If You're A Shy Man You Should Know Women Despise You And You Don't Deserve to Get Laid

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I'm a shy Cancer, I just let off a shot a hour ago

Got a text back and I'm going in later

Helps being Shy AND attractive :yeshrug:

In my younger years, literal teen years, I was super shy and always had girls approach me first mom dukes made a sure a nikka had on Polo, Karl Kani and/or Jordans :ohlawd::smugdraper::birdman:


Im a Cancer too & I approach like crazy:yeshrug:

I just have no fukks to give. These bytches are just as scared as u and me actually more so
 

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Honestly I carry around so much shame from not being successful with women before and the state of my life right now that it's damn near impossible for me to envision a scenario where a woman would want to deal with me. I try to psych myself up for this but idk

Most these women out there fukked up themselves:mjlol:

I get what you saying but alot of dudes let social media fukk their heads all up. Everybody's lives is together on social media. Everybody is happy and ballin on social media. Honestly, MOST people are living average "paycheck to paycheck" lives.

Dont let that shyt fool ya bro. Continue to get your shyt together for YOU, but don't think that all these women got their shyt together either. You would be surprised at some of these "dimes" who don't even have a car.
 

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Most these women out there fukked up themselves:mjlol:

I get what you saying but alot of dudes let social media fukk their heads all up. Everybody's lives is together on social media. Everybody is happy and ballin on social media. Honestly, MOST people are living average "paycheck to paycheck" lives.

Dont let that shyt fool ya bro. Continue to get your shyt together for YOU, but don't think that all these women got their shyt together either. You would be surprised at some of these "dimes" who don't even have a car.


100% truth... most of these so called dimes u see on social media live on section 8, collecting welfare, working at daycare centers and struggling like most people..

it's just like these nikkas who believe these porn hoes are un approachable, but in reality majority of them hoes are broke
 

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Care to elaborate.
Assuming you're a guy, I find it hard to believe that any man would have the mentality that approaching a woman puts the man at a "disadvantage". (Maybe I need you to elaborate what you meant by that)

As a man you should know that YOU are the hunter. You go get what you want.

As a man you should also know that women love boldness & aggressiveness. Walking up to a lady respectfully, introducing yourself and dropping a light compliment makes you more attractive IMMEDIATELY in her eyes.

Not saying its always gonna work, but women like being hunted. Women like to be pursued. Its how its always been since the beginning of time.

If men stopped being the more aggressive and waited on "signs", the worlds population would decrease dramatically because its NOT in a woman's DNA to hunt down the opposite sex. That's OUR role as men.

If you approach and make it clear that you're feeling her, THEN its up to her to give back signals that she's open for further interaction. If no signals, KIM.

Maybe I'm just from the old-school but I feel that its a mans role to pursue. I can't get with y'all "bu but but why can't women approach:sadcam:" mentality

:yeshrug:
 

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Assuming you're a guy, I find it hard to believe that any man would have the mentality that approaching a woman puts the man at a "disadvantage". (Maybe I need you to elaborate what you meant by that)

As a man you should know that YOU are the hunter. You go get what you want.

As a man you should also know that women love boldness & aggressiveness. Walking up to a lady respectfully, introducing yourself and dropping a light compliment makes you more attractive IMMEDIATELY in her eyes.

Not saying its always gonna work, but women like being hunted. Women like to be pursued. Its how its always been since the beginning of time.

If men stopped being the more aggressive and waited on "signs", the worlds population would decrease dramatically because its NOT in a woman's DNA to hunt down the opposite sex. That's OUR role as men.

If you approach and make it clear that you're feeling her, THEN its up to her to give back signals that she's open for further interaction. If no signals, KIM.

Maybe I'm just from the old-school but I feel that its a mans role to pursue. I can't get with y'all "bu but but why can't women approach:sadcam:" mentality

:yeshrug:
Damn shame how this is hard for some cats to comprehend. I always wondered what kind of dudes was so desperate that they had to pay prostitutes.....this thread helped me understand. The cats that's too afraid to get at a woman.

Tariq Nasheed made a killing off them kind of nikkas.
 

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Assuming you're a guy, I find it hard to believe that any man would have the mentality that approaching a man puts the man at a "disadvantage". (Maybe I need you to elaborate what you meant by that)

As a man you should know that YOU are the hunter. You go get what you want.

