"If a woman has a problem orgasming that's her fault."

[Ohene]

I hope you don’t run into many defective vaginas in your lifetime. Tell em to put that vag in riceMay you be the factory reset her vagina needs.

My recent ex had one lol

To the pt I had to get her to start masturbting so she could discover what works for her and report back still no luck

it’s usually inexperienced women who have this issue but she was 30 years old and never had an orgasm from clitoral nor penetrative stimulation in her whole life

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

My recent ex had one lol

To the pt I had to get her to start masturbting so she could discover what works for her and report back still no luck

it’s usually inexperienced women who have this issue but she was 30 years old and never had an orgasm from clitoral nor penetrative stimulation in her whole life

It sounds like she got too many mental hang ups. I will also say a lotta people underestimate the affect of: BIRTH CONTROL.

Bc can wreak havoc on a chick’s libido, wetness, hormones, mood. Gotta experiment with the right one.

Also a lotta chicks and dudes got too many mental hang ups about sex. I’ll never understand the shame and negativity we attach to sex…but how we also expect people to turn that off when it comes time to have sex.

We be fukkin people over mentally, then still want pornstars.

Turn each other out. Let your freak flag fly. Get somebody you love and feel comfy with and fukk the shyt outta them.
What is life if you not enjoying it?
Edit: I also recommend no nut challenges for chicks too. But that’s another story.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

lol some of you women act very very very obtuse with this shyt


There are women so have gone ten, twenty years without ever having an orgasm

at that point the woman is the problem

if I can go thirty minutes fckn you in many diff positions, diff angles, diff velocities, with passion with a good 8incher and even after a good ten or so minutes of going down on her too then there is really nothing I can do

especially when I’ve made women cum with even less work

especially when it seems like you’re about to cum but you stop and then say you didn’t

I personally one even date a girl who has never had an orgasm though

just not worth the potential stress

I honestly think it boils down to attraction, how comfortable and safe she feels with you, how much she knows her body and is comfortable speaking up and mental blocks. Which is a lot to address, right? Lol. Usually if she can make herself cum from masturbation she can cum with you she just needs to show a breh how.
I stopped accepting orgasm-less sex years ago. I just started speaking up—telling him how I want him to fukk me, moving with him, (I think movement really helps) making him do foreplay before eating me out or anything else and helping out. Like if he’s eating me out, I’ll finger myself, move my hips, etc. in certain positions I’ll rub my clit while he penetrates. Also incorporate toys. Ive let my guy use a toy on me to make me cum and right before I do, he penetrates. That’s pretty amazing. I find girl on top-and letting her have control is easy to get off from. Also the spooning position, when she lays on the side and you enter from behind is usually really good for it too.

My recent ex had one lol

To the pt I had to get her to start masturbting so she could discover what works for her and report back still no luck

it’s usually inexperienced women who have this issue but she was 30 years old and never had an orgasm from clitoral nor penetrative stimulation in her whole life

not even from masturbating? Interesting.

 

[Ohene]

I honestly think it boils down to attraction, how comfortable and safe she feels with you, how much she knows her body and is comfortable speaking up and mental blocks. Which is a lot to address, right? Lol. Usually if she can make herself cum from masturbation she can cum with you she just needs to show a breh how.
I stopped accepting orgasm-less sex years ago. I just started speaking up—telling him how I want him to fukk me, moving with him, (I think movement really helps) making him do foreplay before eating me out or anything else and helping out. Like if he’s eating me out, I’ll finger myself, move my hips, etc. in certain positions I’ll rub my clit while he penetrates. Also incorporate toys. Ive let my guy use a toy on me to make me cum and right before I do, he penetrates. That’s pretty amazing. I find girl on top-and letting her have control is easy to get off from. Also the spooning position, when she lays on the side and you enter from behind is usually really good for it too.



not even from masturbating? Interesting.

It was crazy

like you said there’s a lot involved

I think the mental blocks are a huuuuge aspect as well

everything you said are things I’ve taught her and inexperienced women as well. Men have to be humble enough to ask for instructions from women and women need to be in tune, comfortable and knowledgeable enough to be able to provide them and even take the lead sometimes

 

[KidJSoul]

I'm not gonna act like women are perfect and men are all ba dor anything, but I swear some guys really make things harder for themselves.

Like... why would you NOT try to make your girlfriend cum? it'll only benefit you.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

It was crazy

like you said there’s a lot involved

I think the mental blocks are a huuuuge aspect as well

everything you said are things I’ve taught her and inexperienced women as well. Men have to be humble enough to ask for instructions from women and women need to be in tune, comfortable and knowledgeable enough to be able to provide them and even take the lead sometimes

She might have anorgasmia, i think about 5% of women suffer from it—they are unable to cum. Those are usually the women who also can’t cum from masturbation.

