I finally left his ass

[InDePickWest]

I'm gonna treat my unmarried childless ass to dinner tonight with you in mind, OP

 

[InDePickWest]

Call Sunshine Anderson cause ive heard it all before.

This just played on my Spotify...

Why

Haven't heard this song in years

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Good for you. I remember your thread on dude. People will shame moms for leaving but they're not the ones living day to day with the problem. If I remember correctly, you said he's a great dad so let him continue to be. Maybe one day you two can be friends and have the healthy relationship that wasn't possible as lovers.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

What u lookin like op, if u lightskin dnt even respond to me

 

[thekingsmen]

Good for you. I remember your thread on dude. People will shame moms for leaving but they're not the ones living day to day with the problem. If I remember correctly, you said he's a great dad so let him continue to be. Maybe one day you two can be friends and have the healthy relationship that wasn't possible as lovers.

If it was truly a problem why didnt she leave years ago. She didnt love son, she just settled.

 

[KOOL-AID]

Just bein honest like @Spotlessmind sed to be

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

If it was truly a problem why didnt she leave years ago. She didnt love son, she just settled.

Why do people do half the shyt they do? One of the things humanity has most in common is a life full doing what we shouldn't have or not doing what we should have.

Let me tell you as a mom (married). The last thing I'm worried about is what someone else thinks I should be doing or not doing. Moms of all walks are constantly judged regardless. Do what is best for your wellbeing because that is center point of whats best for your child. If that means leaving a home with Dad then thats what has to happen. When mamas not good, babys not good.

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

Call Sunshine Anderson cause ive heard it all before.

It's the truth tho

That's my shyt btw

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

So u young chose the nikka
Had a kid

And now u trying to pump ya self up


Good luck with that

.u got a long line of drama waiting in your life

 

[thekingsmen]

Why do people do half the shyt they do? One of the things humanity has most in common is a life full doing what we shouldn't have or not doing what we should have.

Let me tell you as a mom (married). The last thing I'm worried about is what someone else thinks I should be doing or not doing. Moms of all walks are constantly judged regardless. Do what is best for your wellbeing because that is center point of whats best for your child. If that means leaving a home with Dad then thats what has to happen. When mamas not good, babys not good.

1. First no one said humans dont make mistakes or dumb decisions but her mentality shows immature responses as if her hands are clean. 2. I wasnt judging her as a mom but as a person. Not once did i mention the child. 3. She clearly has hate towards dude in these threads as she addresses the relationship as solely his fault.

 

[The ADD]

In for the fukkery

 

[goatnole]

A lot of you nikkas ain't shyt. You know who you are.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Good for u. Ur 22 so by the time the child is grown you'll still have time to live life for urself.

Stay on the grind, work hard and keep multiple men from around ur baby. That'll be the true testament as to whether u are a piece of shyt or not.
Once the child is here, fukk the regrets and shame. Develop a plan to give that child the best life.

Also don't let ur resentment of the sorry ass dude get in the way of ur child's relationship with his father because ur just as much to blame for this fukked up situation as his trifling ass is.

Otherwise, take lemons, make lemonade, maximize ur skills and focus on urself and on raising ur child. If not, ur a sorry as statistic undeserving of motherhood that should be purged from our community.

My thoughts as a blk chick.

 

[Blackout]

Called my mama at work n she had the uhaul waiting,even had my keys ready
Loaded n packed up all my shyt n got the fukk on.
I'm low-key a lil sad cuz we have a child together but that shyt was the most frustrating n painful relationship I've ever been in and I feel relieved

That fukk nikka can be mad n miserable by himself now or find a bytch that's gone take his shytty attitude among many Otha things I put up with

I'm still young as fukk and deserve to be happy.life to short to be walking around angry all the time.all that negativity being projected onto me was hurting the fukk outta me n taking up all my energy

I'm getting back to me.a better me

I'm free yall

Good to hear that you made that move.

Also remember this part of your post in your previous topic:

It's my fault tho cuz I saw most of this shyt n the beginning n still carried on with itI did this to myself

Never forget that so you can guide other woman to not go down the path that you took.

 

[UpAndComing]

Just in time for the warm weather and the end of cuffing season huh? I see you