If You're A Shy Man You Should Know Women Despise You And You Don't Deserve to Get Laid

Straw Hat Luffy

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This thread is fire. Needs a lot more pages of detail and input.
I read this entire thread. Some of you nikkas :dahell:. And I'm not talking about the brothers struggling to get females.
I'm talking about you :duck: if she finds you attractive she'd approach you end the thread now type of nikkas.:hhh: In what way was that type of advice actually any advice or insightful at all? Did you nikkas ever think of the fact that dudes who are shy to approach women might be shy in general so they will never be in the social situation for women to approach them?:hhh: Did you ever think that the women that approaches them might not be the type of girls the guy is into?:hhh:

"if she doesn't approach you or show any signs she likes you then she not into you." :gucci: I thought game was for situations like this... ya know to get women who don't like you or give you any attention to win them over not being able to attract women off your appearance?
You think fat goofy lookin mother fukkers that get bytches get them by playing the mysterious silent waiting on a girl to talk first type?

Im thinking some of you guys are misleading yourselves into thinking you can approach women and have some type of game when in general when she approaches you and you two fukk or whatever she hunted you down and just because you got lucky with a girl here and there doesn't mean you have any game.


Coli men out here struggling as I said this thread needs more input because the first few pages were great from all points of view until it just became lol nikkas don't know how to talk to a girl or she'd approach you first type of shyt.
 

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Now from my experience. MY honest truth. I've ALWAYS approached first for every time I got some p*ssy.
I'm not even gonna say I'm a player or have "game" because last time I got some p*ssy was in July.
And you know why I haven't gotten any since? Because I haven't approached women since then.
See what happens when I waited around? Not one damn female came at me during that time period.
I know my problem tho. Ya boy got that porn addiction that makes me content and makes me not want to go out and work for something.
But ya know what.. I got a girls snapchat in my class last week and I talked to her all day today actually.
But the point is I never would have gotten someway to communicate with her if I didn't talk to her first.
And ya know why? She nor do any of the women in my class talk at all really.
The girlfriend I had last year never talked or showed any insight into liking me until I approached her and we got to know each other.
Someone pointed it out earlier. the girl approaching you first idea is basically an age thing. The only female I had approach me was 40 and she made it clear she wanted to fukk. Girls I interact with my age are silent and rarely give any hints of them liking me only AFTER I already took the risk and approached them and succeeded by getting a number or a snapchat.

Someone also pointed out social media changed the game for the worse. I agree and disagree at the same time. I feel like social media has made some of my generation unaware of how to keep a conversation going. Because I even think of what should I say next when in reality there is unlimited things to talk about. But I feel like social media has made it easier to get a girl.

For my brehs struggling to approach a girl it really just comes down to self esteem, confidence, and prepared for rejection.
I don't know when and how but a lot of todays men struggle with the concept of being rejected and moving on.
For some reason that entire concept gets stuck into a dude head which leads into a slippery slope like "man shes that pretty she'd obviously reject me" which results into losing confidence to even having a simple convo with a pretty chick.

Realistically overthinking is what kills everything my bros. Being rejected isn't the end of the road.
 

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Women will approach the men they're really attracted to. If you're not getting approached - or at least stared at - then you're not attractive.
In what setting? At school, work, etc I don't get approached at all other then on some friendly shyt. I do get stares though, and women choosing.

I've been approached on the weekends but never direct. It was always some accidentally bump into me and things like that.
 

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That's how I felt cause I'm still somewhat of a big dude. I mean lost 30 pounds but it's hard to shake that defeatist mentality sometimes
I know that feeling. But at the same time the girl who you think is to pretty for you ends up dating some dude who you think is goofy.
I guess the best way to look at it is this way. Why look down on yourself when you could think you are the shyt now?
 

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I know that feeling. But at the same time the girl who you think is to pretty for you ends up dating some dude who you think is goofy.
I guess the best way to look at it is this way. Why look down on yourself when you could think you are the shyt now?
That's true. I'm changing myself for the better anyway. That mentality is something I refuse to keep. The worst that can be said is no. Bottom line there's no reason to quit. :ehh:
 

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I remember I went out with this group of guys, there was this one dude, he was new to the city. When we got to the club, dude was literally making moves to every single female in the club till he got a yes. At the end of the night he was in his dorm room fukking, chick was fine as fukk, but she was a slut lol. She had a few kids by different men. At least homie got him a nut.

Nikka taught me a lesson, dont take rejections personally, keep campaigning like an election campaign, till you get elected.
 

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Facts,

If you're scared to approach women you don't deserve the p*ssy. If you're scared of rejection you don't deserve to see what that mouth do.
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All my past girlfriends approached me.
Although you should never be scared to make a move,letting hoes come to you is always an option and aint nothing like a motivated buyer coming to fukk with you. When most girls step you you,they're extra ready to get down.
 

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lol, like woman don't do the exact same shyt. i've had bytches following me through a club always standing next to me without saying a word, hoping i'd strike up a conversation. others been sending me messages on facebook, telling me where they saw me and that they'd love to talk to me. it's rare for a woman to straight up tell you she is interested in you, most of the time they try to give you hints and make you approach her. but when men do it it's weird. gtfoh with that shyt.
 

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I'm a shy Cancer, I just let off a shot a hour ago

Got a text back and I'm going in later

Helps being Shy AND attractive :yeshrug:

In my younger years, literal teen years, I was super shy and always had girls approach me first mom dukes made a sure a nikka had on Polo, Karl Kani and/or Jordans :ohlawd::smugdraper::birdman:
 

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I'm a shy Cancer, I just let off a shot a hour ago

Got a text back and I'm going in later

Helps being Shy AND attractive :yeshrug:

In my younger years, literal teen years, I was super shy and always had girls approach me first mom dukes made a sure a nikka had on Polo, Karl Kani and/or Jordans :ohlawd::smugdraper::birdman:
Women go through so much to look good for us to approach them.
 

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fukk thrm hoes. p*ssy come & go. Why a nikka shouldn't be shy is for his career. That shyt will hold you back. You'll get passed over and never be put in a leadership position. If you want something brehs, speak up! Be noticed brehs, be noticed.
 
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