I had an affair in 2015. My wife called my side chick this morning.

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Sup with you and Meagan Goode :lupe:

That's what I'm saying except add the dancing pole with it since she used it alot

Don't tell me Las or was it allhiphop forum did her in breh it was the last time I talked to her when she popped up in tc room
Don't want to highjack breh's thread but basically she is not in love with me anymore and wants out but with a kid and money, shyt isn't easy to just quit. If we ever go through with it, I'll probably make a thread detailing my L's.
 

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yeah breh. As much as I hate that shyt I was legit born from the same circumstances. My parents had an affair and my stepfather was my father figure even though he left in 1989. I been trying to prepare myself to raise him because although he ain't mine he still deserves love and a father.
deep down you will hate that lil nikka as he will always remind you your wife fukked another nikka...:heh:
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Smells like bull shyt to me but if this is real then just cut the cord, move on, and make better decisions. No adult should be making such dumb choices.

But it sounds like you just like drama so good luck.
 

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Before I get any shyt I am a PhD student, I have a fellowship and a full time professional career. I take care of my family.
That doesn't make you any better of a person. You are disgusting. You are a terrible father and husband. Get a divorce and leave her alone. She needs to go to therapy and so does the child. You are damaging them.
 

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As soon as I heard she was pregnant with another man, bushes, and making the side chick main.

Ah, but is a willing side chick main chick material? Can't jump out of the bushes and into...well, some more bushes. (With bees.)

I'm no Heathcliffe Huxtable but my family ain't out here wanting for anything.

Except for a decent husband and father. But, hey...pat on your back for doing all the shyt you're supposed to do in the first place. I mean...you take care of your family! Gold star for your low-expectation havin' ass.



You are damaging them.

That's the thrill of it. OP knows that she can't go anywhere (especially w/a child) b/c she's financially tied to him. OP can do whatever the fukk he wants to do, like eating side chicks out on camera (which is totally NOT fukking asinine b/c he's a PhD student). OP knows what he's doing.
 
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A lot of you males on here are disgusting.

I don't understand how you all are trying to bash his wife and kiss his ass or comfort him when he is the one who messed up their relationship and is ruining his wife and daughter. But it should be expected for most of you to take the male's side even when he's wrong. :wrist:
 

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shyt man I been been married for ten years. We been through ups and downs and had got to a point where a divorce/separation was imminent.

I go down to DC for a summer internship and I strike up a relationship. It gets to the point to where after watching a few episodes of Power and feeling guilty about the parallels to me and Ghosts family life that I told her about my situation.

Be old enough for a ten year marriage and yet still seeking internships, brehs.


Fast forward and I move back to where I am. I got hit with the "I missed my period" so a nikka starts sweating bullets. So I fast track my separation and by January, she is set up in Atlanta. Not divorced, but separated. I had done a good job of hiding my infidelilty until the night before she left. She saw a video of me eating my side chick out and then fukking her.

Be stupid enough to create video evidence of marital infidelity, brehs.

I reconciled with my wife, and since she came back in July, all of these muhfukkas have been creating drama. In that time span, she had gotten pregnant, BUT that nikka threatened to kill her and her unborn, and I know people will criticize this decision, but I brought her back home because I hated seeing her being in a toxic situation, and I realized that I will only be comparing women to her for the rest of my life. I never see a future with these hoes, only the next fukk. I want to be a better man but these latest incidences have really made shyt rocky.

There are so many Ls in this paragraph. Screw up your marriage, only to realize that you'll be comparing women with your ex-wife for the rest if your life, brehs. Take back your ex after she gets pregnant with another man's child, brehs. And she takes an L too for getting impregnated by a psychopath and being forced to return to her ex-husband, who was stupid enough to video-record himself eating sidepiece p*ssy.

