If You Cheat On Your Girlfriend or Wife, That Means

[Reginald Noble]

& that is false. Something that you pulled out of your ass.

They will never do studies on Testosterone levels and infidelity because the Feminism collective in the U.S. will have a stroke.

Most Women seek Alpha males but don't want the territory that comes with that Man.

 

[King Jae]

Human advancement is merely testosterone channeled into non-sexual activities. Note the greatest Men in history usually were not faithful to their wives...

On the books maybe fellows like Winston Churchill didn't have "Open" mistresses, but best believe he had pootang behind the scenes...

Leaders have typically very high T levels and while you can do great things it also leads to uncontrollable urges to fukk new Women.

Women in traditional cultures accept this as a part of life with the traditional Alpha male. Western Women are deluded and dreaming.

Prince charming does not exist. If you are looking for a man with 7 figures, 10 inch dikk and swag so are millions of other Women. Get over yourselves, brehettes.

I see what you're getting at but it still shows a lack of restraint regardless of what they might have accomplished... Saying that as someone with a ridiculously high sex drive...sometimes all it takes is the wind to change direction and tent forms out of nowhere....

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

It isn't really cheating if it is just a gf.

 

[Jay Kast]

Great post. Every male in here who disagrees should read this. I think I might add it to the op.

What to you so long to stop?

What is she doing now?

Are you wealthy? If not, why do you think she stayed so long?

Why didn't you just leave instead of cheating? You wasted 10 years of her life. She probably felt like she was too old to start over which is why she was willing to stay after you told her the truth.

This reminds me of Cole and his fiance. Except instead of leaving, he's marrying her next month, supposedly.

I was having my cake and eating it too. I had tunnel vision regarding the extra broads and I never really considered the impact it would have on her or our relationship. Kind of like gambling until your broke and then you're like, "fukk! How did I end up here!?". Others would consider me a sex addict, but addiction is all mental to me.

From one of her good friends who I ran into at Wal-Mart, by the way I didn't ask for information on my ex and I actually told her to stop telling me her business, she is with a bum ass guy who leeches off of, cheats on and beats her.



At the end of our relationship, I was HEAVY in the streets- but I always did very well on the legal side too. Bought my own house cash (1700+ sq ft) and had stacks stashed around the crib. I treated her well but not extravagantly, myself either- I was and am very frugal with money to a point. She never really cared about that because she was with me when I had zilch, nada, and zero. I did all that at 24/25 yrs old w/ no degree (not bragging because I kick myself now for not staying in school). She stayed because she really loved me, no question about it.

I didn't leave because I felt responsible for her, not like a parent and kid but as a protector and provider for someone you care for immensely. My priorities got twisted worse and worse along the way until I broke, which in turn broke her. I never even entertained the idea of splitting up until I told the truth and by then it was necessary. I initiated it, and her family convinced her to leave me be.

 

[Reginald Noble]

I already told my Woman from day one a three some is mandatory and non- negotiable you gotta let them know upfront and in the beginning.

Her only reply was close friends and family are off limits (unfortunately lol)

 

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CATHARSIS...

Booksnrain is completely right.

There is no love in deception, promiscuity or risking your partners health.


So, TL;DR- A real man doesnt cheat, simply because its dishonest and a real man is honest at all times, with himself and with others. If you tell the truth, you will never have to remember anything.

If you cheat, you're dishonest, deceptive and risking your partners health. Basically you are a scumbag, and I mean that with the utmost disrespect.

@Claudex thank you for ur response. Trying to bring a lil common sense to it all!

@Jay Kast
Thank u for your honesty. A lot of these dudes aren't able to admit to what you said because people don't like the idea of looking back and realizing they were doing something different from what they said they were doing. Nobody wants to look at a past relationship or even a present one and realize that you actually didn't love them at all. If you did, you'd be forced to face all the reasons you were actually with them and the reasons why you lied to urself in the first place. Most of is ain't trying to go that deep! That shyt is stressful!!!!

People also put the word "love" on something to describe the depth of their feelings. But intensity isn't always love. You can have intense infatuation for somebody or intense lust or strong feelings for someone w/o having ANYTHING to do with love.

Lastly, people will associate love easily with anything because they
are lazy and they think that once they say they love somebody, it justifies whatever they do to them. Really people take love's name in vain.

When you think of love as a noun instead of a verb, you don't feel the need to be in a state of constant action for the one you love.

You hear some of the excuses. They are literally telling people I love them while describing the hurt they are trying to cause them. It's like saying you trying to put out a fire using a gasoline hose. Lmao!

It's hard to admit that when ur hurting and betraying someone ur not loving them, because for some of us this nebulous concept of "love" is all we got to give. And it's a pretty pathetic thing to admit to when you look back over ur life that in ur interactions with people u weren't even giving that.

 

[Taadow]

Maybe you were just on some juvenile gender war male-bashing bullshyt when you made this thread, but me saying you were naive had nothing to do with gender specifics.

Both males and females cheat on people they love all the time. It's not right and I'm not justifying it morally. But cheating often occurs to due personal failings, and inability to cope with situations, not whether or not or how much they love their significant other.

People can truly love someone and cheat on them because of issues they're dealing with internally. Monogamy is difficult and goes against our biological wiring, and people often fail at it. It's not a perfect analogy, but someone could have a food addiction, gambling problem, drug addiction, money spending problem, co-dependency with a family member, or some other type of flaw that leads to the dissolution of a relationship. Cheating can be a personal flaw that's too great to overcome for some people, irrespective or whether or not they love their partner.

Maybe you'll understand that someday when you've gained more knowledge and experience.

Agree with everything except the red.

 

[Entropy Fan]

This has got to be the dumbest logic ever.

Believe what u want to believe. Most males agree. No one wants to be faithful to a hoe.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Believe what u want to believe. Most males agree. No one wants to be faithful to a hoe.

You don't want to be faithful period, and having sex with men prior to your current boyfriend doesn't make you a "hoe".

 

[Ashley Banks]

You don't want to be faithful period, and having sex with men prior to your current boyfriend doesn't make you a "hoe"

Some men think so, you're only supposed to have sex with them, then die after they have sex with you.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Some men think so, you're only supposed to have sex with them, then die after they have sex with you.

But, they get to fukk any and everyone, but of course they're not hoes when they do that.

 

[Entropy Fan]

You don't want to be faithful period, and having sex with men prior to your current boyfriend doesn't make you a "hoe"

does make u a hoe. And u don't know me so stop with the stupid assumptions.

Loose women created the world that give men countless options to cheat. In a sexualized society a lot of men aren't going to bother with monogamy.

Create a playground and complain when brehs play brehettes

 

[bcrusaderw]

does make u a hoe. And u don't know me so stop with the stupid assumptions.

Loose women created the world that give men countless options to cheat. In a sexualized society a lot of men aren't going to bother with monogamy.

Create a playground and complain when brehs play brehettes

As if men didn't cheat before.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Some men think so, you're only supposed to have sex with them, then die after they have sex with you.

Sounds like more of a woman's logic to me. Women want you to give them your soul but have no problem passing their p*ssy around like chicken wings on a platter

 

[bcrusaderw]

Sounds like more of a woman's logic to me. Women want you to give them your soul but have no problem passing their p*ssy around like chicken wings on a platter

So, women should remain virgins until they meet you, but let me guess you get to fukk anyone you want?