If you a dude and talk about weave & hair styles more than a woman....your probably a virgin B

[Chelsea Bridge]

thought she said she was biracial in this thread:

www.thecoli.com/threads/thefemaleperspective-taking-the-coli-by-storm-appreciation.161341/

You don't like short Afros, you don't think nappy hair is good hair and you think black women are no competition for biracials. Damn Marcuz, you're just all kinds of fukked up right now.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I'm not playing dumb, but we're talking about YOU. You're stating this bull shyt.

The girl said she wasn't biracial. She appears to have the same hair as my sister (a dark skin black woman btw).

And the same textures as my mom, aunt, and cousin (on my mom's side). They are all dark skinned like me with black parents.

 

[Arishok]

You're missing the point.

weaves don't hurt us.

Weaves show that YOURE the one who is hurting.

Peep game

How does it show that woman is hurting though? Maybe she just went through the big chop and is rocking the weave until her real hair grows out. Maybe during the winter months, she doesn't want to deal with her hair, so she rocks a weave. Maybe she just wants to rock a different hairstyle without altering her natural hair, be it straight, short, whatever. Not everyone who wears a weave hates their hair breh. I will say a large percentage that wears it does but no everyone.

 

[Ashley Banks]

...but you wear weave...that you claim is with your natural hair...so just rock it natural...

and? I can do what I please.

you're acting as if it's impossible to wear your hair natural AND wear weave sometimes.

 

[marcuz]

Oh, you're one of 'those' black people. I've had some people tell me I'm not really black because 'black' people all have ONE look apparently like Chinese folk. If you're light-skinned or your hair is looser in texture, you must be impure, and your black card must be revoked. Sigh, black people are the most diverse in the world. Even without mixing we come on all shapes, shades, sizes, different hair textures etc. There isn't one universal look for all black people. So no, you're not going to kick me out of the black community. Sorry.

yeah, i'm one of those blacks.

and i would kick you out of the black community if i could. go kick it with barack and halle berry

 

[Greenstrings]

welp, there are no absolutes, never claimed so, and it should be obvious im speaking in generalities.

And maybe that's the problem. With stuff like this it rarely makes sense to do so because a hundred people that buck your trend come out the woodwork and cry foul. If you want to avoid contradicting yourself its best to just address what's in front of you.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

yeah, i'm one of those blacks.

and i would kick you out of the black community if i could. go kick it with barack and halle berry

Thankfully, when I'm filling out a form and I tick 'black', there isn't another box asking: But Does Marcuz think you're black?

 

[marcuz]

You don't like short Afros, you don't think nappy hair is good hair and you think black women are no competition for biracials. Damn Marcuz, you're just all kinds of fukked up right now.

- i have a short afro
- i have nappy hair and i think it's damn good hair
- i dont think black women want to compete with biracials. it's undermining your own womb and black men are already using that rhetoric against you.

 

[KingDanz]

yeah, i'm one of those blacks.

and i would kick you out of the black community if i could. go kick it with barack and halle berry

god damn breh, what happened?

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Attractions

Thats a wack ass answer.

Women are in control of their standards.

Men are STILL gonna smash.

if women change the convo, men must adapt.

 

[marcuz]

Thankfully, when I'm filling out a form and I tick 'black', there isn't another box asking: But Does Marcuz think you're black?

not yet

 

[marcuz]

god damn breh, what happened?

half breeds gotta go, breh

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

How does it show that woman is hurting though? Maybe she just went through the big chop and is rocking the weave until her real hair grows out.

because she hates how her actual hair looks.

Maybe during the winter months, she doesn't want to deal with her hair, so she rocks a weave.

because she hates how her actual hair looks

Maybe she just wants to rock a different hairstyle without altering her natural hair, be it straight, short, whatever.

because she hates how her natural hair looks.

Not everyone who wears a weave hates their hair breh.

they hate it enough not to show it off.

I will say a large percentage that wears it does but no everyone.

not only is this a direct contradiction from your previous sentence, it highlights the fact we've been pointing out all along.

If you're wearing weave, then you're not comfortable with your own hair to present it to the world.

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[Chelsea Bridge]

- i have a short afro
- i have nappy hair and i think it's damn good hair
- i dont think black women want to compete with biracials. it's undermining your own womb and black men are already using that rhetoric against you.

Of course your preferences aren't determined by what you have but by what you want in the opposite sex that's why you made those statements. You're not the first black man to feel that way. In fact, it's quite prevalent in your group.

 

[Arishok]

I have a feeling that many of these men who say they "love" BW with natural hair really like this:

Not this:

Naw, black men love natural hair