If you had a chance to change her son's life would you?

[TheBigBopper]

the older you get i feel like you got to be more accepting of the baggage these chicks got


you're gonna be a 50 year old dude talkin about "she got kids?! hell nah..."

at some point you gotta put that shyt aside




im still young though, no broads with kids here

I'd seriously get a mail-order bride before I'd wife a broad with a kid. I am not raising a kid who isn't mine. I hardly want kids of my own.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

HE AIN'T YOUR KID BUT HE WILL INDIRECTLY BE YOUR PROBLEM. JUST TALK TO THE LIL nikka.

 

[OPTiMO]

I'd seriously get a mail-order bride before I'd wife a broad with a kid. I am not raising a kid who isn't mine. I hardly want kids of my own.

what if the childs father is in the picture, you dont gotta raise this kid, you're just with the mother. it shouldnt be your responsibility

 

[beenz]

Nah man.

Jesus saves, I don't.

I don't wish single female mothers any harm, I wish them and their child(ren) the best.

But at the same time:

1.It's too many single women out here.
2.I ain't got time/energy for the baby mama/daddy drama.

, I like that phrase.

 

[The ADD]

at thinking this thread would produce responses different than what is happening.

 

[TheBigBopper]

what if the childs father is in the picture, you dont gotta raise this kid, you're just with the mother. it shouldnt be your responsibility

I wouldn't be with a woman who has a kid. That's too awkward, and if I'm with the woman, I would inevitably be expected to join in raising the kid and loving it as if it's my own. I'm not about that life.

 

[OPTiMO]

I wouldn't be with a woman who has a kid. That's too awkward, and if I'm with the woman, I would inevitably be expected to join in raising the kid and loving it as if it's my own. I'm not about that life.

i feel you. i grew up with a single mom, and i've met some of the dudes she's talked too. as long as they treated my mother right its good, but as soon as they started trying to drop knowledge id hit em with the gtfoh.

i've seen a couple dudes get serious hands put on em by my older brother though, soon as you start arguing with my mom you gotta go

that being said, a single mother is a little more baggage than i'd prefer as well. im just sayin, as you get older, your options become alot slimmer

 

[The ADD]

You meet a girl with a child and yall hit it off. Youre a good man and she's a good woman. So times go by and you notice her son is falling in with the wrong crowd and his grades are dropping. His mom speaks with him but thats his moms its but so much she can do for him. You been on the sidelines for a min now, you interfere with the way she raises him nor do u and kick it much but off the strength of you being a good hard working man you can show him its nothing with working hard and be a good man with priories and goals.



Just one convo would change him forever...do u have it with him or do u just say fukk he aint mine

 

[Just like bruddas]

 

[The ADD]

You meet a girl with a child and yall hit it off. Youre a good man and she's a good woman. So times go by and you notice her son is falling in with the wrong crowd and his grades are dropping. His mom speaks with him but thats his moms its but so much she can do for him. You been on the sidelines for a min now, you interfere with the way she raises him nor do u and kick it much but off the strength of you being a good hard working man you can show him its nothing with working hard and be a good man with priories and goals.



Just one convo would change him forever...do u have it with him or do u just say fukk he aint mine

 

[JBoy]

kid's dad in jail?
nah I wouldn't pursue that

 

[Just like bruddas]

that hurt

 

[MikelArteta]

big difference, kardashian left his family with millions when he died

 

[The ADD]

big difference, kardashian left his family with millions when he died

Bruce had cheese, he didn't need that. And she had four!

 

[The ADD]

You meet a girl with a child and yall hit it off. Youre a good man and she's a good woman. So times go by and you notice her son is falling in with the wrong crowd and his grades are dropping. His mom speaks with him but thats his moms its but so much she can do for him. You been on the sidelines for a min now, you interfere with the way she raises him nor do u and kick it much but off the strength of you being a good hard working man you can show him its nothing with working hard and be a good man with priories and goals.



Just one convo would change him forever...do u have it with him or do u just say fukk he aint mine