"I Married A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To"
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philmonroe
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Who don't go for looks fam? You out here dating ugly chicks with intangibles? On top of that most people are about the same financially that we running into on a daily basis so therefore looks is a big differentiator. I swear at times some of y'all cats get online sounding like y'all ugly bitter dudes getting no play from chicks when the shyt y'all suggesting y'all don't even do. Those of y'all who got ugly ass girls with the great intangibles raise their hands the rest of y'all need to stop fronting.Alot of western women often go for a guys looks first instead of delving into that man...they will actively fight off going with a good decent man over some romeo looking muthafukka that they want to fukk but they know he's a scumbag.
who said anything about ugly? this is one feminine ass strawman. plenty of men settle for average and equally yoked women daily without the need to reckon with it via online articles.
MalikX
Superstar
No, most American women are like you. Old and online putting uppics trying to attract men you are not attracted to so they can play provider after years of your youth chasing men you are attracted to.....and more men are opting out after realizing the cycle
This generation of men (18-30) aren't falling for their lies anymore. It's beautiful
MalikX
Superstar
Huh? I'm 26 and I don't online date anymore. I'm confused by your post
Anyways, the general cycle is
1) 17 - 25 create impossible mental standards regarding the type of man u want to marry
2) experience life and love and loss and recognize what makes someone a good spouse or lover is more than skin deep
3) find a man who u likely would have curved during the step 1 phase of life and accept his advances
4) try to make your marriage work
It's the circle of life for this generation. Nothing new
Nope. No thanks. Lol at marrying some chick who flat out would've felt too good for you a few years earlier.
ORDER_66
Demon Time coming 2024
SMFH.....My post is about women need to stop putting looks FIRST when dating or finding someone attractive. There been plenty of dime pieces with horrible attitudes that show them to be fukking ugly period. and there have been some 7's that have really gone to being dime pieces with who they are.
Verbal Kint
Superstar
Yoooo
Next level lame nikka status right here. Homie responded to me on FB
ME: Dang I feel bad for my man. His wife wrote a whole article basically saying he's ugly but has a good personality, then put his picture on it and her real name. There wasn't even a 'I find him attractive now' or ' he wasn't my type but was handsome in his own way' or even a 'I may not have been his type either'. As a man I can't help but think I'd feel some type of way about this article if my wife wrote this
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Jono Gus Bro, I think you're reading too much into it lol. Im good and believe me when I say I don't feel any type of way. Matter a fact I've been pushing my wife to write the article.
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I don't even know what to say. Let him cook? He's obviously happy being lame
Next level lame nikka status right here. Homie responded to me on FB
ME: Dang I feel bad for my man. His wife wrote a whole article basically saying he's ugly but has a good personality, then put his picture on it and her real name. There wasn't even a 'I find him attractive now' or ' he wasn't my type but was handsome in his own way' or even a 'I may not have been his type either'. As a man I can't help but think I'd feel some type of way about this article if my wife wrote this
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Jono Gus Bro, I think you're reading too much into it lol. Im good and believe me when I say I don't feel any type of way. Matter a fact I've been pushing my wife to write the article.
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I don't even know what to say. Let him cook? He's obviously happy being lame
philmonroe
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Its not a strawman because you disagree first of all. Second you don't have to say something to mean it aka implying something. Lastly stupid nikka who the fukk said I co signed her writing the article mother fukker?
Well you can shake your head till your shyt fall off but it won't mean much lol. My dude you aren't dumb. I already explained why women put looks "first". People are usually dating who is around them and with being the case most of the time those your around are basically the same in the other main things that can differentiate like money, status so looks is one of the few things that can be decided on. You telling me your circle that diverse that the people you roll with are 9to5 to multi millionaires, regular dudes and celebrities? Maybe but its not the norm so that's why looks are used a lot on both sides cause everything else is relatively the same.
My post is about women need to stop putting looks FIRST when dating or finding someone attractive. There been plenty of dime pieces with horrible attitudes that show them to be fukking ugly period. and there have been some 7's that have really gone to being dime pieces with who they are.
Well, looks fade so if you are one of those shallow, superficial cats, remember that. Too much instant gratification. Too many people think too much of the now and not the later. There's going to be a lot of depressed people in my generation in the next 10 to 20 years.
And I came back and said I was wrong
He had gay face in the initial pics that were posted and that was throwing me offOkay I watched an interview to hear the voice and saw a few shirtless pics, I've changed my mind. Minus the tattoos and baby, just based on looks he's a 9 even being ridiculously tall.
not unless his pockets sitting right....dude a 4/10 himself no homo
A lot of broke ugly dudes eating good out here. A seven isn't out of the realm of possibility for a dude of his looks. If he has what's considered a "good" personality though he has no chance. If you look like Lil Boosie then you're going to have to act like Lil Boosie too.
of a certain ''real'' demographic...and he looks like a family man.
GreenGhxst
Veteran
bytches always want the light skinned tall nikkas, that's me, but that shyt is tiring fam.. I can't tell you how many times random aggressive black women would try to get at me or try to throw me at their friends, super uncomfortable....we gotta get past this skin color shyt 
anyways, this seems to be a recipe for disaster, her husband probably gets to fukk her like once every 3 weeks because she ain't attracted to him at all
You know how soul wrenching that is to know that the person you're with ain't even attracted to you, that nikka trippin fam
anyways, this seems to be a recipe for disaster, her husband probably gets to fukk her like once every 3 weeks because she ain't attracted to him at all
You know how soul wrenching that is to know that the person you're with ain't even attracted to you, that nikka trippin fam
not unless his pockets sitting right....dude a 4/10 himself no homo
No homo but dude is fat he ain't ugly, he ain't short either. He could hit the gym and at least pull a 7 and I doubt the nikka is jobless.
Her on the other hand, she's not the most finest she's literally average, no amount of weight loss or weight gain will change the fact she's just average in looks. I'd smash tho