I need #coliadvice This woman keeps telling me to smile and why are you so quiet at work.

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So essentially I do I.T. work (not a 6 fig, 6 cert breh yet) as help desk for a machine shop. Most of the people there are generally friendly and I work in the basement with the other I.T. people. However sometimes I have to go to the floor and assist the users. Long story short this middle aged white bytch who is not attractive to me always says, you need to smile (I do smile just not at her) and that I need to talk more (I say good morning to the heifer whenever we cross paths but we work in two different areas, fukk I look like interrupting my work flow talking to the bytch.)

I kind of what to confront her and be stern that she is fukking up my work flow which could potentially fukk up hers, but something tells me that, that could go left and it would be her word against mine. She I go to her manager? it sounds petty or so I just keep it moving?

I'm also a contractor if that means anything.

If you switch the genders, a guy would have been reported to HR. Report her.
 

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Why would anyone switch the genders?

If a guy kept coming up to a lady and asking her to smile and teasing her, most women would have advised her to report him to HR. Men should consistently do the same. A lot of women go uncheck with harassing men in the workplace because guys are told to deal with it.
 

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a man standing up for himself wouldn't turn this minor thing into some major ordeal. it's like a regular but unwelcome work interaction, if you have co-workers you will have plenty of these :pachaha:. but to a forum full of incels such as yourself this is some rallying point against women. :laff:

you think I haven't heard these types of comments before. I give them a quick chirp back and tell them in the most professional way I'm here to do my job and nothing else. the end

It's not a rallying point against women. The whole point is women will actually stand up for themselves and say this behavior is not ok, but you want to shame men out of doing the same by calling them insecure and incels.
 

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If a guy kept coming up to a lady and asking her to smile and teasing her, most women would have advised her to report him to HR. Men should consistently do the same. A lot of women go uncheck with harassing men in the workplace because guys are told to deal with it.

Why would you encourage men to be like women :hhh:

Men should be men. Things like this are things that women fret over. Handle yourself without getting an outside entity involved.
 

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It's not a rallying point against women. The whole point is women will actually stand up for themselves and say this behavior is not ok, but you want to shame men out of doing the same by calling them insecure and incels.
no I mean it could have been handled in person with a quick conversation. you sound retarded.
 

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"I'm quiet at work because excessive talking takes time away from me working.
Also, you pressuring me to smile says you don't like the way I look and I should change it - which is rape."


He should file rape charges against her. No means no, even if he didn’t say. He thought it and his facial expression and body language should have indicated for her to back off, but she didn’t so that’s rape.
 

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Women dont know how to act when a man isn't a goofy dancing monkey validating them all the time.

Being the quiet type who speaks but doesn't chat too damn much will get you further in life and with women.

Let the chicks,goofy nikkas and gay dudes do all that chatty patty shyt.

If they're not talking about shyt I have no interest in at work then I keep to myself.


And the way women work..when they say that

"Why are you so quiet", then yoy start talking alot tryna impress em then they lose interest anyway:usure:
 

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:what:. If the genders were reversed and it was some old cac telling the young chicks to smile, see how fast they would have reprimanded him or just flat out gave him the :camby:.

This is why men can't get nowhere. All you nikkas do is post on The Coli bytching about cacs and feminism and female nature and the gay agenda, but when the shyt's staring you in the face you just want to fall back like:hubie: and say it's 'not that deep.' Then you want to discourage and shame other men out of standing up for themselves too. :hhh:

Then you nikkas got the audacity to go in the Gems on Dealing with Women thread wondering why these bytches dikk you around. You know why? Because you a hoe. And that's all these hoes is good for.:camby:

An old white woman telling him to smile is not that deep, wipe your p*ssy bytch
 
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