"If he cheated on her, then he will cheat on you" Is it true guys?

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Nah ..

Most cases it's the situation that's makes you cheat . . Not the person him or herself . .

Therefore if his new chick ain't in the same shyt the old one was..

There ain't no problem . .
 

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Nah, people grow & mature. Plus she may have been an incompatible GF for him.

No excuse for cheating though.
 
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It's called polygamy. You know, that stuff that comes natural to the male gender and not some social construct called sexual monogamy.
 

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In a legit relationship where dude loved the girl and was serious about her, yeah. If he cheats on her, he'll cheat on the next.

But if it's some BS relationship that dude is only using her as a stopgap to hold him down, then not necessarily. There's men who have been married and loyal for years that cheated on their girl back in the day.

Just depends on the situation.
 

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You a little too inquisitive:patrice:

What is wrong with that?
Nope. I cheated on my x wife, but have never cheated on the current wife. Scared of what she would do to me:mjgrin:, but also she would be crushed and probably never get over it. My x wife got over shyt and I didn't fear her. Ladies put your foot down and handle your man in such a way he will be scared to cheat.

So, your ex wife would stay if you cheated is what you mean by "she got over shyt". & why didn't you fear her, but fear the new one? How does the new one "put her foot down"? When you say you are scared, are you scared that she will kill you are scared that she will leave?

You like your new wife more than your old one before you started cheating, like when y'all were at y'alls best?

Just as someone who has never cheated can/will cheat?
Nothing is definite but it ultimately does show what someone is capable of character wise.
People can and do change with life experiences of course so as always its your dice roll.
I disagree. The dynamics of every relationship are different...

Not necessarily.

I cheated in my 20's because I was immature and not really committed to the person.

I'm in my 30's now and those days are long behind me.

In a legit relationship where dude loved the girl and was serious about her, yeah. If he cheats on her, he'll cheat on the next.

But if it's some BS relationship that dude is only using her as a stopgap to hold him down, then not necessarily. There's men who have been married and loyal for years that cheated on their girl back in the day.

Just depends on the situation.


A guy is in his early 30s, has money, has been married for 2 years, been with the girl since college. Knew he was not in love, but married her anyway more than likely for work related/publicity reasons and obligation bc he was with her for so long. Had an on and off relationship before marraige, cheated on her with multiple women before and after getting married. Like 5 gf's at a time, with actual relationships, dates, no condoms, spending money, paying rent ect. plus random women as well. Manipulative and a liar giving those girls hope that one day he'll leave, claims he loves some of them. The wife has caught him cheating and stays, he claims he'll do better, but never does and still has his gfs. They had a child, but the child did not really change their relationship and he still cheats. They eventually divorce and he does NOT make any of his sides his official main or one and only, but still keeps in contact with them, some to fck and others because he is still paying for their rent or car. Probably bc he wants to try to keep them on his good side bc he doesn't want his dirt to get out to the public.


Do you think this guy will always be a cheater? Do you think a new girl would be dumb to date him after hearing about what he has done? Do you think he woould cheat on her?
 

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If he beat her would he beat you?

Would you date a guy who said he beat his last girlfriend, I just snapped and was having a bad day and one thing led to another.

Probably not right

Life's to short to trust a cheater
 

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Do you think this guy will always be a cheater? Do you think a new girl would be dumb to date him after hearing about what he has done? Do you think he woould cheat on her?

In that situation, yes.

He has already cheated on his wife and he has no reason to stop, so yes, he will always be a cheater.
 

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If they did it to them, they might not do it to you.

But theyve shown they atleast have the capability to . And it will be easier the next time.

Why waste time trying to play the odds and see if its true or not?
 

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Or a better way to put it is if a nikka love you he ain't gone cheat bytch. That's what I really wanted to say to OP, but that would've been rude.
So why did you marry your first wife if you did not love her?

If he beat her would he beat you?

Would you date a guy who said he beat his last girlfriend, I just snapped and was having a bad day and one thing led to another.

Probably not right

Life's to short to trust a cheater

I get what you are saying, but I have family members who were abusive, but did not physically abuse all of the women they were with, especially as they aged. They did remain liars and manipulators though until they got old, desperate and lonely. Even then, they still are a little bit, I think.

In that situation, yes.

He has already cheated on his wife and he has no reason to stop, so yes, he will always be a cheater.
I'm talking about after they get a divorce, you think he'd cheat on a new woman? One who wasn't one of his sides?
 

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Nah ..

Most cases it's the situation that's makes you cheat . . Not the person him or herself . .

Therefore if his new chick ain't in the same shyt the old one was..

There ain't no problem . .

But where is the proof?

& can you answer the question/scenario quoted below pls?
A guy is in his early 30s, has money, has been married for 2 years, been with the girl since college. Knew he was not in love, but married her anyway more than likely for work related/publicity reasons and obligation bc he was with her for so long. Had an on and off relationship before marraige, cheated on her with multiple women before and after getting married. Like 5 gf's at a time, with actual relationships, dates, no condoms, spending money, paying rent ect. plus random women as well. Manipulative and a liar giving those girls hope that one day he'll leave, claims he loves some of them. The wife has caught him cheating and stays, he claims he'll do better, but never does and still has his gfs. They had a child, but the child did not really change their relationship and he still cheats. They eventually divorce and he does NOT make any of his sides his official main or one and only, but still keeps in contact with them, some to fck and others because he is still paying for their rent or car. Probably bc he wants to try to keep them on his good side bc he doesn't want his dirt to get out to the public.


Do you think this guy will always be a cheater? Do you think a new girl would be dumb to date him after hearing about what he has done? Do you think he woould cheat on her?
 

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What is wrong with that?


So, your ex wife would stay if you cheated is what you mean by "she got over shyt". & why didn't you fear her, but fear the new one? How does the new one "put her foot down"? When you say you are scared, are you scared that she will kill you are scared that she will leave?

You like your new wife more than your old one before you started cheating, like when y'all were at y'alls best?









A guy is in his early 30s, has money, has been married for 2 years, been with the girl since college. Knew he was not in love, but married her anyway more than likely for work related/publicity reasons and obligation bc he was with her for so long. Had an on and off relationship before marraige, cheated on her with multiple women before and after getting married. Like 5 gf's at a time, with actual relationships, dates, no condoms, spending money, paying rent ect. plus random women as well. Manipulative and a liar giving those girls hope that one day he'll leave, claims he loves some of them. The wife has caught him cheating and stays, he claims he'll do better, but never does and still has his gfs. They had a child, but the child did not really change their relationship and he still cheats. They eventually divorce and he does NOT make any of his sides his official main or one and only, but still keeps in contact with them, some to fck and others because he is still paying for their rent or car. Probably bc he wants to try to keep them on his good side bc he doesn't want his dirt to get out to the public.


Do you think this guy will always be a cheater? Do you think a new girl would be dumb to date him after hearing about what he has done? Do you think he woould cheat on her?


Yes he always willl.
 
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