"I don't date ADOS/FBA men. I DON'T want Coffee dates. I wan't courtship and MARRIAGE NOT CRUMBS."
- Thread starter Jazzy B.
- Start date
Who cares?
We stay voicing our frustrations towards each other on social media.
It's too much at times. Every black man isn't the same and some outchea simping women and even taking them out to expensive spots on 1st and 2nd dates.
It's too much at times. Every black man isn't the same and some outchea simping women and even taking them out to expensive spots on 1st and 2nd dates.
*Internally screaming*
AyBrehHam Linkin
First Black Brehsident
almond joy head ahh bih
I don't think that she has anything to worry about. 
Thurgood Thurston III
#LLNB #LLLB #E4R | woooK nypdK
1. She's likely exaggerating/lying.
2. Chances are the "black men" who were commenting were cacs or non-black. The internet is full of false flag operations.
3. How the fukk does she even know the background of most of the commenters? They could be from ANYWHERE.
I've seen just as much colorism from Non-American black men (which still pales in comparison to colorism/featurism from women).
Unless she's lumping together all black men who just happen to live in America and is comparing them to black men from outside the US?
2. Chances are the "black men" who were commenting were cacs or non-black. The internet is full of false flag operations.
3. How the fukk does she even know the background of most of the commenters? They could be from ANYWHERE.
I've seen just as much colorism from Non-American black men (which still pales in comparison to colorism/featurism from women).
Unless she's lumping together all black men who just happen to live in America and is comparing them to black men from outside the US?
Amo Husserl
Superstar
These some OD generalizations.
"Afrocentric features."
I mean... the coffee date is kinda lame by itself, but it's practical and cost efficient.
Problem is having the coffee date and not transitioning to brunch after the coffee date.
Matter of fact, the coffee date should be the introduction to link up on the way to brunch.
Walk and talk to the next spot, pick shorty brain.
Get a lil somethin' to eat and if you ain't feelin' shorty, you spent 'bout a C-note and it's on to the next.
She not mad at the men, she mad at the lack of effort and creativity.
But she askin' a lot on the first date. Chances if issa easy bag to get her on the first date there was no effort on her part.
Kinda imply she gotta low bar too... and expect men to cater to her needs early... when nobody know each other...
That's why issa first date, shorty...
He didn't work for the date, he not gonna work to make it special. You get what you give...
True, shorty should be lookin' for more outta her dating experiences, but she gotta check herself and she don't want to.
She want dudes checkin' for her so she won't check herself.
Issa reason you only gettin' the coffee date. It was easy to get you on the date, issa assumed bag and tag. And we on to the next.
She can't see the coffee date is for jump offs and won't adjust her reception to the approach, so instead of uppin' her game she dump on ABM.
...*shrug* these the birds y'all flock to and simp for?
Oh, yeah...
Abstinence
"Afrocentric features."
I mean... the coffee date is kinda lame by itself, but it's practical and cost efficient.
Problem is having the coffee date and not transitioning to brunch after the coffee date.
Matter of fact, the coffee date should be the introduction to link up on the way to brunch.
Walk and talk to the next spot, pick shorty brain.
Get a lil somethin' to eat and if you ain't feelin' shorty, you spent 'bout a C-note and it's on to the next.
She not mad at the men, she mad at the lack of effort and creativity.
But she askin' a lot on the first date. Chances if issa easy bag to get her on the first date there was no effort on her part.
Kinda imply she gotta low bar too... and expect men to cater to her needs early... when nobody know each other...
That's why issa first date, shorty...
He didn't work for the date, he not gonna work to make it special. You get what you give...
True, shorty should be lookin' for more outta her dating experiences, but she gotta check herself and she don't want to.
She want dudes checkin' for her so she won't check herself.
Issa reason you only gettin' the coffee date. It was easy to get you on the date, issa assumed bag and tag. And we on to the next.
She can't see the coffee date is for jump offs and won't adjust her reception to the approach, so instead of uppin' her game she dump on ABM.
...*shrug* these the birds y'all flock to and simp for?
Oh, yeah...
Abstinence
Toe Jay Simpson
Searchin’
She ugly anyway
Broah you put too much thought into that chick.
She has nothing to worry about.
