Turned 31 a few weeks ago and was feeling down about it but good to know other black men feeling this. I thought my life was gonna turn into Al Bundy, or the father from Everybody hates Chris. Work work work and then maybe some sports on the weekend and then die.
I make decent money but just picked up a second job at night. After my 9-5, if I go to the gym and work, I be cooked at the end of the day. And I want to try to get into Sans institute in November or study for certs. Idk how people do a 9-5 with kids and do grad school or how my mom did that. Kudos to y'all for real though