"If he cheated on her, then he will cheat on you" Is it true guys?

[Mirin4rmfar]

Lol at these responses....switch the gender and watch dudes flip.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

It really just depends on the person. I know people who used to cheat on all of their girlfriends but are now married and haven't cheated once

 

[Giselle]

It really just depends on the person. I know people who used to cheat on all of their girlfriends but are now married and haven't cheated once

Have you asked them why not or what changed? What did they say?

What if it was something like this? (quoted below) Do you think he'll always cheat?

A guy is in his early 30s, has money, has been married for 2 years, been with the girl since college. Knew he was not in love, but married her anyway more than likely for work related/publicity reasons and obligation bc he was with her for so long. Had an on and off relationship before marraige, cheated on her with multiple women before and after getting married. Like 5 gf's at a time, with actual relationships, dates, no condoms, spending money, paying rent ect. plus random women as well. Manipulative and a liar giving those girls hope that one day he'll leave, claims he loves some of them. The wife has caught him cheating and stays, he claims he'll do better, but never does and still has his gfs. They had a child, but the child did not really change their relationship and he still cheats. They eventually divorce and he does NOT make any of his sides his official main or one and only, but still keeps in contact with them, some to fck and others because he is still paying for their rent or car. Probably bc he wants to try to keep them on his good side bc he doesn't want his dirt to get out to the public.


Do you think this guy will always be a cheater? Do you think a new girl would be dumb to date him after hearing about what he has done? Do you think he woould cheat on her?

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Have you asked them why not or what changed? What did they say?

What if it was something like this? (quoted below) Do you think he'll always cheat?

They didn't really start caring until they got married. Once they got with women they knew they could settle down with getting different p*ssy wasn't a priority to them. Being faithful and putting their woman first became that priority

 

[MikelArteta]

Meh like I said maybe they won't life is too short for me to always wonder and ponder

I remember dating a chick and as soon as she told me she cheated on her last boyfriend I lost all attraction and trust for her.

Im not that special to think what can happen to one person can't to me

get what you are saying, but I have family members who were abusive, but did not physically abuse all of the women they were with, especially as they aged. They did remain liars and manipulators though until they got old, desperate and lonely. Even then, they still are a little bit, I think

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

I've considered cheating but I just can't go through with it. Don't care how my girl would feel, I personally don't want that rep. I think once you do it, you will always do it.

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Lol no.

I cheated on a gf of mine before just because I liked this other girl better in every way. And we ended getting together.

Didn't regret it and didn't cheat on the other one

My biggest fear

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I'm talking about after they get a divorce, you think he'd cheat on a new woman? One who wasn't one of his sides?

Cheating is ultimately an act of immaturity and / or selfishness. It's possible to outgrow it but a guy in his early 30's who clearly has no regard for the feelings of anyone but himself? Unless he meets a woman he absolutely cannot live without, there's a good chance he's gonna be set in his ways.

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Yup yup

 

[Marti]

Nope. I cheated on my x wife, but have never cheated on the current wife. Scared of what she would do to me, but also she would be crushed and probably never get over it. My x wife got over shyt and I didn't fear her. Ladies put your foot down and handle your man in such a way he will be scared to cheat.

I knew this was true !

I put fear in every man i date

nikkas eat out the palm of ya hand in fear that u will knock his head off if he caught cheating

 

[Commish]

I know "If he will cheat with you, then he will cheat on you" is true.

First, cheating is NOT gender specific!

But is it true that if he cheated in his last relationship(s), then he will cheat in his future ones?

It is possible that someone who has cheated in the past will cheat in current and/or future relationships. However, it is also possible for someone who has cheated in past relationships not cheat in present and/or future relationships just as those who have never cheated in past relationships will/will not cheat in present and future relationships.

Is is true for you?

Never cheated on a past girlfriend.

Do you think it's true for most males?

I am not sure if "most" males are in relationships. But, men are not monolithic. Those who are in relationships or who have been in relationships may have or may not have cheated. If they did, then they did. The question is whether their partner knew about it or not as well as if they knew about it, left said men or chose to forgive and continue with the relationship? As for men who have never been in a relationship, well they can't cheat because they haven't been in a relationship to do so yet.

it's not true, then how is it not true?

Once again, all men are not the same. Every man has his own unique experience and circumstances. Some men have more experience than others and some men get treated differently than others, depending on looks, social status, economic status, etc. Stratification does exist and depending on where a man falls within the hierarchy of desirability, he may or may not have the opportunity to cheat on someone.

How/why would he cheat in his past relationships, but not this one?

You would have to ask a man who has cheated. Depending on the man, his answer may vary. Some men mature, some men do not. Some men care. Some men do not care. It just depends on that man and how he feels about the person he is dealing with at that moment.

Where is the proof that he will not cheat in this new relationship like he did in the others?

How can someone offer proof about something that has hasn't happened yet? Either you take someone's word that they will not cheat or not. Life is about taking chances. In addition, having a risk averse approach to relationships will not help any relationship grow. It will only cause more problems.

How would someone be able to believe that?

The woman can either believe it or not. If she has trust issues with the man she is dealing with, then she does have options. Either deal with the trust issue and work in maintaining her relationship or charge the man to the game and keep it moving. Everyone is responsible for his or her own happiness. Same goes for insecurity, trust issues and other problems that may come about in a relationship.

On another note, I know it is chic to put cheating issues on men while ignoring women who cheat, but cheating is a choice, first and foremost. Like people chose to be in relationships, people also chose to not be in relationships and people also chose their partners while chose to not partner up with others.

I will not entertain someone who chooses to not deal with her personal issues and hangups. Deal with that shyt before dealing with me just like I have to do the same. Otherwise, get with someone who is willing to deal with the fukkery or stay single! The choice is yours!!

 

[Marti]

From a cheaters perspective: Yes I'll probably continue cheating. I cheat because I enjoy the feeling that comes from sneaking around and meeting new women. It's not my girlfriends fault or the side chicks fault. It's my own problem. You just got to be careful not to run into my types.

U deserve to be held down and have bleach poured down ur throat

Negged!

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

What is wrong with that?


So, your ex wife would stay if you cheated is what you mean by "she got over shyt". & why didn't you fear her, but fear the new one? How does the new one "put her foot down"? When you say you are scared, are you scared that she will kill you are scared that she will leave?

You like your new wife more than your old one before you started cheating, like when y'all were at y'alls best?









A guy is in his early 30s, has money, has been married for 2 years, been with the girl since college. Knew he was not in love, but married her anyway more than likely for work related/publicity reasons and obligation bc he was with her for so long. Had an on and off relationship before marraige, cheated on her with multiple women before and after getting married. Like 5 gf's at a time, with actual relationships, dates, no condoms, spending money, paying rent ect. plus random women as well. Manipulative and a liar giving those girls hope that one day he'll leave, claims he loves some of them. The wife has caught him cheating and stays, he claims he'll do better, but never does and still has his gfs. They had a child, but the child did not really change their relationship and he still cheats. They eventually divorce and he does NOT make any of his sides his official main or one and only, but still keeps in contact with them, some to fck and others because he is still paying for their rent or car. Probably bc he wants to try to keep them on his good side bc he doesn't want his dirt to get out to the public.


Do you think this guy will always be a cheater? Do you think a new girl would be dumb to date him after hearing about what he has done? Do you think he woould cheat on her?

With those details... yes, I'd believe he'd cheat again with little remorse or regret.

 

[chkmeout]

Wtf happened to The Salon????