"If you wanna see me you'll give me gas "- who was in the wrong here

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Turbulent

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Dude is wrong for letting the conversation go this far. Once she mentioned gas money he should have just replied "cool, it's all good. Send me a text if you change your mind" and leave it at that. He's not wrong for not sending the money. He's wrong for trying to shame her into doing something she obviously doesn't want to do.
 

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when you live in a rude me first society

They're both wrong, she's a rude a$$

All she had to say was times are hard, can I BORROW(with real intentions to pay back) $20 for gas to get to your place

He in turn would pay, and then say first trip is free on me, or he can say I'll lend you $25 for gas, and don't press her just to see where her intentions are. If he finds she starting to cost him and being rude about it, he should bush her. People want to be rude and expect you to still be kind.

If they're both broke they can work out some type of borrow system

Times are hard everywhere, but being rude and selfish is going to rob so many people of decent connections. the whole culture is built on getting over until the connection is not even valued.


Everybody was broke and poor in the 40s and 50s and worked out a way to be together

Today people create their own emotional hell because they prideful and love being wicked to one another.
 

hatealot

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We don't know how long they've known each other.

How you gone ask a broad to pull up when she ain't got gas? Ole boy know she broke, he shouldn't have even mentioned her pulling up.:skip:

Y'all love fukking with broke women:mjlol:
Yall? nikka you gonna be broke when you put that 1k deposit on that s550 asking for gas money
 
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Neithwe really wrong. But when she said she didnt wanna come on Friday, that solidified she on that BS to me.

He sound like he wouldnt have minded but he didnt wanna get finessed which is reasonable.

Finessed for what though.. $25 - $35 ?

Sounds like the p*ssy really wasn't worth that and the girl probably wasn't going to come either way

Nether one is wrong ..
they negotiated the p*ssy fee and couldn't come to any agreement.. no loss

:yeshrug:
 

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They’re both kinda wrong here. She definitely started it though. Who asks “you gonna give me gas money??” after just meeting. Weird and a red flag. But then he kept it going which was mad childish. That would’ve been the end of the convo for me.
 

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Back when I was in struggling times and going to school, I had a car, but was talking to a chic who had no car but had alot of money.

She really wanted to see me so she would pay my gas half the time, but I ALWAYS paid her back on pay day from my job.

It's really not that complicated, but people in some places are too untrustworthy and miserable to enjoy life anymore
 

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Why not just lie and say you will give her cash when she gets there
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