"Single life is the best" "drop that chick, you can do much better"
You fukk around and take their advice only to end up single and realise that single life isn't all it's cracked up to be for ugly or short gang brehs
It's like taking groceries shopping advice from a multi millionaire, the experience and lifestyle are not relatable
I mean....if a woman is a bad fit and y'all can't work it out, you SHOULD move on but don't throw away a great woman over minor bullshyt.
But...you're right about listening to "good looking" brehs. Them dudes can do the most ridiculous shyt and have a woman eating out the palm of their hands; especially if breh is like an 8/9 and the woman is a 6/7.
That's usually what trips guys up. Straight men don't really judge other men but we see the women. So a 6/7-level woman is attractive and we see dude and think "let me copy dude." What we miss is that the man is legitimately good looking by female standards so he has leeway and doesn't need to be perfect. He just has to be willing and not a total dumbazz.
Good looking brehs get positive feedback as early as middle school when girls aren't as smooth with their choosing signals. Those guys learn 'the game' early so by late high school or early college, they can read a woman's interest from a mile away. Hence, they only approach when the odds are in their favor. Being a good looking breh means they'll have more opportunities to hone their skills. He can aim for sistas on his level or just pick off a bunch of adjustable 6s and 7s....and he can use any manner of approach styles, especially if dealing with more average+ looking broads.
Plus, the better looking brehs (combo of face card, height, body and display of $$$) tend to get more overt choosing signals from women as ladies are more willing to use sex up front to nab the really good looking man. Women don't put sex on the table for average and below men unless you know how to finesse your way to the pum pum. Good looking breh can be honest and say he's a fuccboi and she'll STILL try to keep him whereas she'd let Average Breh walk out the door. The Average or Below Average Breh has to be more duplicitous.