You're paying either way. It's just the main goal is to have your woman not go through white daddy to get that money. Your mouthpiece must be extra crisp and you can't be unreliable or a piece of shyt.
1) Don't impregnate vindictive hoes with violent mood swings and personality traits of reality TV stars
2) Boldly communicate that youre going to contribute monetarily each month regardless of relationship status and work out the details (monthly payment)
3) During the gestation period, stack your money to the heavens/increase your earning potential so a monthly contribution to your kid won't have your electric bill in danger of being turned off and your bytch becoming enraged cuz you juelzin'
4) If you followed step #1 correctly, shell be reasonable, smart and leveled headed enough to work with you for the best interest of the kid
5) Gladly pay your "child support" and be glad you have the opportunity to increase/temporarily decrease the payment amount with adult conversation with your bytch without cac intervention
6) Document each payment for records
Any woman who would not agree to this is a bird, thus nikkas not following step #1