Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
Or you could just.........leave.
If a man cheats on his woman bcuz of lack of sex in the relationship. He's the VICTIM.
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HabitualLineSteppa
....Fuh Q.
Speaking from absolute experience...Even now..Especially when you bring a child into the mix. Women high key will furnish deflection and excuses for every purposeful shortcoming she has.
It's a power play and a control mechanism. This is why people like Donald Trump don't phase me. He literally acts like a puzzled, man-eating woman.
I remember someone on here said awhile back that women in relationships treat men like a toddler treats Lego blocks...They think they are building up a castle but end up building a tower of nothingness, eventually get bored, and knock it down.
Or something to that affect..Shyt was way more poignant and legit had me like
It's true....can't switch up who you are once the relationship has taken off......if she was actin a freak in the beginning and wanna stop activity after relationship is ongoing or marriage......don't be mad at the man for finding what he thought he found in his chick elsewhere.
StickStickly
Superstar
Nah lots of things can affect sex drive for women. Stress can make libido nonexistent. Residual issues in the relationship can do this tooI never understood this there's literally no excuse other than health.
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
A lot of y'all on here have unrealistic expectations of sex. Which leads me to believe that y'all sex lives are nonexistent.
Shut up bytch . Talking about "leave". Most of y'all hoes would much rather be cheated on than left. Stay in yo lane.
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
I can tell you're the bytch in your relationship.
HabitualLineSteppa
....Fuh Q.
That lets me know that a change occurred with him and his behavior cause if he had conducted himself with her in the same fashion as before, she wouldn't have issue cold, 2 minutes sessions. Her declining desire is to be expected. It's logical. Good to hear ya friend worked that out..
There are women however, whose men keep it consistent. Same energy throughout the relationship. Shouldn't be an issue, right?Sadly, nope. Those women try to weaponize sex or like OP talked about, reveal their true selves after investment and that's a problem, especially in marriage.
StickStickly
Superstar
Are women really out there weaponizing sex like that? Or do men perceive it that way?
Who in here expressed a need for unrealistic amounts of sex?
nikka you mad as fukk at her for no reason.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
none of this would be acceptable if it was flipped they other way around. Just leave the relationship. don't cheat.
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
Not this particular thread. But there have been threads on here from posters saying they should be having sex everyday, twice a day, multiple times a day, drop to your knees at the snap of a finger. shyt like that just isn't realistic.Who in here expressed a need for unrealistic amounts of sex?
HabitualLineSteppa
....Fuh Q.
Absolutely. Using sex as a bargaining chip to yield favorable (and usually temporary) results has been at play for a long time. This is why the OP rings bells cause when that "true self" comes out, it changes the relationship dynamic and leaves the male "wanting that old thing back". If he's truly invested, he'll, at a minimum, do SOMETHING to get back to that feeling..Even exhaust himself mentally and physically and do things "differently" for the sake of "normalcy"..
Knowingly or otherwise, she's using her sexual access as a weapon. Not a good look.
