If You're A Man That Doesn't Drink Or Smoke Odds Are Your Dating Life Sucks

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It's extremely uncommon for men and women. I remember running into a friend from middle school some years ago. He was saying we should hangout and catch up, he asked me if I smoked or drank and I said no. He jokingly said if that's the case we don't have a reason to hang out but I truthfully agreed with him.

It's kind of hard to hang out with people who indulge if you don't. A sober guy and a drunk don't usually click.

I can understand that, I think it’s because they make assumptions off the notion you guys are different in that aspect and they think you’re either judging them negatively, or they judge you negatively and assume you don’t have any fun.

Some dudes Ive talked to..when they first learn usually say something along the lines of “if you don’t drink or smoke what do you do for fun” but I know that’s not all they do, so it’s just what people make up in their minds regarding your character.
The friends I have that do it, don’t mind it cause we know we get along based off other things.
 

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I know for a fact Ive missed out on fukking some decent looking Tinder/POF jump offs cuz I dont (or rather cant) smoke.

TBH though aside from easy sex i find most weed head bytches are retarded bums with hella dysfunction so its prolly for the best. :yeshrug:
Yep.
 

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Even the girls I thought were good girls are getting high now.
This is the problem right here. You putting em on a pedestal with that "good girl" shyt

Plus is it really that big of a deal if a chick smokes or drinks? Not everyone who indulges is an addict like people in this thread make it seem
 

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This is the problem right here. You putting em on a pedestal with that "good girl" shyt

Plus is it really that big of a deal if a chick smokes or drinks? Not everyone who indulges is an addict like people in this thread make it seem
Depends on if she can function without it.
 

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I never smoked or dranked. Dating can be challenging because of it. The fact that I dont have social media doesnt help.:skip:I get a lot of :patrice:and:francis:.

This is me adding with the fact I'm a total homebody.

I manage though because the females still see me as someone fun to be around and whatnot.
 
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I was 4 years sober till i took a vacation.
I was sauced every night for 13 nights and didnt have a hangover once

That sun, sea and fresh non processed food be hitting different
 
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