I hear ya on the entire post.
I did go to school with a girl who momma had her when she was 45.
Hell, some ppl i went to school with had babies in their 40s
ya I know a couple of ppl (white tho) whose parents had them in their early 40s…or situations where one of the parents (usually the father) is older but the moms is a good 10 years or so younger