes from a combination of things. Nowadays you can get the draws without approaching. I know nikkas who use Tinder, IG, POF and other apps to get p*ssy and they good at it. My homeboy since January has slept with 8 chicks of IG. shyt is crazy. So most nikkas think that is a way to get the skins. Others meet chicks through a circle of friends or social events. Like if your homegirl invites you to her B-Day party and introduces you to her cousin from Houston or some shyt. My cousin met his current girl through a friend and she is loyal as fukk. And not lot of dudes approach so dudes do not do it. My thing is there is something for everybody. Certain nikkas are good at online dating apps others meet women through circle of friends and some approach. It is like a math equation. 2+2=4. So does 1+3 and 0+4. So there are different ways to get vagina. Neither way is wrong. And the last thing is that alot of dudes are terrified about approaching.

Me personally I suck at online dating. I have had previous relationships through circle of friends and approaching. I know that when I don't approach I go through miserable dry spells. Like right now I'm in grad school in a tough doctorate program. I am in class from 8 am-5pm almost daily. I go to the gym after then dinner then study. The only time I see some pretty shorties is at the cafeteria or the gym. I keep telling myself I don't have time to approach but it is bullshyt excuses. So I have to get back in the game because since I started in January I have been in a dry spell. The thing is approaching is like an exercise you gotta train that muscle.

 

[bennyfein]

So I've been goin to the bookstore every day but nobody has fallen in love w me yet when is some stranger gonna see me from afar & hear "prototype" but Outkast play in their head & then decide I'm the love of their life

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

So I've been goin to the bookstore every day but nobody has fallen in love w me yet when is some stranger gonna see me from afar & hear "prototype" but Outkast play in their head & then decide I'm the love of their life

You haven't been on the Coli long enough.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I think it comes from a combination of things. Nowadays you can get the draws without approaching. I know nikkas who use Tinder, IG, POF and other apps to get p*ssy and they good at it. My homeboy since January has slept with 8 chicks of IG. shyt is crazy. So most nikkas think that is a way to get the skins. Others meet chicks through a circle of friends or social events. Like if your homegirl invites you to her B-Day party and introduces you to her cousin from Houston or some shyt. My cousin met his current girl through a friend and she is loyal as fukk. And not lot of dudes approach so dudes do not do it. My thing is there is something for everybody. Certain nikkas are good at online dating apps others meet women through circle of friends and some approach. It is like a math equation. 2+2=4. So does 1+3 and 0+4. So there are different ways to get vagina. Neither way is wrong. And the last thing is that alot of dudes are terrified about approaching.

Me personally I suck at online dating. I have had previous relationships through circle of friends and approaching. I know that when I don't approach I go through miserable dry spells. Like right now I'm in grad school in a tough doctorate program. I am in class from 8 am-5pm almost daily. I go to the gym after then dinner then study. The only time I see some pretty shorties is at the cafeteria or the gym. I keep telling myself I don't have time to approach but it is bullshyt excuses. So I have to get back in the game because since I started in January I have been in a dry spell. The thing is approaching is like an exercise you gotta train that muscle.

Where r u at for you to say dudes are terrified to approach and what makes you thing that?

 

[xCivicx]

Women do not feel an obligation to approach men because of the mentally that a mans job is to chase women like pray. Women decide whether they like you or not before you even approach them. Saying a witty one liner or dropping compliments will not better your chances if she has already written you off. A lot of time and energy can be saved if men would dial back this mentally that we have to chase women. In my experiences of approaching women I meet a lot of time wasters, attention wh0res, people already taken, and users. Also, when you peruse, you are making your feelings for the other person known up front. This information can be used against you to manipulate you into doing things for her because she already knows what you are after. This is why I stated in my original comment that approaching women puts you at a disadvantage.

