I wish girls would be straight up on why they don't want to date you or talk to you

[observe]

I've took so many L's with women..I'll get the phone number and they'll say they're busy or have an excuse..I'll call a few more times in that week and they won't pick up my phone..or I'll go out on a date and they'll say I'm cute and I like you and we should kick it again..next thing you know..the bish ain't picking up her phone..

I don't know if you guys ever had these problems..but these girls need to be straight up and tell a brotha why she doesn't want to see him..Can you tell me bytch!? I'm trying to know what I did wrong so I can fix that so I don't do it again...

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

theres signs. You just not reading them.

 

[Taadow]

Naw...I get the impression a lot of y'all dudes ain't ready for that.

 

[Malta]

So you'd rather she just came out and said you're ugly and the only reason she's even entertaining talking to you is because she's waiting for someone better to come along?

 

[QuintessentialBM]

long pause....................

 

[SuburbanPimp]

Well I would agree, but Dudes are 100xs worse at being honest about why they stop fukkin with a chick so.......

 

[Doobie Doo]

Honestly there are many reasons a chick won't fukk with a guy. If she gave you her REAL number then there is some sort of interest. But the number one reason is usually because there is another guy she has more of a interest in but she can't tell you that or why she would rather fukk him than you. And that reason is because you might be some back up dikk down the line so if she tells you the truth it's gonna fukk with you and you will resent her when she is ready to give you some p*ssy after ol dude kicks her to the curb.

 

[Commander in Chiefin]

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Cuz it's hard to tell someone that their lack of a college degree, conversation outside of pop culture, inability to hold a job, the fact that they havent taveled outside their city, they dress like shyt, and their thirst are turnoffs...we're the sex that cares about feelings, so we just ignore you

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

The main reason why "we" don't come out and tell dude like it is is because we don't want to either crush his ego or hurt his feelings. Especially if he is a cool and sweet dude, it makes it THAT much harder to be honest about the bushes he is about to be introduced to.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Well I would agree, but Dudes are 100xs worse at being honest about why they stop fukkin with a chick so.......

Exactly. When most dudes are done or no longer interested, they just disappear instead of being open and honest.

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

Cuz it's hard to tell someone that their lack of a college degree, conversation outside of pop culture, inability to hold a job, the fact that they havent taveled outside their city, they dress like shyt, and their thirst are turnoffs...we're the sex that cares about feelings, do we just ignore you

The irony of all this if women actually did tell men this,men would try to fix all these things.

If it wasn't for p*ssy, most men would be living in a cardboard box with a internet and TV hooked up.

 

[YouLoveMe]

Cuz it's hard to tell someone that their lack of a college degree, conversation outside of pop culture, inability to hold a job, the fact that they havent taveled outside their city, they dress like shyt, and their thirst are turnoffs...we're the sex that cares about feelings, do we just ignore you

I see it...yeah, i see it.

 

[Fellatio]

They put you down to their friends.
A professional woman such as a doctor/psychologist would be good for you. Not some judgemental little smut

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I don't know if you guys ever had these problems..but these girls need to be straight up and tell a brotha why she doesn't want to see him..Can you tell me bytch!? I'm trying to know what I did wrong so I can fix that so I don't do it again...

It's not always a "you did something wrong" type of deal though. Sometimes we realize that us together are not a good fit or that we aren't as interested as we thought we were.

Also, for some chicks if they tell you the truth or were honest then you take away the attention you were showering them with. For some chicks they would rather keep dude in limbo knowing that they aren't going to tell dude the truth just to keep that attention going. So for some it is more about you feeding some empty void for them and less about respect and honesty.