If You're A Man That Doesn't Drink Or Smoke Odds Are Your Dating Life Sucks

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That alcohol can be a crutch socially like a mf
 
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You don't have a social media? That means you cold approach like a real one :ehh:
Cold approaching has become really easy since getting in shape. My confidence skyrocketed. Smashed a few damn near dimes because I wasn't scared. I got in the game late though. I'm 29 and ain't fukk until I was 24.
 

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question: why does everyone think the cold approach is really that hard? i mean, I understand why people find DMs and shyt like that corny, but what’s so hard about talking to other humans? The only hard part, I’d imagine, is wondering if it’s worth your time. But, that’s why I’m a man of few words in general; as not to waste time or energy

You don’t get props for doing what normal humans do...
 

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This is the same reason I’ve never smoked or drank alcohol in my life after seeing so many drunks and hearing stories about fiends that had their futures/lives ruined growing up I decided not to ever touch that stuff
I drink all the time and I smoke. 2 beers on average when I'm drinking. I drink more during festivities.

I've seen people with liquor bottles in their desk... I know many women that walk with flasks in their bags and you would never know. A lot of people have issues with self control.
 

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Cold approaching has become really easy since getting in shape. My confidence skyrocketed. Smashed a few damn near dimes because I wasn't scared. I got in the game late though. I'm 29 and ain't fukk until I was 24.
Confidence is paramount to all success. 24 is getting in the game late....but better late than never :manny:
 

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Whatever good you did in your previous lifes... El Lawd is redeeming you for it in this one.




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He body is so righteous... she had focused chess players screaming hallelujah.




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We broke up and I have no idea who the woman in my avy is
 

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Do y’all really meet that many black women who do one of those?

I don’t do drink or smoke, my sister rarely drinks and never smokes, my mom never smokes and never liked drinking. Of my friend circle, only one smokes semi-regularly..., and another is a social drinker but she’s not pressed to drink, the rest don’t do either.

I don’t care if someone does either, just as long as it’s not excessive and they don’t bring it into my space. I would also say the two I know are fairly responsible with it.
 

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Do y’all really meet that many black women who do one of those?

I don’t do drink or smoke, my sister rarely drinks and never smokes, my mom never smokes and never liked drinking. Of my friend circle, only one smokes semi-regularly..., and another is a social drinker but she’s not pressed to drink, the rest don’t do either.

I don’t care if someone does either, just as long as it’s not excessive and they don’t bring it into my space. I would also say the two I know are fairly responsible with it.
When I was in the field I don't recall coming across one woman that didnt drink or smoke.
 

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Hm, interesting, I could see it being somewhat uncommon, but not one jeez
 

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Hm, interesting, I could see it being somewhat uncommon, but not one jeez
It's extremely uncommon for men and women. I remember running into a friend from middle school some years ago. He was saying we should hangout and catch up, he asked me if I smoked or drank and I said no. He jokingly said if that's the case we don't have a reason to hang out but I truthfully agreed with him.

It's kind of hard to hang out with people who indulge if you don't. A sober guy and a drunk don't usually click.
 
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