"If a woman has a problem orgasming that's her fault."

[CarmelBarbie]

@CarmelBarbie
@Booksnrain


Men can get off to anyone

So even if they not attracted they can get off


Women got to be attracted to u more

And it could also be age based

Women over 35 puss take longer to warm up

Younger women be ready off top

Trying to warm up a chick 40

Take a lil longer to do everything

It’s not aged based. According to studies, most women, regardless of age take up to 20 minutes to get warmed up. I’m sure older women may take longer to get wet, but I’m not talking about wetness, I’m talking about warming her up. It’s never an instant thing no matter her age. No matter how attracted she is to you.

 

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Right. This is why I don’t encourage women to date men they aren’t physically attracted to as well(advice that I’ve noticed some Brehs dislike). Quiet as it’s kept a lot of women are sleeping with men they don’t lust for/desire sexually. And if your not emotionally invested in the person your sleeping with of course you don’t care as much about their pleasure. You just trying to get yours. That’s why I don’t do casual sex or date men I’m not physically attracted to, no matter how good on paper they are.

Yeah that’s crazy b/c a lotta chicks get pressured to date dudes they don’t like. That’s what the whole incel movement is about. Resentment towards women for not being able to scrounge up attraction to dudes they not attracted to. I mean all the cautionary tales come out if a chick fukks who she wanna fukks.

For men, I think a lotta them fukking anything they can get access to as well, but not who they REALLY want. Because if you are with somebody you care about, it’s natural to care about their satisfaction.
But when you trying to just get a nut, anything extra is seen as a chore.

 

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It’s not aged based. According to studies, most women, regardless of age take up to 20 minutes to get warmed up. I’m sure older women may take longer to get wet, but I’m big talking about wetness, I’m talking about warming her up. It’s never an instant thing no matter how age. No matter how attracted she is to you.

Yeah I wonder where the disconnect comes from. I think dudes take porn too seriously and use unrealistic stuff as a barometer for female attraction…which doesn’t work that way.

People also think stuff is supposed to be instantaneous instead of letting things build.

 

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@CarmelBarbie
@Booksnrain


Men can get off to anyone

So even if they not attracted they can get off


Women got to be attracted to u more

And it could also be age based

Women over 35 puss take longer to warm up

Younger women be ready off top

Trying to warm up a chick 40

Take a lil longer to do everything

Yeah I feel u but I think attraction is a lil different for a lotta people. Not sure if age sufficiently explains it.
A lotta people fukkin for reasons that have zero to do with actually liking who they with and that can be a problem.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Yeah that’s crazy b/c a lotta chicks get pressured to date dudes they don’t like. That’s what the whole incel movement is about. Resentment towards women for not being able to scrounge up attraction to dudes they not attracted to. I mean all the cautionary tales come out if a chick fukks who she wanna fukks.

For men, I think a lotta them fukking anything they can get access to as well, but not who they REALLY want. Because if you are with somebody you care about, it’s natural to care about their satisfaction.
But when you trying to just get a nut, anything extra is seen as a chore.

Exactly. So on point. I’ve seen Brehs on this site chide bw for not being like nonbw and getting with men/marrying men they aren’t physically attracted to, as if a woman’s attraction to the man shouldn’t be a part of her criteria, because it only matters if he’s good on paper(advice that I believe is meant to give entitled men more attractive options for partners while discounting the importance of attraction for women). @IsThatBrothaMouzone?

I always side eye this advice.


Attraction is an important component to weigh in a partner and definitely contributes to a satisfying sex life. I’m actually glad more women are factoring that in. And we already know Brehs will fukk women they aren’t attracted to just to get a nut. I think casual sex is rarely as good as sex with someone your really feeling/invested in physically, emotionally, mentally.


But what do I know I’m just a modern unruly feminist bw lol.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

More gender war bs. You should care about the pleasure of your partner. It goes both ways

 

[ColdSlither]

Sounds like some selfish ass men.

 

[010101]

the way you make love is like a fingerprint

1of1

it's a conversation had without words

99.9% of nikkas just built to drop nut they not naturally eloquent or expressive physically

looking back it's just always been something natural to me

however there are some women who have health issues they are not aware of that may prevent them from fully responding & enjoying the moment

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[Easy-E]

At 5:40 Only 18% of vagina owners orgasm from just penetration

 

[BornStar]

The ones with papers

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Umm foreplay can take up to 20 minutes. Even if she gets wet right away, it doesn’t mean she’s completely warmed up. It’s like heating up a car. Even when you turn it on, it takes a minute before it’s completely warmed up.

That’s the approach you should take to foreplay. The point isn’t just to get her wet, it’s to get her fully warmed up/aroused, that build up is actually what makes it easier for her to cum.
Brehs be doing 5 mins of foreplay thinking that’s enough. Nah. Give her 15 minutes at least. They say the average woman needs 20 mins of foreplay.

Man listen, Foreplay make time FLY. You start warming up at 3, and the next thing you know it's 4 o' clock.