The problem is its Just not in some of us to be mean, I mean if y'all have similar interest eg watch the same shows is it wrong to watch with her? Or if she asks you for a favor is it wrong to deliver? What if you only visit late and the metro stops running is it wrong to sleep overWomen don't go by what you say, we go by what you do.
You're telling her that you don't want a relationship, but you're hugged up and kissing on her all the time. You ask her personal questions. You tell her personal things.She knows your friends. She knows your family's info.
See how the shyt gets confusing?
If you plan to have a jump-off, treat that bytch as such. You can't be nice to them because they'll think that you want more than what you previously stated.