I finally left his ass

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You aren't going to start magically picking the correct partners. I assume you have a history of picking abusive/chaotic partners and I have a feeling your mother did the same with your father or previous boyfriends. I assume your life has been chaotic/unstable or you wouldn't pick messed up partners. You have to get some therapy or you will continue to choose bad partners. If you're attracted to someone, I would be very cautious into getting in a relationship with that person as you are attracted to chaos and abusive people. I know this sounds dumb but try to go out with someone you normally wouldn't go out with and try to explore that. Although you will probably just bring the abuse/chaos yourself if your partner is a "nice" guy and isn't into physical/verbal abuse or chaotic relationships. You will cheat on him and sabotage the relationship (most likely) without therapy.
 
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Coli #simpset rushing in to dap the shyt out of this garbage. I remember her last post about this shyt :camby:
 

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I'm.a independent women mmmm hmm

I don't need no man. It's just me and my mini me from now on.

I can do this by myself if I have to. I got a good job a car , I can get any man if want to

Words of a single mother

Another statistic

Will be back sucking this worthless nukka dikk shortly or will be on pof with a sob story
:pachaha::russ: u coldblooded :mjlol:
 

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Called my mama at work n she had the uhaul waiting,even had my keys ready:wow:
Loaded n packed up all my shyt n got the fukk on.
I'm low-key a lil sad cuz we have a child together but that shyt was the most frustrating n painful relationship I've ever been in and I feel relieved

That fukk nikka can be mad n miserable by himself now or find a bytch that's gone take his shytty attitude among many Otha things I put up with:camby:

I'm still young as fukk and deserve to be happy.life to short to be walking around angry all the time.all that negativity being projected onto me was hurting the fukk outta me n taking up all my energy:pacspit:

I'm getting back to me.a better me:obama:

I'm free yall:win:
Have a kid with a loser then have another Bum around your kids brehettes.

Poor baby
 

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Called my mama at work n she had the uhaul waiting,even had my keys ready:wow:
Loaded n packed up all my shyt n got the fukk on.
I'm low-key a lil sad cuz we have a child together but that shyt was the most frustrating n painful relationship I've ever been in and I feel relieved

That fukk nikka can be mad n miserable by himself now or find a bytch that's gone take his shytty attitude among many Otha things I put up with:camby:

I'm still young as fukk and deserve to be happy.life to short to be walking around angry all the time.all that negativity being projected onto me was hurting the fukk outta me n taking up all my energy:pacspit:

I'm getting back to me.a better me:obama:

I'm free yall:win:





Iv'e been in that same situation. Trust me, you did the right thing. Once I left, I had time to focus on me, energy and improved outlook on life, I went back to school, increased my income by doing so and now I will never need a man financially. I would suggest the same thing for you...now that you've been Freed lol.
 

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Don't listen to them. These same men judging are either from a single parent household or will produce a single family household in the future. Not to mention circumstances change people, so who her man was 5 years ago may not be who he is today. Change is assumed but ultimately unpredictable. People change is Fact. What a man or woman stays to deal with from their spouse is a determinant of their self love.
 

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:leostare:A lot of semantics & equivocation you just typed there buddy .

:manny: But it's whatever my point is marriage isn't sacred it's just business in the United States. Compatibly and common interest are the foundation of every relationship. I don't think op was even married to the guy.
Marriage isn't sacred to you and it's just business to you. It's something I take seriously and view as one of the most important relationships I'll have in my life.
 

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Marriage isn't sacred to you and it's just business to you. It's something I take seriously and view as one of the most important relationships I'll have in my life.
You right I didn't say it couldn't be sacred. And i was speaking in general and about America specifically. America isn't ran by God it isn't a theocracy it's ran by the all mighty dollar. Over half of the marriages in this country end in divorce. One of the biggest reasons for that is money. It's business that's all. But congrats on your marriage fam.
 

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You right I didn't say it couldn't be sacred. And i was speaking in general and about America specifically. America isn't ran by God it isn't a theocracy it's ran by the all mighty dollar. Over half of the marriages in this country end in divorce. One of the biggest reasons for that is money. It's business that's all. But congrats on your marriage fam.
Sometimes I think America is the source of all corruption and evil in the world. It makes my stomach knot. Yes, everything is about money in America. That's the problem I think. Fortunately there are still people raised to value love, ethics, and living an honorable life.
 

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Sometimes I think America is the source of all corruption and evil in the world. It makes my stomach knot. Yes, everything is about money in America. That's the problem I think. Fortunately there are still people raised to value love, ethics, and living an honorable life.
I argee.
 
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