How Shall I Tell Him The Truth?

[Brofato]

That's his problem. If he does those types of things you telling him shyt won't make him see the error in his ways. All it'll do is clear your own conscience.

 

[darius19]

your intentions are good, but the smart thing to do would be stay out of it, don't go around giving a fukk when its not your turn to give a fukk

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

The man in question is not ballin'. He works until the early morning of the hours and is spending every penny on this girl. I'm not extremely close with her but we go way back, which is why I'm hesitant. I treat people the way I'd like to be treated. If someone knew I was getting played, I'd like to be informed. He's spending his savings, and is going into debt trying to impress someone who doesn't deserve his love. I already know he's going to get his heart broken, I thought maybe I could soften the landing? For those who keep questioning whether I'm jealous or not, lol, please. I just feel bad for him. This girl has a habit of targeting insecure men and then sucking them dry. One of the reasons why I don't chill with her that often anymore is because she doesn't see anything wrong with doing stuff like this.

 

[PicoRoscoe]

Stop being captain save a nikka bytch damn. Out here fukkin up the pimpin!!

 

[Cat piss martini]

mind yo Gat damn business....
sounds like youre jealous of her feast.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

mind yo Gat damn business....
sounds like youre jealous of her feast.

I'm living a comfortable lifestyle and so are all my other friends. It just doesn't sit right with me knowing someone is being taken for a fool. I know it's not my business, but damn.. it's a cold world out here. I just wanted to offer him a blanket.

 

[Brofato]

The man in question is not ballin'. He works until the early morning of the hours and is spending every penny on this girl. I'm not extremely close with her but we go way back, which is why I'm hesitant. I treat people the way I'd like to be treated. If someone knew I was getting played, I'd like to be informed. He's spending his savings, and is going into debt trying to impress someone who doesn't deserve his love. I already know he's going to get his heart broken, I thought maybe I could soften the landing? For those who keep questioning whether I'm jealous or not, lol, please. I just feel bad for him. This girl has a habit of targeting insecure men and then sucking them dry. One of the reasons why I don't chill with her that often anymore is because she doesn't see anything wrong with doing stuff like this.

Don't feel bad for him. Meant to say this in my other post but if he's an adult male then that's his business. There are some men who, believe it or not, actually like to simp and/or trick. As long as he's getting his, I don't see the problem. The problem you have though, is you don't know the full situation. Especially if you don't know dude. She could be his side or even his third girl. Doesn't really matter, he'll learn from his mistakes, there's no such thing as a soft landing in that situation.

 

[MikelArteta]

funny thing in 5-10 years this woman will be on pof wondering where all the "nice guys are"

 

[Elle Driver]

Nah don't say anything cause that nikka could be like you tryna ruin our relationship cause you're jealous it's no way she'd do that to me, and then she'd obviously agree, and you'd look like a fool.

 

[SuikodenII]

But I've known her for over 8 years. Aside from the way she treats men, she's cool. My family know her family etc.



He thinks that she loves him even though there's no attraction.



That's what I want to do. But every time she mentions what he's bought her and I hear that cackle of hers, I can't help but feel so sorry him.

Birds of a feather


I'm fukking with you, but the best you could do is tell her that she's in the wrong. If you can't even do that, I question whether you think she's wrong to begin with..........

Don't bother with ol' boy, he's lost in the sauce

 

[Chill]

If he's not a close friend then leave it alone, if you mess up what she's got you will have made an enemy out of her.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

I'm fukking with you, but the best you could do is tell her that she's in the wrong. If you can't even do that, I question whether you think she's wrong to begin with..........

She knows. I've told her on so many occasions to stop doing shyt like this. Her response is always: "I didn't ask for it, he just gave it to me."

 

[Action Jackson]

 

[SuikodenII]

If he's not a close friend then leave it alone, if you mess up what she's got you will have made an enemy out of her.

And?

What's she gonna do, beat her up?

 

[SuikodenII]

She knows. I've told her on so many occasions to stop doing shyt like this. Her response is always: "I didn't ask for it, he just gave it to me."

How old are the people in question?