I feel like giving up on life

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Join the Habitat for Humanity, Red cross, Peace corps.

You'll do worthwhile work, travel and meet people that are genuinely good human beings trying to help others.
Agreed completely.....except for the Red Cross...what they did with the Haiti donations and their executive comp is criminal.
 

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How did you come to that conclusion... The most beautiful resource you can have in life are other like minded people who genuinely care about your welfare, whether it be family members, friends, or a wonderful woman.... spending time and enjoying the company of such people is a joy within itself......

I have never heard anyone say that you don't need anyone in life......... and technically, you don't.. but if you want a fulfilling life that 's worth living, then spending time with close friends/fam definitely plays a significant role....
The idea of it being the most beautiful resource is a personal opinion, not fact. People have different priorities. I think personal success is more fulfilling, but that's just me.

I will break this down for people that aren't sharp enough to get the actual point. Making progress in life and improving can bring enjoyment and happiness. When people are at the bottom fighting through it on your own brings personal growth and creates a whole new level of confidence. People aren't needed to improve in life and develop a better future. That's the point.
 

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I'm sorry but this is terrible advice.

Do not misguide yourself or others into something evil. Us humans were not created for a directionless life.

"Did you think that We had created you in play (without any purpose), and that you would not be brought back to Us?" - Quran, surah mumenoon verse 115 (eng. translation)

The Quran is a guidance to mankind from our Creator so that us humans will have a successful life now and in the hereafter, and to also avoid a painful punishment. I urge you to read whatever you like of it in this link.
Quran in English - Clear and Easy to Read, with Audio

If you were to ponder logically and honestly, you would realize your purpose. This life is very short and Death is a long time.

And you've found your hobby. Gratz. Be sure to ignore all science and logic. Those can really get in the way when you are convincing yourself of illogical beliefs.
 

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"Personal" success.. but you don't want anyone to share it with......?
I don't need anyone to share it with. Either way I can enjoy life on my own or with others. I don't overrate people like a lot of you do.

If some of you want to prop up people as being a requirement then do that, but I'm not going to agree with it. My main point is that it's better to keep trying and people aren't needed for self improvement. There's no way that giving up on life or choosing suicide over the reasons that the OP mentioned is acceptable.
 
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needed for self improvement.

Self improvement in what exactly? So you're going to get fit just so you can look in the mirror and be by yourself at night... you're gonna acquire a wealth of info and knowledge just so you can keep it to yourself or have no one to pass it down to?

If money is the goal..... You don't even need to be happy to chase that.... I'm not saying that people in general are the end all be all, but when you find a circle that works for you, it makes life easier and a whole lot more enjoyable....
 

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Self improvement in what exactly? So you're going to get fit just so you can look in the mirror and be by yourself at night... you're gonna acquire a wealth of info and knowledge just so you can keep it to yourself or have no one to pass it down to?

If money is the goal..... You don't even need to be happy to chase that.... I'm not saying that people in general are the end all be all, but when you find a circle that works for you, it makes life easier and a whole lot more enjoyable....
Self improvement for your own life and your own future. This is why I can't relate to most people on this topic. The bolded is a great example of what I'm talking about. Why can't people get fit, acquire knowledge or acquire money just for an improved self confidence, a personal goal and for an improved life experience? Some of you swear that you all need people to take notice of it and admire it or else it's worthless. I don't understand the point of going back and forth with you all honestly since we obviously can't relate.

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I will never need people to take notice of my achievements for me to feel like I'm worth being alive or it's worth doing. I don't work out, improve my knowledge or pursue a career so women or other dudes can admire me. People can put in all of this effort and importance on people and still get burned in the end by the same people they put so much importance on.
 
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I will never need people to take notice of my achievements for me to feel like I'm worth being alive or it's worth doing.


That's not what I'm saying... People do things as a mean to an end... now if your end is to have some type of self fulfillment that you internalize, and doesn't have to manifest itself in anything tangible... then that's you... and like I initially stated, that's bad advice for the O.P.


Really bad..... cause the first thing he complained about was not having any fam/friends or a down ass chick.. so since you can't relate to him either.... maybe you shouldn't have offered any advice whatsoever.... :yeshrug:
 

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That's not what I'm saying... People do things as a mean to an end... now if your end is to have some type of self fulfillment that you internalize, and doesn't have to manifest itself in anything tangible... then that's you... and like I initially stated, that's bad advice for the O.P.


Really bad..... cause the first thing he complained about was not having any fam/friends or a down ass chick.. so since you can't relate to him either.... maybe you shouldn't have offered any advice whatsoever.... :yeshrug:
Who are you to decide who should and shouldn't offer advice? :mjlol:It's a forum. Getting different views and opinions is a part of being on a forum even if someone may not agree with every view that they read.

My advice is better than any advice from any soft losers that want to defend giving up on life or choosing suicide because of having no friends, no girl or no family support. I guess you all think that being down about it or choosing suicide is a better option that what I'm suggesting which is to keep pursuing goals and experiences regardless of others.
 

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I'm sorry, it's like for real, it isn't even just these younger generations, but Americans in general. It's like they act like they're entitled to happiness or something, and the moment shyt gets rough, they wanna end it all :dwillhuh:

There's people all over the world dealing with far harsher shyt while getting by on far lesser than even most of the poor around here, and they keep shyt pushing. There's little fukking kids out there dealing with way more shyt than the OP living in fukking war zones and shyt, and this nikka wants to talk about giving up cuz of FEELINGS :pacspit: Man fukk feelings, it's survival of the fittest out here. Like dude earlier said, not everyone's cut out for life, obviously, and the weak are either taken out, or take themselves out. Natural selection, the world won't stop spinning either. :camby:
Hate this logic I mean where is the line? Going by your logic those kids ain't allowed to be upset because there are people worse off than them who were born deaf and blind... and the deaf and blind people aren't allowed to be depressed coz at least they are alive when others died in the womb.
 

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A nikka with an opinion..... just like you decided that your advice> than most..... you see how that works...... :martin:
I didn't say most, my advice is just better than the advice from soft people that want to defend giving up on life because of outsiders :francis:
 

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I'm just noticing I don't have any friends. I don't have a girl who loves me.

My family doesn't care about me. Its like everyone wishes the worst for me. People only call me for money. And as much as I give nobody even acknowledged my 21st birthday. Im nothing to everyone.

I was thinking about moving but wherever I go it would just be the same. Sounds fukkex up but I don't enjoy life
First of all, don't let people use u. Those who only call u for money...let them know u not an ATM. Relationships...whether family, friends, gf, coworkers, etc. should not be one sided and from ur post that's what it seems.

You're very young so u still have time to meet friends. You just need to choose people who have ur best interest. Why ur family not caring and supportive? They should be there for u when nobody else is.

I would advise u to try to find a better job that's satisfying. I would try to network. Think about going back to school or getting whatever education or certifications u need for a better job that's more enjoyable for u.

Work on networking to find u a better job. A better job could help u in a few ways....more money, opportunities for growth, networking, friends, etc. You are young so I would advise u to get yo money up and work on yourself and find what makes u content. Once u do that...ur confidence and attitude should improve and people around u will fill ur vibe more.
 
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