 

[Ohene]

I'm not gonna act like women are perfect and men are all ba dor anything, but I swear some guys really make things harder for themselves.

Like... why would you NOT try to make your girlfriend cum? it'll only benefit you.

I don’t think ppl are not saying they’ll try
In fact it’s the opposite


They are trying but if despite all this effort it absolutely never works then it’s the girls fault and something they gotta figure out

 

[Ohene]

She might have anorgasmia, i think about 5% of women suffer from it—they are unable to cum. Those are usually the women who also can’t cum from masturbation.

I see

it’s maybe possible that she didn’t masturbate enough for me to be able to definitively say she can’t

had me wondering if she had been touched as a kid or sumn too but I doubt that was the case

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

real talk

this one bytch told me she got wet just from reading my texts....

You gotta get in their mind first, before the physical....

Listen..if she’s not wet after we done kissed and touched then she doesn’t like me lol

 

[KidJSoul]

Listen..if she’s not wet after we done kissed and touched then she doesn’t like me lol

Foreplay shouldn't take long, if at all. You should turn her on immediately

I don’t think ppl are not saying they’ll try
In fact it’s the opposite


They are trying but if despite all this effort it absolutely never works then it’s the girls fault and something they gotta figure out

They were implying that on the first page

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Foreplay shouldn't take long, if at all. You should turn her on immediately

They were implying that on the first page

Umm foreplay can take up to 20 minutes. Even if she gets wet right away, it doesn’t mean she’s completely warmed up. It’s like heating up a car. Even when you turn it on, it takes a minute before it’s completely warmed up.

That’s the approach you should take to foreplay. The point isn’t just to get her wet, it’s to get her fully warmed up/aroused, that build up is actually what makes it easier for her to cum.
Brehs be doing 5 mins of foreplay thinking that’s enough. Nah. Give her 15 minutes at least. They say the average woman needs 20 mins of foreplay.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Umm foreplay can take up to 20 minutes. Even if she gets wet right away, it doesn’t mean she’s completely warmed up. It’s like heating up a car. Even when you turn it on, it takes a minute before it’s completely warmed up.

That’s the approach you should take to foreplay. The point isn’t just to get her wet, it’s to get her fully warmed up/aroused, that build up is actually what makes it easier for her to cum.
Brehs be doing 5 mins of foreplay thinking that’s enough. Nah. Give her 15 minutes at least. They say the average woman needs 20 mins of foreplay.

This brings up another major point. I think a lot of men and women don’t like who they fukking.

Now I don’t judge people because you gotta get it how you live. But in recent years I became more and more aware that a lotta people literally do not even like who they laying down with.
That makes foreplay, or any type of sexual satisfaction hard to attain sometimes. Imma make a thread about it.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

This brings up another major point. I think a lot of men and women don’t like who they fukking.

Now I don’t judge people because you gotta get it how you live. But in recent years I became more and more aware that a lotta people literally do not even like who they laying down with.
That makes foreplay, or any type of sexual satisfaction hard to attain sometimes. Imma make a thread about it.

@CarmelBarbie
@Booksnrain


Men can get off to anyone

So even if they not attracted they can get off


Women got to be attracted to u more

And it could also be age based

Women over 35 puss take longer to warm up

Younger women be ready off top

Trying to warm up a chick 40

Take a lil longer to do everything

 

[Wildhundreds]

This brings up another major point. I think a lot of men and women don’t like who they fukking.

Now I don’t judge people because you gotta get it how you live. But in recent years I became more and more aware that a lotta people literally do not even like who they laying down with.
That makes foreplay, or any type of sexual satisfaction hard to attain sometimes. Imma make a thread about it.

This!!!!

 

[CarmelBarbie]

This brings up another major point. I think a lot of men and women don’t like who they fukking.

Now I don’t judge people because you gotta get it how you live. But in recent years I became more and more aware that a lotta people literally do not even like who they laying down with.
That makes foreplay, or any type of sexual satisfaction hard to attain sometimes. Imma make a thread about it.

Right. This is why I don’t encourage women to date men they aren’t physically attracted to as well(advice that I’ve noticed some Brehs dislike). Quiet as it’s kept a lot of women are sleeping with men they don’t lust for/desire sexually. And if your not emotionally invested in the person your sleeping with of course you don’t care as much about their pleasure. You just trying to get yours. That’s why I don’t do casual sex or date men I’m not physically attracted to, no matter how good on paper they are.