Facts

I feel no obligation to try and "win" a female over

Either you're feeling my energy from jump or you get ignored

It's that simple

Dudes who are unable to attract a female non-verbally don't like hearing this though /shrug

 

[xCivicx]

False. Women know whether they find you attractive physically, but "liking" is at a different level. If a woman finds you physically attractive but you come off like a weak ass b**ch, then she ain't gonna wanna deal with you. Whereas if she finds you attractive, and you come off as confident, intelligent, witty, then the draws are yours. Approaching with confidence gives you the opportunity to show yourself in a appealing manner to someone you don't have regular access to.

As far as making your feelings known upfront, if you aren't coming off as thirsty, then she can't use it against you. Yeah, she knows you want her, but there's a gang of other chicks that you want as well, and she may have to s**t or get off the pot. It's only a disadvantage when you have one-itis and only are focusing on her.

If you are getting the quality and quantity of women you want without approaching, and without having to expend excessive effort into social situations to create opportunities, then cool. Do you. But for some cats, they may want something a little better or different than what is in their social circumference, and may not feel like trying to make 8 billion friends just to get in those type situations, when they can just spit at something they like when they see it.

Case in point

You want the type of females that approach who they like to be "of lower quality" because that makes you feel better about yourself

I've only ever pulled a chick from my social circle once

Every other female I've ever been with has been a complete stranger

You should stop making assumptions and actually read what is being posted in here

It might help you

 

[xCivicx]

Not true. In a LOT of cases, a woman may not be feeling a dude based simply off of his appearance. But once said dude interacts with her and she gets a FEEL(keyword here) for who the dude is, her perception of the dude changes in his favor.

That's why you see a lot average/below average dudes with tight mouthpieces eatin.

So what you mean to say is that dudes who can't attract a female non-verbally need to tapdance for a female cuz that's the only chance they have at winning her over

 

[TheArchitect]

I agree with a lot what u saying but ur old school mentality doesn't factor in how shyt is nowadays and how much power a woman has. Approaching a woman can put a man at a disadvantage if the woman isn't sexually attracted to him or attracted in any way...or if it doesn't benefit her social status. Social media helps giving a man a disadvantage because even women who aren't in the top percentage are gassed up...that includes obese, unattractive and ill built women. So many thirsty men, simps, and top level men gas these women up...both the top tier women, average ones and lower tier ones. This give those women high confidence and even cockiness. They could dismiss a good man for no good reason and people will fault that man and look down to him. Society doesn't hold women accountable for a lot of shyt and that includes choosing men who aren't good for them long term. This is part that gives them power. Some men just don't want to put themselves in a position to fail.

fukking frustrating....shyt like this makes me not even want to bother....

At first growing up I was too shy and timid to approach....then once I saw the game for what it actually is, it turned into being unmotivated and pessimistic. It's not even that I don't want to interact with females, it just seems futile most of the time. It's hard for me to have a convo with most, because they usually have no kind of substance. Their sense of humor either sucks or is non-existant, and they have this attitude where they don't have to do shyt but judge and wait for nikkaz to entertain they asses. it's almost like basically if you don't at least LOOK LIKE you have one of the three records (Criminal, athletic, or record DEAL) you ain't good enough....Then a lot of them just follow and swallow. They could like you but if their friends don't for whatever reason, you magically ain't good enough. The only thing that negates anything I said is MONEY....

Games all fukked up. I see more cons than pros by a longshot.

DESERVE to get laid? fukk that, is it even WORTH IT???

 

[Larry Lambo]

Case in point

You want the type of females that approach who they like to be "of lower quality" because that makes you feel better about yourself

I've only ever pulled a chick from my social circle once

Every other female I've ever been with has been a complete stranger

You should stop making assumptions and actually read what is being posted in here

It might help you

Huh? Most of the dudes in here talking about getting chose and women letting them know they are down have said it's mainly chicks in their circle. You are one of the exceptions.

I never said that women that throw signals are "lower quality". I'm saying it limits your opportunities in terms of quality. Like if 9's and 10's aren't overtly giving you signs you won't have that opportunity. I'd rather go for something I really want and fail than not go for it. I'm not going to spend a lot of time and energy on it (hollering literally takes 2-3 minutes), but I go for what I want and don't care if I get told yes or no.