Why not just get out of the relationship
If a man cheats on his woman bcuz of lack of sex in the relationship. He's the VICTIM.
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I never heard of a woman not enjoying sex
It's not that women don't enjoy sex necessarily. A lot of women just don't have the desire for sex.
teeswinger
All Star
Dealt with a 40 yr old like this..model looking woman but she had some intimacy issues for sure. Beware of women who only have sex with you when THEY want it..
Now that's something I can agree on. But outright not enjoying it? Never heard of it.
Why not just get out of the relationship
A lot of times women wait until you've deeply investing in the relationship emotionally and physically: Living together, close with your family and church. And then they began to reveal their true selves. I guess they figure if you fall in love with them, you might sacrifice sex for her. So it's not always easy to walk away.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Raid
Get money and waste it
I'm pretty sure he means get a woman who always in the mood for it.........like them knowing you want it going to make them want it......so you want them to have sex with women when they don't want it?
HabitualLineSteppa
....Fuh Q.
Not saying he should do it (cheat)...But I understand..
I've dealt with this in my day...Start off gettin it poppin' like rabbits for a year or two then as the relationship gets to a cruise altitude, the withdrawal begins...From my experience its best to address it immediately in a logical and unapologetic way.
For example, going from 3 times a week to once a month (barring any health issues or long distance circumstances), is inexcusable and needs to be spoken up about IF you're not kosher with that sort of change. I could understand once a week but a consistent streak of months with one encounter each month screams you have a problem and unless you've done something different, its more than likely her who has issue
It you're being met with apprehension or even deflections to warrant such a change rather than own up to what the root cause is, its time to turn heel cause its gonna get worse..There is no getting better on a consistent basis like how things used to be unless there is an effort on both ends to get it that way...
I've dealt with this in my day...Start off gettin it poppin' like rabbits for a year or two then as the relationship gets to a cruise altitude, the withdrawal begins...From my experience its best to address it immediately in a logical and unapologetic way.
For example, going from 3 times a week to once a month (barring any health issues or long distance circumstances), is inexcusable and needs to be spoken up about IF you're not kosher with that sort of change. I could understand once a week but a consistent streak of months with one encounter each month screams you have a problem and unless you've done something different, its more than likely her who has issue
It you're being met with apprehension or even deflections to warrant such a change rather than own up to what the root cause is, its time to turn heel cause its gonna get worse..There is no getting better on a consistent basis like how things used to be unless there is an effort on both ends to get it that way...
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
You sound a man with real experience (rare on thecoli nowadays)
But the sex drops off, but the woman wants the relationship to continue to progress as far as traveling, vacations and shopping and shyt. Women are cold and dirty.
GMB.
teeswinger
All Star
Exactly!
Raid
Get money and waste it
Welp you know on the Coli I can't tell the difference between trolling or serious.....I was just messing with him
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
My best friend has been married for a while went through this but she said her husband wasn't doing anything to make her want to have sex with him. She said he'd just get in bed and be like "turn over" then it would last like 2 minutes then he'd go to sleep or watch tv. I understand her not wanting someone to climb on top of her for two minutes then roll over and pretend she isn't there. She said it's better now but she had completely stopped having sex with him before he saw what was wrong.
I'm kidding
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Welp you know on the Coli I can't tell the difference between trolling or serious.....
Me neither. Just get mad at everything like I do.