I finally left his ass

[SeveroDrgnfli]

My child is not fatherless.whether me and his father are together or not he will still raise and take care of his child.he's alot of things but he's no deadbeat and will not abandon his child because I left him

I don't need a fukking Savior.I have my own money.I take care of me and my child and don't need a man for shyt but dikk.
I'm not even focused on a man right now.
I'm worried about bettering my self,raising my child to my best abilities,working and stacking up to get my own apartment.

I'm good breh

You're not good. You gotta be honest with yourself. I'll offer this advice: Your attitude is good, but you gotta let that "I don't need no man" mentality go. We all need each other. Having healthy romantic and sexual relationships is part of being good.

Not all guys are dikks or dead beat dads. One day you'll meet a real man, that means more than paying bills on time, and you'll be floored by how much he respects you. But it won't happen too often.

You gotta be prepared to be in a healthy relationship or you'll think he's clingy or smothering you when he really just wants to be with you. My mom never needed man because of her education, profession, and upbringing. She never got married or had a serious relationship as an adult. She's almost 80. Chose to adopt two boys, hmm I wonder why she wanted boys, and now is lonely.

She runs all men out of her life and her reasoning is the same as yours. She don't need no man. Not even her two sons. I dunno if you have a son. But one day he'll be a man if you and your mom raise him right. I guess you won't need him either.

PS: I love you sister and you'll be okay. You're tough as shyt. But you don't have to be.

 

[facemask]

 

[Dr. Sebi Jr.]

we have a child together

Another one going to be raised by Black feminist matriarchy and trained to hate the Blackman.

This is why we all need to have four wives like Brother Polight.

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

You're not good. You gotta be honest with yourself. I'll offer this advice: Your attitude is good, but you gotta let that "I don't need no man" mentality go. We all need each other. Having healthy romantic and sexual relationships is part of being good.

Not all guys are dikks or dead beat dads. One day you'll meet a real man, that means more than paying bills on time, and you'll be floored by how much he respects you. But it won't happen too often.

You gotta be prepared to be in a healthy relationship or you'll think he's clingy or smothering you when he really just wants to be with you. My mom never needed man because of her education, profession, and upbringing. She never got married or had a serious relationship as an adult. She's almost 80. Chose to adopt two boys, hmm I wonder why she wanted boys, and now is lonely.

She runs all men out of her life and her reasoning is the same as yours. She don't need no man. Not even her two sons. I dunno if you have a son. But one day he'll be a man if you and your mom raise him right. I guess you won't need him either.

PS: I love you sister and you'll be okay. You're tough as shyt. But you don't have to be.

Damn this post hit home.my grandmother is the strongest woman I ever knew,god rest her soul.had two daughters.both their father got killed while they were babies.she then proceeded to adopt and raise 5 out of 7 of her grandchildren because her oldest was strung out.

She loved her boys..2/7 grandkids,3/10 great grandkids were boys n she favored and spoiled the shyt outta all of them.she never met her youngest(my son)

Never seen her with a man my whole life.that's where I get the mentality from,but reality is I really don't need a man for nothing but sex.I'm financially stable n still stacking.not saying I don't want a man but that's not my focus right now.some women I know feel validated by a man in their face 24/7.I know how to be alone.not saying I don't wanna go out and enjoy myself in the company of a guy,but some of these nikkas making it seem like I'm Fina be out her looking for a new daddy for my son,foh

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

Another one going to be raised by Black feminist matriarchy and trained to hate the Blackman.

This is why we all need to have four wives like Brother Polight.

If u want four wives then have them.don't twist it to your agenda breh.nikkas that want four wives don't have the capacity and capability to give their all to one person and vice versa.polygamy is a preference.it's not the sole way of life.do you but fukk being a sister wife and married to a man who have 3 other wives.I can't even comprehend that sick shyt

 

[Michael's Black Son]

"He with a new hoe. How can I get him back coli? "


Coming soon

 

[The ADD]

@Phoenix_Knightly23

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

@Phoenix_Knightly23

Hmm?

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

Now he blowing me up.

When I was leaving,he helping me pack,telling me to get the fukk on,talking all type a shyt"get all yo shyt now so u don't have to come back"

Now its"I love you baby please answer.u are my wife"

Maybe I would stayed if u pleaded your case but u were to busy throwing insults as usual.u gone learn today nikka

Fukkin clown

 

[The ADD]

@Phoenix_Knightly23

Hmm?

i thought you might share

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Called my mama at work n she had the uhaul waiting,even had my keys ready
Loaded n packed up all my shyt n got the fukk on.
I'm low-key a lil sad cuz we have a child together but that shyt was the most frustrating n painful relationship I've ever been in and I feel relieved

That fukk nikka can be mad n miserable by himself now or find a bytch that's gone take his shytty attitude among many Otha things I put up with

I'm still young as fukk and deserve to be happy.life to short to be walking around angry all the time.all that negativity being projected onto me was hurting the fukk outta me n taking up all my energy

I'm getting back to me.a better me

I'm free yall

been there...

it will be tough for a while...but you will come to realize that it was all for the best