If you had a chance to change her son's life would you?

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You meet a girl with a child and yall hit it off. Youre a good man and she's a good woman. So times go by and you notice her son is falling in with the wrong crowd and his grades are dropping. His mom speaks with him but thats his moms its but so much she can do for him. You been on the sidelines for a min now, you interfere with the way she raises him nor do u and kick it much but off the strength of you being a good hard working man you can show him its nothing with working hard and be a good man with priories and goals.



Just one convo would change him forever...do u have it with him or do u just say fukk he aint mine
 

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is his father in the picture? i wouldnt want to step on some other dudes toes, trying to teach his son something if he's still activily involved


if he wasn't then i'd run it past the mother first, see if she minds, if she doesn't then yeah why not.
 

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I felt that way too but now I realize u gotta do be captain save em for be a good role model for the kid...it depends on the mother though.

That's the sucker mentality breh, don't fall for that. :flabbynsick:

You might think you can save the chick, but she has to save herself first before anyone can help her. Let it go.
 

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ish sounds like a corny disney movie story

1. most decent quality men don't mess with women with children (i said most come down "im the exception ass negroes")

2. most women do not want a guy talking to their kids like that

3. have you seen kids these days? lol at talking to any of these brats nowadays you will be hit with the :childplease: you ain;'t my pops nikka fuk you
 

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She will probably curse you out for telling her how to raise her son
 

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is his father in the picture? i wouldnt want to step on some other dudes toes, trying to teach his son something if he's still activily involved


if he wasn't then i'd run it past the mother first, see if she minds, if she doesn't then yeah why not.

nah pops doing a bid
 

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If the father isn't the picture and he's fukking up and you care about him enough show him the way he's a young, just don't get too involved where its like you're the new father figure.
 

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Nah man.

Jesus saves, I don't.

I don't wish single female mothers any harm, I wish them and their child(ren) the best.

But at the same time:

1.It's too many single women out here.
2.I ain't got time/energy for the baby mama/daddy drama.
 

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She will probably curse you out for telling her how to raise her son

"you dont think i can raise my son? i was doing it fine without you, I don't need no man telling me how to raise my kid"

"but i was just trying to help"
 
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