If you a dude and talk about weave & hair styles more than a woman....your probably a virgin B

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How you know i don't? :dead: I'm in a thread about weave, so i'm talking about weave. I'm in a thread about porn, so i talk about porn. I'm in a thread about books, so i talk about books. Stop running :ufdup:

:russ: nobody is running...but I wasn't trying to deflect, I was asked a question and I answered it. However, serious question...are you involve in community service?
 

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I agree with everything you said, self image is very important, however, I wish some people would put this much passionate into discussing the topics I mentioned. There are some posters who are more passionate about shytting on women with weave than the young lady in Detroit that got shot. In the end, I hear what you are saying.

Those men are more than likely misogynists and their issue goes deeper than just weaves. :ld:
 

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I guess the issue the have, which the idiots who tried to come at me don't get is maybe we need to try changing our tone. People want to be talked to, not talked at. I don't agree with weaves and hair color but if she looks good, she looks good. It doesn't always have to involve spewing hate and creating animosity.



Whats wrong with simply telling a black woman "You're already beautiful, your complete. You don't need it" instead of agitating her, then blaming her for getting upset?


Black people think that attacking, shocking and tearing each other down is much more effect than just simply informing each other on bad and destructive habits. You can't talk down to someone and expect them to agree with you. This is why we are stuck in this vicious cycle of ignorance.
 

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Black people think that attacking, shocking and tearing each other down is much more effect than just simply informing each other on bad and destructive habits. You can't talk down to someone and expect them to agree with you. This is why we are stuck in this vicious cycle of ignorance.
I'm quite amazed how some people think shytting on people 24/7 is constructive dialogue
 

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Some of these posters simply hate black women, so they will always come from a place of hatred regarding any topic involving black women..... you won't find any of these dudes creating positive or uplifting dialogue like the men on this page https://www.facebook.com/BlackmenwhosupportBlackwomengoingnatural

trying to mask pure hatred with fake concern
 

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:russ: nobody is running...but I wasn't trying to deflect, I was asked a question and I answered it. However, serious question...are you involve in community service?
I volunteer as a mentor to young black boys. :whoa: Don't worry we aren't talking about weaves during those sessions.
 
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