If Your Dream Girl Was A A Past Smut

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I'd have to honestly not care. I'd pass up a lot of good sex/good women trying to find that particular female.
 
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Would you overlook her past?
everybody on the coli dont love these hoes but what if she really was a good match for you?
wat if your ride or die was a smut?:wow:
There are NO past smut...

There are "Biological Smuts" and "Situational Smuts"

The thin line between the two groups is how much they psychologically and biologically enjoy their behaviours...

Biological Smuts are born that way
Possibly due to hormones (hence biology) these women's sexualities were awoken early during development...They probably had a very early sexual experience, that they don't regret...For example, an uncle may have touched them when they were young, but when they remember it, they are either neutral about the experience or they believe that they enjoyed it...

In the past, these women had high probably of behaving in a "crazy or dysfunctional" manner and turn to drugs and other self-destructive behaviours...Society thought it was because of early childhood sexual abuse and etc..But it is was because society was very prudish, and inhibiting these women's need to freely express their sexuality...

Now that society is more open, you see these women make amateur porn videos, post naked pictures online, send vagina pictures to men and etc...And they are enjoying it...Most of these women are highly functional, and they go to their 9-5 just like everybody else...

Situational Smuts are pushed to behave that way
These are women with average sexuality, but they get trapped in situations that forces them to express their sexualities even if they don't want to...If these women were in an environment that supported them, they may or may not have been very sexual...Typically these women use their sexualities in a calculated way to improve their socioeconomic conditions...
Strong situational smuts may prostitute (street, escort, porn) until they get enough assets, and then they will stop, build their lives and never talk about the past...Because it is too shameful to think remember...
Weak situational smuts may prostitute forever, because they don't have the resilience and empowerment to stop doing something they really don't enjoy, but they believe it's the only thing they ever going to be good at...(no different than people who spend lifetimes doing jobs they absolutely hate)...These women are possibly at the highest risk for self-destructive behaviours...Also, this type of smut may even have her children around when she is doing business...and the chances of multiple baby daddies with questionable characters is very high...This smut is essentially a door mat...Dudes use her to gain sexual confidence and then move on...

In conclusion, the behaviour may be troubling, but more important questions are what is the motive and what is the attitude towards the behaviour...?

If Smut is rich, I don't care about the past or present, I just know I will use her for my own advancement...If she makes me her one and only penis, then I win...If she doesn't make me her one and only penis, then I break even...It's a no lose situation..

If it is biological smut, then I am in it for the sexual adventure and education...No emotional or unreasonable financial investment...

If it is a strong situational smut, then I am in it with a very cautions and realistic perspective...Basically, "hope for the best, but be completely prepared for the worst"...We would really have to talk openly and honestly...I would need to know everything she did, why she did it, how did she feel when she was doing it, how does she feel for doing it, who she did it with, where did she do it, for how long did she do it, was it on film or any other recording, who else knows and etc.

If I am satisfied with the responses and I get the sense that she is resilient and the experience did not make her bitter and broken, then I don't see why it wouldn't work...(a) even if she didn't enjoy it, she still has a lot of sexual experience (b) if you treat her with respect and acceptance, she will probably never cheat on you, even if you don't meet her sexual needs, because she has been there done that, and she knows what men are like, and how hard it is to be in a enjoyable supportive relationship, so she will compromise certain things to make the relationship work...

Know that I think about it, I would rather be with a reformed strong situational smut, then any other woman, especially a "good woman", you never know how they will respond when they hit 25 and up, and the hormones start swirl around again...

It is a weak situational smut, then I am NOT getting involved...The vagina isn't worth the trouble you will be exposing yourself to...
 

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:yeshrug: As long as those test are clean, sure.

My dream girl:

-Doesn't want to get married
-Is cool with me being with other women
-Likes other women too
-All around renaissance lady
-Has a career as a chef who has a fiendish passion for food and cooking




So, if I run into her (I highly doubt it) I'm not frontin' on the past :no:
 

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i'm not overlooking shyt. depending on the level of smutness she was at and where her mind is at today, i may choose not to get involved. but her past behavior is definitely a clue to who she is.

keep in mind girls will lie though so the most important thing is to check how she's acting now and follow your gut. if your intuition is telling you that girl used to be a smut and has issues today, even if you have no proof, you should still listen to your gut and treat her accordingly. she may try to shame you into accepting her for who she is but fukk that shyt breh.
 

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fukk outta here. im getting married in like 20 days and if i find out my girl has a slutty ass past i wouldnt think twice about canceling the whole thing. shyt would hurt like a mothafukka but i wouldnt marry a girl thats been gang banged, had her hair and face nutted on, cream pie'd, and sucked half a mile worth of dikks

:camby:
 

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fukk outta here. im getting married in like 20 days and if i find out my girl has a slutty ass past i wouldnt think twice about canceling the whole thing. shyt would hurt like a mothafukka but i wouldnt marry a girl thats been gang banged, had her hair and face nutted on, cream pie'd, and sucked half a mile worth of dikks

:camby:



Haha this nikka here :laff: , Cold as ICE :russ:
 

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Truth be told, every woman (at least 99%) goes through a ho'in phase. It's rare to find one that hasn't (or that won't). You just have to make sure the ho phase was something she did, not who she is.

Imagine if you were a ho with a great body. :lupe:

It would be tempting not to get fukked everyday. :lupe:
 

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Haha this nikka here :laff: , Cold as ICE :russ:

:pachaha: i got curious cause i said "half a mile worth of dikks" so i did the math to see how many dikks that is exactly.

inches in a mile 63,360

half a mile 31,680

31,680/average penis size maybe 7 (:whoa: no homo) = 4,525 dikks :damn:
 

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fukk outta here. im getting married in like 20 days and if i find out my girl has a slutty ass past i wouldnt think twice about canceling the whole thing. shyt would hurt like a mothafukka but i wouldnt marry a girl thats been gang banged, had her hair and face nutted on, cream pie'd, and sucked half a mile worth of dikks

:camby:


bro, you make this sound un-common. Have you never done any of those things to other women? The key is to avoid asking them about it. Once I've done those things to girls i've messed with, and there was no resistance or second guessing on their part, I just assumed it's been done to them before.
 

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bro, you make this sound un-common. Have you never done any of those things to other women? The key is to avoid asking them about it. Once I've done those things to girls i've messed with, and there was no resistance or second guessing on their part, I just assumed it's been done to them before.

Dudes want to be able to get laid a bunch then find the unicorn that has managed to not touch much dikk when they wifey someone.

:heh:
 

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bro, you make this sound un-common. Have you never done any of those things to other women? The key is to avoid asking them about it. Once I've done those things to girls i've messed with, and there was no resistance or second guessing on their part, I just assumed it's been done to them before.

no i mean it in the context of the gang bang i mentioned. i dont mind if my girl had boyfriends in the past and i kno shyt woulda went on i dont wanna know about, but thats different. im talking about full blown smut having all those things done by multiple guys at once like a porno star :scusthov:
 
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