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Ive notice that men tend to pick women the same ways that women try to pick men. FOR THE LOOKS. A woman that is beautiful and dresses well can have zero personality but she probably will rarely be single.And if she is, its only for her terms. Then there can be an average to ugly woman who may have a great personality and great hobbies and interest but because she is average to ugly she can get a man but she is going to have a harder time because men pick women based on looks ..... not just looks:whoa: but a big part of choosing is based off of looks.

women tend to do the same thing. If the guy is sexy women will flock to him. charisma or not. The bad boy image doesn't even really have to be their. women like charisma/swag.


And all the women i know that look for "Swag" are all single because they are looking for sizzle with no substance. Because if they get that guy, good luck trying to keep mr Swag from fukking all the other chicks looking for the same guy
 

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I have to disagree, "looks" are to subject to think that women are having a hard time because of it. There a lot of factors but most women are attractive to a large enough group of men.
but you dont get what im saying? there is women that are so attractive that they will get hit on from anyone, anywhere. And really they have plenty to pick from. its the same with men who are extremely attractive. i get what you are saying but looks play a factor. dont front. take for example @Phoenix_Knightly23 she is very pretty and plenty of guys simp her. If this was not the internet and everyone was face to face. most of you guys would be going after her and she could take her pick out of the men to see who she wanted. But if she was ugly she couldn't do that.Because they guy wouldnt be checking for her.

hey @Phoenix_Knightly23
 

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but you dont get what im saying? there is women that are so attractive that they will get hit on from anyone, anywhere. And really they have plenty to pick from. its the same with men who are extremely attractive. i get what you are saying but looks play a factor. dont front. take for example @Phoenix_Knightly23 she is very pretty and plenty of guys simp her. If this was not the internet and everyone was face to face. most of you guys would be going after her and she could take her pick out of the men to see who she wanted. But if she was ugly she couldn't do that.Because they guy wouldnt be checking for her.

hey @Phoenix_Knightly23
I'm taking celebs and Instagram models out of the equation. Look at any thread on here and the multiple arguments about what does and doesn't constitute a "dime", opinions are all over. Rhianna is graded all over the scale.

Most women catch the attention of enough guys, it may not be the guys she wants but still.

I know what you are saying but I think what you are really hitting has more to do with what guys perceive as easier to sleep with.

Gratuitous. @Phoenix_Knightly23 mention
 

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I'm taking celebs and Instagram models out of the equation. Look at any thread on here and the multiple arguments about what does and doesn't constitute a "dime", opinions are all over. Rhianna is graded all over the scale.

Most women catch the attention of enough guys, it may not be the guys she wants but still.

I know what you are saying but I think what you are really hitting has more to do with what guys perceive as easier to sleep with.

Gratuitous. @Phoenix_Knightly23 mention
true. we can agree on that.
 

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Marriage as we know it will not exist soon. It can't when everybody is fukking everybody. There is nothing special or sacred about the marriage at this point. Just a title. Not saying that the destruction of marriage is a bad thing but it does seem inevitable.
Marriage will always be special, sacred and valuable. Whether or not people see it that way is another story.
 

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Marriage as we know it will not exist soon. It can't when everybody is fukking everybody. There is nothing special or sacred about marriage at this point. Just a worthless title. Not saying that the destruction of marriage is a bad thing but it does seem inevitable.
its sad that you are right for so many marriage cases.
 

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Marriage will always be special, sacred and valuable. Whether or not people see it that way is another story.

Nah it doesn't work like that I'm sorry. Marriage is relatively new and isn't the same everywhere. It's just a traditional ritual at this point. Your previous
"boyfriends" got to enjoy all the perks your husband does. There is nothing special about that at all.
 

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Nah it doesn't work like that I'm sorry. Marriage is relatively new and isn't the same everywhere. It's just a traditional ritual at this point. Your previous
"boyfriends" got to enjoy all the perks your husband does. There is nothing special about that at all.
And you probably agree with living with a woman before getting married. Men are the ones that want women to play the role of wife before actually being one.

There are way more "perks" to marriage than the typical relationship offers. I will always believe that. Marriage doesn't suck, people do.
 

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And you probably agree with living with a woman before getting married. Men are the ones that want women to play the role of wife before actually being one.

There are way more "perks" to marriage than the typical relationship offers. I will always believe that. Marriage doesn't suck, people do.

People are recognizing people suck. There is already a significant lack of trust between sexes. You think people are going to keep getting married just to take Ls? Boyfriends and fukk buddies can enjoy you without a ring. Why waste the time AND place restrictions on yourself with marriage? Most dudes are a$$holes. They aren't going to be marrying these chicks they are fukking. They don't love you. They love p*ssy and they get it when they need it. There is NO incentive to get married. Now if women treated sex like doggy treats and only give the dog a treat when he deserves it, men would be more disciplined and wouldn't treat women as sexual objects. But since women give out the treats all day, everyday, just for a nut, your value has now been depreciated.
 
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People are recognizing people suck. There is already a significant lack of trust between sexes. You think people are going to keep getting married just to take Ls? Boyfriends and fukk buddies can enjoy you without a ring. Why waste the time AND place restrictions on yourself with marriage? Most dudes are @sshole. They aren't going to be marrying these chicks they are fukking. They don't love you. They love p*ssy and they get it when they need it.
If you're putting an emphasis on sex as a basis to marry someone you're already losing and it's best you not be married anyway.
 
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