How Shall I Tell Him The Truth?

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

why are you fukking up his true calling of becoming an a$$hole?

He needs to go through this in order to become a man and not some nice guy.

After she fukks him over, we will welcome him with open arms

 

[JLova]

Tell him and cut her off. She's not the type of person you want to be friends with anyways.

 

[havoc]

The man in question is not ballin'. He works until the early morning of the hours and is spending every penny on this girl. I'm not extremely close with her but we go way back, which is why I'm hesitant. I treat people the way I'd like to be treated. If someone knew I was getting played, I'd like to be informed. He's spending his savings, and is going into debt trying to impress someone who doesn't deserve his love. I already know he's going to get his heart broken, I thought maybe I could soften the landing? For those who keep questioning whether I'm jealous or not, lol, please. I just feel bad for him. This girl has a habit of targeting insecure men and then sucking them dry. One of the reasons why I don't chill with her that often anymore is because she doesn't see anything wrong with doing stuff like this.

I used to walk on the same shoes as the guy who is getting used by your friend. Speaking from my experience as a former simp, your friend's want- to-be-husband is living in denial. He see the signs but choose to ignore it. He probably don't want to face the reality that your friend don't want him, and he thinks he has a chance of winning her heart with materialism. I hate to say it , but you need to stand on the sideline and not intervene in your friend's relationship with the "Mega Simp" . Your friend see a hustle that is benefitting her; you got to let her cook and reap the benefits. Also, you shouldn't feel sorry for her sugar daddy because nobody force him to give abundantly with car, cash, and a home to a woman who isn't his wife.

Simps need to learn the hard way that filling the role as a "sugar daddy" will never win a woman's heart. A hard lesson with poison darts to their heart is a sole device that will make these dudes feel the excruciating pain from simping, and open their eyes up and dispose their simping ways..

 

[Scientific Playa]

d.j. S.P. got the tune for this isht.....

 

[Chris.B]

funny thing in 5-10 years this woman will be on pof wondering where all the "nice guys are"

 

[Chris.B]

is he fat and overweight?

 

[Ultimate Warrior]

I hate seeing men (or women) getting played. Regardless of whether we're cool or not, I always try to let the other person know on the down low that they're being played. The only problem is that: in this particular case I've only seen the man once and I can't think of a slick way of telling him that he's getting played without putting myself out there. I'm actually pretty good friends with the girl (we go way back) and although I question her moral compass, I don't want to put a strain on our friendship.

She's basically dating a man who has bought her a new car, Mac, phone, and is renting a small apartment for her in his name, but planning to transfer it to hers. He desperately wants to marry her, but she's not attracted to him in the slightest. He knows that he's not her type but he tries to win her over by paying for everything. I've already told her that what she's doing is evil; my message goes in one ear and out the other. The man is so genuine and honest with her, pouring his heart and soul, and she's cackling behind his back with all her girlfriends telling us she finds him ugly and worries about getting pregnant with his child. They recently came back from an expensive holiday. He's always booking stuff for her. It's such a shame because he could be with another girl who truly loves him, instead of my heartless friend who is a reckless player. I've told her to leave him alone but she won't listen.

How can I warn him on the down low? He's so head over heels in love with her that I doubt he'll listen to what I say if I'm straightforward about it. I have messages where she's dogging him out, but if I send those it'll come straight back to me and I don't want the drama. Any ideas?

**snorts 29seconds**

record convo of her disrespecting him

fukk em raw get pregnant


its worth it, she dont appreciate shyt, what she gone do

 

[Solano707]

I hate seeing men (or women) getting played. Regardless of whether we're cool or not, I always try to let the other person know on the down low that they're being played. The only problem is that: in this particular case I've only seen the man once and I can't think of a slick way of telling him that he's getting played without putting myself out there. I'm actually pretty good friends with the girl (we go way back) and although I question her moral compass, I don't want to put a strain on our friendship.

She's basically dating a man who has bought her a new car, Mac, phone, and is renting a small apartment for her in his name, but planning to transfer it to hers. He desperately wants to marry her, but she's not attracted to him in the slightest. He knows that he's not her type but he tries to win her over by paying for everything. I've already told her that what she's doing is evil; my message goes in one ear and out the other. The man is so genuine and honest with her, pouring his heart and soul, and she's cackling behind his back with all her girlfriends telling us she finds him ugly and worries about getting pregnant with his child. They recently came back from an expensive holiday. He's always booking stuff for her. It's such a shame because he could be with another girl who truly loves him, instead of my heartless friend who is a reckless player. I've told her to leave him alone but she won't listen.

How can I warn him on the down low? He's so head over heels in love with her that I doubt he'll listen to what I say if I'm straightforward about it. I have messages where she's dogging him out, but if I send those it'll come straight back to me and I don't want the drama. Any ideas?

Straight up - I would just tell him. I would not associate my self to people like that - ever. We are who we associate ourselves with. Just think of it this way - if she is capable of doing that to someone, what makes you think she won't do it to you. She may be laughing behind your back as well. These are the type of people that are snakes. They look at for themselves only and do not take others in for consideration.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Stay out of it.

Cuz when she finally breaks his heart and he kills her, you'll have no blood on your hands

 

[Heretic]

****

 

[Flay Mayweather]

He know what it is already so let them be.

Or you just want some of that material love

 

[General Salty]

The man in question is not ballin'. He works until the early morning of the hours and is spending every penny on this girl. I'm not extremely close with her but we go way back, which is why I'm hesitant. I treat people the way I'd like to be treated. If someone knew I was getting played, I'd like to be informed. He's spending his savings, and is going into debt trying to impress someone who doesn't deserve his love. I already know he's going to get his heart broken, I thought maybe I could soften the landing? For those who keep questioning whether I'm jealous or not, lol, please. I just feel bad for him. This girl has a habit of targeting insecure men and then sucking them dry. One of the reasons why I don't chill with her that often anymore is because she doesn't see anything wrong with doing stuff like this.

You stay out of it, hopefully when he finds out, he snaps and kills her...then he either gets arrested or kills himself...now the world is less one useless whore and one sorry simp...

 

[Danny Up]

Sounds like you want ol boy for yourself. How can he be played if you say he knows the bytch don't want him but he justs pays to keep her in his life?

 

[QuintessentialBM]

How hard is it to say "no" or "I'm not interested?" That goes for both men and women. There are some spineless people out here if they take free s**t or p***y from people they have 0 interest in. F**k tha game!!!! There are some things more important than free s**t and p***y. For the people who choose to ignore this, I pray you don't come across that right one that ends up turning your life upside-down(or worse)because you f**ked them over.

I've said "no" four times to females in my lifetime... 2 of them cried(black women) and 2 copped an attitude(black & white woman).

The pain of rejection is a lot easier to take than the pain of being used. Let them take the initial L. It's better in the long run.

 

[C-NICE]

He getting warm wet upper level p*ssy and she getting money/gifts sounds about right to me. Everybody know's there tier list on the dating scale and if you choose to date up or down it comes with you having to sacrifice something whether that be money/gifts/time/p*ssy/status/etc. Some people know there out of their league but choose to deal with the bs to ride the ride. So let that man cook he eating and let her bake she eating to.
Class dismissed