As a man you should also know that women love boldness & aggressiveness. Walking up to a lady respectfully, introducing yourself and dropping a light compliment makes you more attractive IMMEDIATELY in her eyes.

Not saying its always gonna work, but women like being hunted. Women like to be pursued. Its how its always been since the beginning of time.

If men stopped being the more aggressive and waited on "signs", the worlds population would decrease dramatically because its NOT in a woman's DNA to hunt down the opposite sex. That's OUR role as men.

If you approach and make it clear that you're feeling her, THEN its up to her to give back signals that she's open for further interaction. If no signals, KIM.

Maybe I'm just from the old-school but I feel that its a mans role to pursue. I can't get with y'all "bu but but why can't women approach:sadcam:" mentality

:yeshrug:
Women do not feel an obligation to approach men because of the mentally that a mans job is to chase women like pray. Women decide whether they like you or not before you even approach them. Saying a witty one liner or dropping compliments will not better your chances if she has already written you off. A lot of time and energy can be saved if men would dial back this mentally that we have to chase women. In my experiences of approaching women I meet a lot of time wasters, attention wh0res, people already taken, and users. Also, when you peruse, you are making your feelings for the other person known up front. This information can be used against you to manipulate you into doing things for her because she already knows what you are after. This is why I stated in my original comment that approaching women puts you at a disadvantage.
 

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Damn shame how this is hard for some cats to comprehend. I always wondered what kind of dudes was so desperate that they had to pay prostitutes.....this thread helped me understand. The cats that's too afraid to get at a woman.

Tariq Nasheed made a killing off them kind of nikkas.
There are some valid reason why some men would pay for prostitutes.
 

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Assuming you're a guy, I find it hard to believe that any man would have the mentality that approaching a woman puts the man at a "disadvantage". (Maybe I need you to elaborate what you meant by that)

As a man you should know that YOU are the hunter. You go get what you want.

As a man you should also know that women love boldness & aggressiveness. Walking up to a lady respectfully, introducing yourself and dropping a light compliment makes you more attractive IMMEDIATELY in her eyes.

Not saying its always gonna work, but women like being hunted. Women like to be pursued. Its how its always been since the beginning of time.

If men stopped being the more aggressive and waited on "signs", the worlds population would decrease dramatically because its NOT in a woman's DNA to hunt down the opposite sex. That's OUR role as men.

If you approach and make it clear that you're feeling her, THEN its up to her to give back signals that she's open for further interaction. If no signals, KIM.

Maybe I'm just from the old-school but I feel that its a mans role to pursue. I can't get with y'all "bu but but why can't women approach:sadcam:" mentality

:yeshrug:

But you like men tho :mjlol:

maybe he gained weight on purpose for Taking Of Pelham 123 cuz he looked like shyt but he looked DAMN good in Book Of Eli the next year
 
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Women do not feel an obligation to approach men because of the mentally that a mans job is to chase women like pray. Women decide whether they like you or not before you even approach them. Saying a witty one liner or dropping compliments will not better your chances if she has already written you off. A lot of time and energy can be saved if men would dial back this mentally that we have to chase women. In my experiences of approaching women I meet a lot of time wasters, attention wh0res, people already taken, and users. Also, when you peruse, you are making your feelings for the other person known up front. This information can be used against you to manipulate you into doing things for her because she already knows what you are after. This is why I stated in my original comment that approaching women puts you at a disadvantage.

False. Women know whether they find you attractive physically, but "liking" is at a different level. If a woman finds you physically attractive but you come off like a weak ass b**ch, then she ain't gonna wanna deal with you. Whereas if she finds you attractive, and you come off as confident, intelligent, witty, then the draws are yours. Approaching with confidence gives you the opportunity to show yourself in a appealing manner to someone you don't have regular access to.

As far as making your feelings known upfront, if you aren't coming off as thirsty, then she can't use it against you. Yeah, she knows you want her, but there's a gang of other chicks that you want as well, and she may have to s**t or get off the pot. It's only a disadvantage when you have one-itis and only are focusing on her.

If you are getting the quality and quantity of women you want without approaching, and without having to expend excessive effort into social situations to create opportunities, then cool. Do you. But for some cats, they may want something a little better or different than what is in their social circumference, and may not feel like trying to make 8 billion friends just to get in those type situations, when they can just spit at something they like when they see it.
 
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