I hate seeing men (or women) getting played. Regardless of whether we're cool or not, I always try to let the other person know on the down low that they're being played. The only problem is that: in this particular case I've only seen the man once and I can't think of a slick way of telling him that he's getting played without putting myself out there. I'm actually pretty good friends with the girl (we go way back) and although I question her moral compass, I don't want to put a strain on our friendship.
She's basically dating a man who has bought her a new car, Mac, phone, and is renting a small apartment for her in his name, but planning to transfer it to hers. He desperately wants to marry her, but she's not attracted to him in the slightest. He knows that he's not her type but he tries to win her over by paying for everything. I've already told her that what she's doing is evil; my message goes in one ear and out the other. The man is so genuine and honest with her, pouring his heart and soul, and she's cackling behind his back with all her girlfriends telling us she finds him ugly and worries about getting pregnant with his child. They recently came back from an expensive holiday. He's always booking stuff for her. It's such a shame because he could be with another girl who truly loves him, instead of my heartless friend who is a reckless player. I've told her to leave him alone but she won't listen.
How can I warn him on the down low? He's so head over heels in love with her that I doubt he'll listen to what I say if I'm straightforward about it. I have messages where she's dogging him out, but if I send those it'll come straight back to me and I don't want the drama. Any ideas?
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to me. It's all too scripted. Too overdramatic and too many ready-made answers.. I smell 
