I was in the same boat bruh.....
It was to the point that I was unintentionally cheating on broads because having side chicks just became my lifestyle...
I made a an effort to change and try to be straight up, but picked the wrong broads and then I was like fukk that
Even when I met my wife I thought she was gonna be perfect side chick material, but the shyt just evovled into more than that...yet I still cheated, but for the first time I actually felt bad about the shyt. Then I was like, some random azz isn't worth messing up a good thing. I mean she came and got me out of jail, held me down when I was between jobs and more real shyt like that... Then I realized I have a down ass chick who looks good, is about her paper, still gets rachet at times but is on her shyt when it comes to taking care of home, bills, etc....
When you get older you realize you only me a few chicks like that, who aren't already wifed up so turned in my playa card and its the greatest thing I've done.... Not to say I didn't have a few slip ups along the way but since we been married its been all gravy