That's good breh. This is what's supposed to happen. If you can find you a black psychoanalyst theyll explain transference and mirroring and you'll understand this, negative transference, is a healthy part of the process.
With the little understanding that we have in this thread of your conditions, understanding that therapy will get WORSE before it gets better cannot be overstated.
You've properly put the therapist in your father's place, in your mind, and interacted with him in the way that you probably wish you could've interacted with your father.
Your therapist reaction unfortunately shows you need a new one but I think you are on the right track.
Find a therapist thru "abpsi"
Edit a lil more info on transference