If You Cheat On Your Girlfriend or Wife, That Means

[Draje]

CONSIDERING THAT MEN WERE DESIGNED TO IMPREGNATE AS MANY WOMEN AS POSSIBLE AND HAVE THAT ABILITY, THEN WHAT YOU'RE SAYING IS FUNDAMENTALLY WRONG. SEX IS A LOT LESS OF A MONOGAMOUS THING FOR MEN THAN IT IS FOR WOMEN. THATS WHY DUDES WHO GET HELLA PUZZY ARE REVERED, WHILE BIITCHES WHO TAKE TOO MUCH DICC ARE LOOSE HOES...FEMALES WANA BE EQUAL SO BAD, BUT IT'S IMPOSSIBLE. U PUT A BIITCH ON AN ISLAND WIT A THOUSAND MEN, NO ONE WILL KNOW WHO THE DADDY IS AND U ONLY GUNA GET 1 BABY EVERY 9 MONTHS....U PUT A MAN ON AN ISLAND WIT A THOUSAND WOMEN, THERES GUNA BE HELLA BABIES, AND EVERY1 WILL KNOW WHO THE FATHER IS....THATS NATURE. THAT'S THE WORK OF GOD. STOP FIGHTIN THE TRUTH LADIES

So you also think that women should have total control over abortion and you don't mind child support, right?

Nature and everything, right? Men can't get pregnant but should still be forced to take care of the seed, no matter how they feel?

 

[Jay Kast]

*Sista, and aint it obvious? That bytch knew you was a disloyal fukkboy but chose to turn a blind eye. Coming from a woman, she knew.

No. She had an intuition towards the end but when you've been with someone since you were 16- proof is required before you end it, no matter what way you slice it.

I've never heard of someone who ended a long term relationship just off of intuition and no proof. Especially when a guy has been 100% in every other aspect of life- I wasn't the guy coming home with someones' perfume on me. I was too meticulous.

Even you wouldn't end a relationship off of a HUNCH, for fear of throwing everything away and being the wrong one. Not a long term one, at least.

I love these trendy terms, keep it up brotha.

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

you don't love her, so stop saying that you do..

false

I've cheated on someone I loved

I've also cheated on someone I didn't love.

Men are not women... if a beautiful woman throws it at you in silence .. *most men with jump on it depending on their place in life
and current relationship situation


I will say that in retrospect... I was young & dumb and knowing what I know now.

I would have made a different decision in the situation with the one I loved but hindsight is 20/20

the other chick I still would've cheated on her.. she can hit the bushes I didn't care

 

[Sccit]

So you also think that women should have total control over abortion and you don't mind child support, right?

Nature and everything, right? Men can't get pregnant but should still be forced to take care of the seed, no matter how they feel?

NONE OF WHAT U JUS SAID HAS ANYTHIN TO DO WIT NATURE

 

[Giselle]

CATHARSIS...

Booksnrain is completely right.

There is no love in deception, promiscuity or risking your partners health.

Skip to bottom to get the TL;DR.

I say this as a man who cheated over 150+ times (150+ different women because I never stuck around for them to catch feelings, thats how I figured I would get caught if I EVER did get caught) on the same woman over a 10 yr span.

In the end, we were completely wrong for each other but thats no excuse to be dishonest. Being dishonest is not the trait of a real man and I could never call myself a real man during those times now that I look back on it.

She used to snoop through my shyt (old disabled phones, boxes of receipts and bills, etc..) and whenever she found something or got suspicious I would lie my way out of it and she'd believe me. I remember she found the back of an earring in the bed that wasnt hers and she confronted me like, "Whose is this!?" , I was halfway in the closet in our room and I quickly took the back of my earring out (I wear one) and popped back out like, "Man, I been looking for that shyt since forever- gimme that shyt!", and just snatched it and put it on my earring and wore that bytch forever- and just threw mine away. I was too quick on my feet.

There was one time I was at work and she found my old phone with my GOOGLE VOICE phone number (I always kept 2 phone numbers on the same phone so hos that called the GV # never rang or popped up, but only fam and friends had the real # which would act as normal)... she charged that bytch up and went through all the text messages and she called me screaming... I had a lie ready to go, which was going to be, "Uhh you know Mear, Ron and Heem used to use my phone all the time because they didnt have one right?", which was partly true but I, for some reason just... didnt. It was like that Leonardo Dicaprio movie 'Catch Me If You Can', where at some point he just got tired of it all- tired of running, tired of hiding, tired of lying.

So I came home and she was on the bed crying and I just spilled it all. Everything. I felt like her world had literally broke right in front of me. JESUS, that was the worst feeling I've ever felt- knowing that I was the cause of bringing someone to hell on Earth.

