It is mental a lot of the time. The current I've built up that knowledge of what I do well for her and what she does well to get me excited.
Got to the point where I didn't feel I did my job unless she caught like 2 nuts in the few times a month we see each other.
Then she switched it up. In general she likes to "take it" and let a nikka do most the work. Then she decided to ride, and I'm expecting some lazy shyt. Damn if she doesn't have the best ride game I've ever seen. Them hip movements make her into a milking machine and I had to let that go much sooner than expected
I got her ass back next time tho, she expected me to bust fast off that again, but damn if I didn't make a point to wear her out for questioning me...