"If he cheated on her, then he will cheat on you" Is it true guys?

[Kasgoinjail]

From a cheaters perspective: Yes I'll probably continue cheating. I cheat because I enjoy the feeling that comes from sneaking around and meeting new women. It's not my girlfriends fault or the side chicks fault. It's my own problem. You just got to be careful not to run into my types.

 

[re'up]

I think people make way too much of infidelity, I am sure in the era of social media posts, it can be esp. humiliating and painful, embarrassing, but by that same logic, unless you are really naive, it shouldn't be hard to discover someone is unfaithful. I'd say 85% or more of the stories I've heard, people missed very obvious signs or ignored them, probably due to subconcious cognitive biases. It was always easy signs, not coming home, not answering phone, rumors, posts on Facebook or Instagram, it was never like a diabolical plot no one could see coming.

Last point, if someone cheats on you, end the relationship, reevaluate, and move on. Enough of the crying and years of anguish. It's logical that many people won't be 100% faithful. Doesn't mean don't trust people. just don't get so strung out on your significant faithful being your one and only, and look at them as a real, flawed person, with the capacity to make mistakes.

 

[MaxPain]

Ive cheated in every relationship Ive ever been in.

To answer OP, not every man is like this but I just dont have a reason to stop cheating. I barely if ever get caught and the few times I have , she takes me back. Every single time. What are my incentives to stop


Its like after I cheat the relationship gets even better. I got my nut and some variety, main gets on point to compete with other women, and I showed her I can and do have options other than her. Women wont admit it but they want to atleast know their man is wanted. Cheating is like a slap across the face to alot of cocky women that ur p*ssy is not all that


And ive yet to have a reason to stop. Like I said I barely get caught. And women dont leave. My energy changes when I cheat even if she doesnt find out she starts to work harder to keep me. Until women start giving men who are faithful the same treatment they give me, and start shunning me then I have no incentive to stop I get to do what I want and get rewarded for it. Who doesnt want that.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

I knew this was true !

I put fear in every man i date

nikkas eat out the palm of ya hand in fear that u will knock his head off if he caught cheating

You sound like the type who doesnt mind getting smacked up for reckless eyeballing..

I like you..

 

[Ashley Banks]

I'm a firm believer in once a cheater always a cheater but sometimes people change as a they get older and experience life. Unfortunately I know a lot of men and women that are permanently damaged due to someone trying to "figure themselves out" and treating them like complete shyt in the process. So even if they don't cheat in every relationship they're still horrible ppl.

 

[Ashley Banks]

My biggest fear

Same some people are just fukked up and don't care.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

I knew this was true !

I put fear in every man i date

nikkas eat out the palm of ya hand in fear that u will knock his head off if he caught cheating

I wouldn't say knock his head off sis...


But I noticed the more I careless the more they care more.

When I was semi doormat and tryna please please please nikkas running circles around me.

 

[Dreadknox77]

I know "If he will cheat with you, then he will cheat on you" is true.

But is it true that if he cheated in his last relationship(s), then he will cheat in his future ones?

Is is true for you? Do you think it's true for most males? If it's not true, then how is it not true? How/why would he cheat in his past relationships, but not this one? Where is the proof that he will not cheat in this new relationship like he did in the others? How would someone be able to believe that?

Men cant cheat..

 

[Green N' White]

U deserve to be held down and have bleach poured down ur throat

Negged!

I guess I'll die being honest.
You know some of us aren't meant to be in monogamous relationships. Or in relationships at all.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Men cant cheat..

What is it called then?

 

[Giselle]

Wtf happened to The Salon????

Why would I ask a question meant to be answered by males in the salon? If you don't want to be in here you can leave, no one is forcing you.

I think people make way too much of infidelity, I am sure in the era of social media posts, it can be esp. humiliating and painful, embarrassing, but by that same logic, unless you are really naive, it shouldn't be hard to discover someone is unfaithful. I'd say 85% or more of the stories I've heard, people missed very obvious signs or ignored them, probably due to subconcious cognitive biases. It was always easy signs, not coming home, not answering phone, rumors, posts on Facebook or Instagram, it was never like a diabolical plot no one could see coming.

It's not easy to see if you all don't live together or if one or both of you travel frequently for work.

Last point, if someone cheats on you, end the relationship, reevaluate, and move on. Enough of the crying and years of anguish. It's logical that many people won't be 100% faithful. Doesn't mean don't trust people. just don't get so strung out on your significant faithful being your one and only, and look at them as a real, flawed person, with the capacity to make mistakes.

You sound full of shxt. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't stay with someone who was cheating on you then excused it with "i'm only human". gtfoh

Men cant cheat..

You're right, it's the immature little boys that do it.

 

[Ronnie Macho]

I know "If he will cheat with you, then he will cheat on you" is true.

But is it true that if he cheated in his last relationship(s), then he will cheat in his future ones?

Is is true for you? Do you think it's true for most males? If it's not true, then how is it not true? How/why would he cheat in his past relationships, but not this one? Where is the proof that he will not cheat in this new relationship like he did in the others? How would someone be able to believe that?

Don't love a nikka...and he'll cheat...

 

[The Fade]

It's true for most people. Women do the same thing

 

[re'up]

[QUOTE="InquisitiveHeaux, post: 26049545, member:

You sound full of shxt. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't stay with someone who was cheating on you then excused it with "i'm only human". gtfoh

[/QUOTE]

I probably wouldn't, no, but I say that in the post.

 

[Ronnie Macho]

Don't love a nikka...and he'll cheat...

Damn... @InquisitiveHeaux why you negg me? and with the following comment: "Dumb Post"...

I was at -10...I hope my coli brehs come for you...