threattonature
Veteran
I treat them like they treat us, I just assume they on some bullshyt until they prove me otherwise. And even then the antennas are up.
that cough is such a clear indicator of . you could be walking down a grocery aisle in the middle of summer, and a cac passes you while coughing.Facts. When I used to deliver pizza for a stint, every time I went to one of their doors, it looked like I ruined their day. At first, I tried to excuse it as a fluke, knowing what the real deal was, cause I was tight for money at the time.
Especially if they already tipped me.
Them folks was mad they just gave their money to a negro.
I even had muthafukkas straight out put their money back in their wallet when they saw who it was.
And like another poster said, the coughing, the waiting in their car until you’re clear out of sight, the walking across the street. I just cannot fathom how a black person can marry into that, shyt will forever be mind-boggling to me.
I mean sexism isn't necessarily an actual attack. What I get more is men usually feeling in entitled to my attention or labor.
For example, my boss wanted me to plan a baby shower for one of my pregnant employees. Ummm no. That's not part of my job. There are tons of men who don't have the responsibilities I have. Ask them or so it yourself.
The worst is the attention thing though. Almost 90% of the staff is men. And many will do anything to get my attention. And usually they are insanely rude about or get extremely upset when they don't get it.
One guy literally will try to catch me early in the morning so he can trama dump on me. He got in trouble for so dumb shyt he did and he was suspended by the owner. The shyt had nothing to do with me but somehow his discussion about he what he did (I wasn't even working when he did it) turned into how I think "my shyt don't stink."
I even had guys send my porn to my work phone with the caption "this could be us."
Women can be guilty of it too. I literally just sent a woman home because she tried to pull thr damsel in distress card so she didn't have to do work. Then she tried getting loud. Girl bye. It's literally your second day on the job.
Again, anyone who is sexist I think are racist too. Even BP. I find that BP are quick to disrespect another BP but will tighten up when speaking to a WP.
YupI can detect it within a few seconds without them saying a word. It’s just a certain energy you feel, don’t know exactly how to explain it. Some are better at hiding it though
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