I was wondering if she realized she was being disrespectful?This nikka's woman wrote an article with her govment name and his picture in it talking about how she found him so unattractive she did everything possible to NOT be with him. He just took an L for the whole world to see. Whole article was 'but he has a nice personality'. #uglygang ya'll found the hero you need, not the one you deserve
Her name is Ketsia Gustave. Most likely Haitian or Martiniquan or Guadeloupean heritage.
With that said you also have to take the mindset of said people to understand her decision so let me let you in on a few details about them.
Haitian parents (for example) tend to teach their daughters to marry "well" and not necessarily for love. While among americans you can pull chicks with just "confidence" in this chick's world (at least part of it) the choosing of a mate takes a lot more into account such as family name and wealth, financial future and just how much they can build with said mate based on their potential. Not saying american culture doesnt but these things weigh far more in other cultures than plain old "love".
The beauty about Americans is that (for the most part) they truly believe in love. I often see two mofos married in America and when I see them and thier individual families I cant help but wonder how they ever got together in the first place. Completely different social ranks, backgrounds and views on life. Yet they are married and love each other to death. This wouldnt happen in Haiti and many other societies. Hell your parents wouldnt even allow you to be friends, let alone date enough to be married. Thus why it's often weird to me when i see black american who are successful or dudes from "good families" marrying strippers and other women that their social ranks would typically look down upon.
AGain, that the love factor. Not that it's right or wrong but many other societies dont give love as much weight in choosing a mate
. I've heard about stuff like this about my uncle's wife family when he married her. The way I heard the story is that my aunties family was poorer than my uncles family at the time and my aunts wasn't having it with their marriage but they got married anyway. The irony of the whole thing is that most of my aunties family are the ones that are eating good and have successfully businesses while my most of my blood aunties are struggling and or living in a run down apartment and can hardly speak english (dads haitian btw)
You probably have a reasonable definition of "attractive" like most men do. Now go in the rating threads in The Salon and look at the scores brehettes hand out to men who clearly aren't ugly and have a lot going for themselves
Whole article was 'but he has a nice personality'. #uglygang ya'll found the hero you need, not the one you deserve
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Lol she is average herself...tf? The chance of her landing that type was slim to none.
Haitians are very viscous when it comes to who you're bringing into the family.This also leads to empty households though. Just because you're good financially doesn't mean you can neglect the love part of it
