"I Married A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To"

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Haitians are very viscous when it comes to who you're bringing into the family.

Also remember lot of land that is inherited through family will at some point be passed onto those you marry if you don't have children. I've seen brothers and sisters kill each other over shyt like that
:francis: dog eat dog world breh :mjcry:
 

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Lol she is average herself...tf? The chance of her landing that type was slim to none.

That's usually the case. People (both men & women) seem to be out of touch with reality these days
 

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SOME women dont even use the word attraction like it is.

They think that you have to want him badly for it to be called attraction when there are actually varying levels of attraction that is all considered attraction.

Basic attraction is all you need.

Levels determine which out of the dudes she is attracted to will be the ones she pursues while the rest that she is attracted to will simply get dropped off her radar or friend zoned.

Typical result of superficial standards being promoted among those specific women that what Im saying applies to.
 
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This mostly happens with un-attractive woman.... Just like ugly dudes feel like they have to find a "Baddie"

It's a sense of propping herself up for the short coming she subconsciously lives with

You see her "perfect guy" was her complete opposite.
 

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Huh? I'm 26 and I don't online date anymore. I'm confused by your post

Anyways, the general cycle is

1) 17 - 25 create impossible mental standards regarding the type of man u want to marry

2) experience life and love and loss and recognize what makes someone a good spouse or lover is more than skin deep

3) find a man who u likely would have curved during the step 1 phase of life and accept his advances

4) try to make your marriage work

It's the circle of life for this generation. Nothing new :yeshrug:


THIS...IS...YOUR...PLAN....:ohhh:


Good Luck.....:francis:
 

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The problem with this is that niqqa that she does like like that WILL show up.

That's just a thing with us. We are gonna get our thing off. Supress it all you want it will unleash at some point.

Then hubby gonna be all shocked.

Poor guy. You knew she ain't like you like that.
 

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Nope plenty of Kenya Moores, Regina Halls and Chillis on the same stuff. This is a woman thing and is present at all levels of attractiveness.

Same concept, if you do find yourself attractive, you look for an outside source to verify it

Regina Hall isn't in this category though...Being a black woman in Hollywood is 3 full-time jobs...:ufdup:
 
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