How Frequently she contacts you vs What she says to you when you do talk

[itsyoung!!]

The actual mature/wifey type material girls ive met in my life are the ones who text the least

example you can go days without texting at all, but when you meet up its all love.. they too busy worrying bout they career, school or both and they dont need to text 1500 texts a day.. if anything this makes the dates better because you have everything to talk about that you didnt spend 10 hours a day texting each other with

now because this also can mean she aint texting you because she wants you on the sideline cause she already got a main one.. its up to you determine which one is it.. but in my personal experience all the real wifey types ive ever met werent the fastest texters or cared too much about social networking either.

 

[Soundbwoy]

that whole passive attitude if your feeling someone is frustating ive decided in my situation to bring it up again next time we talk and if she is not willing to put in the efforts its

 

[↓R↑LYB]

To me, it's neither. It's her actions. If she's falling in line with a nikkas programs and respects the G in me, that says a million times more than whether she's blowing my phone up or taking interest in something I'm interested in.

 

[mcdivit85]

Overall, both are important. But if the only time you have a quality convo is when you track her down, you on backup status.

That whole "oh I'm not a phone person" or "I believe the guy should reach out" or "I'm busy lately" is all BS. If you were a dude that she wanted to kick it with, she would keep herself in your loop. Because you can best believe that she'll tell you that line and be blowing the next dude's phone up with "good mornings" and smiley faces.

Point blank: she's not hitting you up = she's not that interested

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

Met her in July, we talk every so often, we've only kissed once.

Whoa...I just read the rest of the thread and saw this. So you've known her since July, you've kissed once, she only hit you up once, you only talk "every so often" and it sounds like you two have maybe hung two or three times in four months? Tomorrow is Thanksgiving, playa. And from the sounds of it, you haven't been in touch with her in weeks?

Ask yourself a question and be honest: if you were Lance Gross or Trey Songz, do you think she would go weeks without hitting you up? I think you already know the answer. Someone may say: "well, that's not a good comparison." And I would say that is the necessary comparison. Because if you "like" her, then I would assume that you would want her to "like" you back...at least enough to not go weeks without hitting you up.

You need to rethink whether liking her is a good investment of your time if the only return its yielding is you sitting around wondering if she "likes" you back.

Peace

 

[Chill]

Whoa...I just read the rest of the thread and saw this. So you've known her since July, you've kissed once, she only hit you up once, you only talk "every so often" and it sounds like you two have maybe hung two or three times in four months? Tomorrow is Thanksgiving, playa. And from the sounds of it, you haven't been in touch with her in weeks?

Ask yourself a question and be honest: if you were Lance Gross or Trey Songz, do you think she would go weeks without hitting you up? I think you already know the answer. Someone may say: "well, that's not a good comparison." And I would say that is the necessary comparison. Because if you "like" her, then I would assume that you would want her to "like" you back...at least enough to not go weeks without hitting you up.

You need to rethink whether liking her is a good investment of your time if the only return its yielding is you sitting around wondering if she "likes" you back.

Peace

I mean I'm over it by now, I just talked to her yesterday and had a good convo, if she dosen't , I'm just happy I got over the "waiting game" shenanigans. It's a lot easier to deal with when you're sure of something.