I feel for bad for black women cause they get the sexist part first then the harsh racism if u reject their advances. I dont condone it but i understand how some BW turn into wenches at work. They get attacked from both sides but differently from the men and women but whoever holds the position of power they side with
I mean sexism isn't necessarily an actual attack. What I get more is men usually feeling in entitled to my attention or labor.
For example, my boss wanted me to plan a baby shower for one of my pregnant employees. Ummm no. That's not part of my job. There are tons of men who don't have the responsibilities I have. Ask them or so it yourself.
The worst is the attention thing though. Almost 90% of the staff is men. And many will do anything to get my attention. And usually they are insanely rude about or get extremely upset when they don't get it.
One guy literally will try to catch me early in the morning so he can trama dump on me. He got in trouble for so dumb shyt he did and he was suspended by the owner. The shyt had nothing to do with me but somehow his discussion about he what he did (I wasn't even working when he did it) turned into how I think "my shyt don't stink."
I even had guys send my porn to my work phone with the caption "this could be us."
Women can be guilty of it too. I literally just sent a woman home because she tried to pull thr damsel in distress card so she didn't have to do work. Then she tried getting loud. Girl bye. It's literally your second day on the job.
Again, anyone who is sexist I think are racist too. Even BP. I find that BP are quick to disrespect another BP but will tighten up when speaking to a WP.