DC called my phone around 11 pm after I came back from a Pokemon n smoke walk, and my wife saw it. Long story short both of them went in, and side chick still wants to talk and my wife is mad, but I don't want to lose her so I know I gotta let side chick go. It's gonna fukk her up and she may only date white men after this, because no woman wants to be the other woman, but inevitably they become that. I don't think it's hit her yet, because she still thinks we are getting married one day.

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L for "not wanting to let your sidepiece go" after getting a second shot at your marriage. L for trying to rationalize your stupidity by imagining that your sidepiece will only date white men because you dumped her. L for leading her on to the point where she legit thought marriage was a possibility.

But it's getting to the point where I see that she has invested her life in me and I keep on hurting her and it is taking a toll on me.

Yeah, because clearly you're the person this is taking a toll on. :comeon:

You need to shut up, stop making excuses, and either try to make this marriage work or move on and save her the heartache. One or the other.
 
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I read through seven pages thinking of something to say but..

God damn, man. God damn.

I feel like if the video wasn't found you would still be messing around town.

Everyone has said most of what needed to be said. But the marriage is over. There will never be trust again. Not all after what you both did to each other.

I'll pray for your daughter, the rest of yall. Well :manny:

A lot of you males on here are disgusting.

I don't understand how you all are trying to bash his wife and kiss his ass or comfort him when he is the one who messed up their relationship and is ruining his wife and daughter. But it should be expected for most of you to take the male's side even when he's wrong. :wrist:

The majority of dudes in here are saying he fukked up big time. Don't turn this into a male vs female argument :ufdup:

She physically abused him in the relationship. Meanwhile he was running around town with other females, but she didn't know. Once he was caught, she left and he kept going. Wife comes back pregnant by another dude and wants to work on the relationship.

This is a case of 360 degrees of Ls.

He shouldn't have cheated.

She shouldn't have attacked him.

He should get tested for STDs.

She needs her own life to live.

They both need therapy. And a divorce.

Kids will too.

Nah OP, you and your wife have created a life for your children that is going to take a generation to fix.
 

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That doesn't make you any better of a person. You are disgusting. You are a terrible father and husband. Get a divorce and leave her alone. She needs to go to therapy and so does the child. You are damaging them.
I love how you can just get on a high horse and act holier than thou on some self righteous bullshyt. I have to check myself because I should not care what a random person has to say, but for a random person to say shyt like this. Go fukk yourself. Far from disgusting.

Ah, but is a willing side chick main chick material? Can't jump out of the bushes and into...well, some more bushes. (With bees.)



Except for a decent husband and father. But, hey...pat on your back for doing all the shyt you're supposed to do in the first place. I mean...you take care of your family! Gold star for your low-expectation havin' ass.





That's the thrill of it. OP knows that she can't go anywhere (especially w/a child) b/c she's financially tied to him. OP can do whatever the fukk he wants to do, like eating side chicks out on camera (which is totally NOT fukking asinine b/c he's a PhD student). OP knows what he's doing.

Until you do the shyt, shut the fukk up, I don't think you know how hard it is to maintain for a family while going to school full time and working full time.

Be old enough for a ten year marriage and yet still seeking internships, brehs.




Be stupid enough to create video evidence of marital infidelity, brehs.



There are so many Ls in this paragraph. Screw up your marriage, only to realize that you'll be comparing women with your ex-wife for the rest if your life, brehs. Take back your ex after she gets pregnant with another man's child, brehs. And she takes an L too for getting impregnated by a psychopath and being forced to return to her ex-husband, who was stupid enough to video-record himself eating sidepiece p*ssy.



:dahell:

L for "not wanting to let your sidepiece go" after getting a second shot at your marriage. L for trying to rationalize your stupidity by imagining that your sidepiece will only date white men because you dumped her. L for leading her on to the point where she legit thought marriage was a possibility.



Yeah, because clearly you're the person this is staking a toll on. :comeon:

You need to shut up, stop making excuses, and either try to make this marriage work or move on and save her the heartache. One or the other.
I've aired out my L's and shyt, but don't try to shyt on my professional career.
 
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