She tried to make it work after the hell storm but it was too fractured to put back together, too many lies were unraveled and mysteries were figured out. She would be sitting with me and think back to something I did and connect the dots in her head and just be despondent and numb. It was like a time lapse of severe depression happening in front of my eyes. There really was nothing I could do. I had stopped cheating around the same time I told her- actually the last time I cheated I just felt like a true piece of shyt, like I've never felt before and I knew at that point it just wasnt me anymore.

Ehhh ... thats enough- if anyone cared enough on the THECOLI, they'd ask.

So, TL;DR- A real man doesnt cheat, simply because its dishonest and a real man is honest at all times, with himself and with others. If you tell the truth, you will never have to remember anything.

If you cheat, you're dishonest, deceptive and risking your partners health. Basically you are a scumbag, and I mean that with the utmost disrespect.

Great post. Every male in here who disagrees should read this. I think I might add it to the op.

What to you so long to stop?

What is she doing now?

Are you wealthy? If not, why do you think she stayed so long?

Why didn't you just leave instead of cheating? You wasted 10 years of her life. She probably felt like she was too old to start over which is why she was willing to stay after you told her the truth.

This reminds me of Cole and his fiance. Except instead of leaving, he's marrying her next month, supposedly.

 

[Giselle]

Maybe you were just on some juvenile gender war male-bashing bullshyt when you made this thread, but me saying you were naive had nothing to do with gender specifics.

Both males and females cheat on people they love all the time. It's not right and I'm not justifying it morally. But cheating often occurs to due personal failings, and inability to cope with situations, not whether or not or how much they love their significant other.

People can truly love someone and cheat on them because of issues they're dealing with internally. Monogamy is difficult and goes against our biological wiring, and people often fail at it. It's not a perfect analogy, but someone could have a food addiction, gambling problem, drug addiction, money spending problem, co-dependency with a family member, or some other type of flaw that leads to the dissolution of a relationship. Cheating can be a personal flaw that's too great to overcome for some people, irrespective or whether or not they love their partner.

Maybe you'll understand that someday when you've gained more knowledge and experience.

You obviously have not read this thread.

 

[Reginald Noble]

you don't love her, so stop saying that you do. If you did, then you wouldn't have cheated.

You don't love or respect her and she should leave after she get revenge$$$$

Just letting you all know.

Fail to understand the difference between Men and Women brehettes.

Fail to understand Men are not biologically built for monogamous relationships brehs/brehettes.

 

[Giselle]

I would never be with a male who said anything like what some of you guys are in here saying. I wouldn't want to be with anyone who thinks like some of you. Or had those same opinions/views. Never.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Demand fidelity from a man when you've let multiple nikkas bust in your guts and mouth brehettes

This has got to be the dumbest logic ever.

 

[King Jae]

Eh...... Yes monogamy isn't natural in the animal kingdom..... Yes humans are mammals.... Here's the kicker....we are intelligent animals capable of using discernment... You think a hyena feels remorse for smashing another hyena that he knows he shouldn't? Humans do... That argument is tired.... Retire it..... Ppl just don't want to grow up... Its OK u can admit it... We have dominion over the earth because of our reasoning faculties... Elephants could rule the world if they could think like humans and had thumbs.... That's what separates man from beast... Yes you have carnal urges but you also have a brain that put satellites into space and built pyramids.... When the last time a dog built a Mars rover?

 

[HoloGraphic]

Yeah just bring the girl over for a threesome.

 

[Yinny]

I disagree, it means you don't love your partner- but you certainly have little respect for them.

Which bugs me out when the person gets more upset at the third party than their sig other when it happens.

 

[Reginald Noble]

I would never be with a male who said anything like what some of you guys are in here saying. I wouldn't want to be with anyone who thinks like some of you. Or had those same opinions/views. Never.

Good luck because you will be with a low libido male or eunuch. 90% of Men think like this but will never admit it to your face.

 

[Reginald Noble]

Yes you have carnal urges but you also have a brain that put satellites into and built pyramids.... When the last time a dog built a Mars rover?

Human advancement is merely testosterone channeled into non-sexual activities. Note the greatest Men in history usually were not faithful to their wives...

On the books maybe fellows like Winston Churchill didn't have "Open" mistresses, but best believe he had pootang behind the scenes...

Leaders have typically very high T levels and while you can do great things it also leads to uncontrollable urges to fukk new Women.

Women in traditional cultures accept this as a part of life with the traditional Alpha male. Western Women are deluded and dreaming.

Prince charming does not exist. If you are looking for a man with 7 figures, 10 inch dikk and swag so are millions of other Women. Get over yourselves, brehettes.

 

[Giselle]

Good luck because you will be with a low libido male or eunuch. 90% of Men think like this but will never admit it to your face.

& that is false. Something that you pulled out of your ass.