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Ya'll took the wrong thing out of that.

That's my point; there are legitimate men, who hold themselves to a certain standard that doesn't include disrespect of women, of any kind.

Then, there's the "nice guy" aka simp. Anytime you try to trade "nice" things (food, clothes, jewelry, etc.) for favor, you're wrong.

Any Tom, dikk & Harry can give a women that. Hence, why it's not the best way to get a mate. You give her a genuine experience with another person, then, it's real.

No, a woman owes you nothing, because you show her a "good time." That's what I always thought was what a "simp" (vs. a real genuine guy) was; A guy who can't get why women don't want him, when all he offers are material things.

This is how dudes get blindsided by infidelity and being ignored. She got "friends" & girlfriends to take her out and give her gifts--that's what you become.

That's what I meant.

A simp is a guy with no back bone who will do whatever a woman wants and never stands up for himself. You were describing a simp with money aka a trick.Tricks dont' have that many issues getting chicks because money will always talk. If a dude has enough money and is willing to spend it there will be no shortage of shallow tramps down to get spoiled.
 

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I just want to fuuuuuuuck you, :shaq:

No kissin and huggin girl you got a husband who loves...you :birdman:

You betta give him your quality tiiime :usure:
 

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While I agree, why don't they?

Personally, I don't bar that anymore from ladies today...we livin' in a New Jack World, and ladies can go get anything they want today
just like any man. So if anybody of mature age wants to be married and they aren't, maybe they need to switch their game up
instead of coming on the internet and talkin' under other peoples' clothes...
It's just not in their nature via gender roles and work ethic.

I used to think the same as you but the real world application doesn't hold up.
 

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A simp is a guy with no back bone who will do whatever a woman wants and never stands up for himself. You were describing a simp with money aka a trick.Tricks dont' have that many issues getting chicks because money will always talk. If a dude has enough money and is willing to spend it there will be no shortage of shallow tramps down to get spoiled.
When the money goes, will the honeys stay? - Jigga
 

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It's just not in their nature via gender roles and work ethic.

I used to think the same as you but the real world application doesn't hold up.

Again, I agree with you...but that's what they say...is it "gender roles are antiquated" or do she owe me for ice? (rhetorical.)

Either way, get it how you live. A lot of broads like this are out here eatin'...

 

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We see y'all bragging about sleeping with tons of women?

What makes you think a modest woman would want a man whore any more than a man would want a woman that's a whore?

And that whole double standards thing to answering this question is lazy.

Men tell me why you think it's okay to sleep with a woman on the first date. Call her a whore or question her qualities but your qualities and morals aren't questioned?





And no I don't go sleeping around:comeon:


Here we go with the "why would a good girl with good moral fiber want a scumbag?" well the answer is...history has shown... a large population of women LOVE SCUMBAGS!
good girls love bad men..its simple. Obviously there are decent women for decent men but many times even those decent chicks have had a run in or two or a few with the "Bad guys". And we also know that plenty of women thirst and yearn to feel special and sadly, some women fell better about themselves knowing ( insert name) now has the eyes for her. Nevermind that he has had the eyes for just about anything with 3 holes but now that you are the "main one" and these triflin bytches need to fall back because he is MINE!

as cliche as this sounds its all to common and the fact that this is even a question is almost laughable

:russ:
 

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Here we go with the "why would a good girl with good moral fiber want a scumbag?" well the answer is...history has shown... a large population of women LOVE SCUMBAGS!
good girls love bad men..its simple. Obviously there are decent women for decent men but many times even those decent chicks have had a run in or two or a few with the "Bad guys". And we also know that plenty of women thirst and yearn to feel special and sadly, some women fell better about themselves knowing ( insert name) now has the eyes for her. Nevermind that he has had the eyes for just about anything with 3 holes but now that you are the "main one" and these triflin bytches need to fall back because he is MINE!

as cliche as this sounds its all to common and the fact that this is even a question is almost laughable

:russ:
men tend to pick shytty women as well. If this wasnt true it wouldnt be as many complaints about baby mommas.
 

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men tend to pick shytty women as well. If this wasnt true it wouldnt be as many complaints about baby mommas.

Men pick shytty women to fukk and somehow they loose sight that a fukk should remain that way and not try and wife her...
Women will pick fukked up men with the idea of settling down and possibly "fixing him up"- Bad move! and then when that loser effs up, they will date the SAME kind of guy and go thru this all over again

look men and women are both foolish..women just complain about this more so you will get bashed about it more
 

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Men pick shytty women to fukk and somehow they loose sight that a fukk should remain that way and not try and wife her...
Women will pick fukked up men with the idea of settling down and possibly "fixing him up"- Bad move! and then when that loser effs up, they will date the SAME kind of guy and go thru this all over again

look men and women are both foolish..women just complain about this more so you will get bashed about it more
Ive notice that men tend to pick women the same ways that women try to pick men. FOR THE LOOKS. A woman that is beautiful and dresses well can have zero personality but she probably will rarely be single.And if she is, its only for her terms. Then there can be an average to ugly woman who may have a great personality and great hobbies and interest but because she is average to ugly she can get a man but she is going to have a harder time because men pick women based on looks ..... not just looks:whoa: but a big part of choosing is based off of looks.

women tend to do the same thing. If the guy is sexy women will flock to him. charisma or not. The bad boy image doesn't even really have to be their. women like charisma/swag.
 

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The question...

"Bad boys ain't no good,
Good boys aint no fun.
Lord knows that I should
Run off with the right one." - Mary J. Blige


The answer...

"Bad girls ain't no good, and the good girls ain't no fun and the hood girls want a smart nikka, college girls all want a thug. So it seems that we fiend what we don't need." -Wale

Close thread.
 
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Ive notice that men tend to pick women the same ways that women try to pick men. FOR THE LOOKS. A woman that is beautiful and dresses well can have zero personality but she probably will rarely be single.And if she is, its only for her terms. Then there can be an average to ugly woman who may have a great personality and great hobbies and interest but because she is average to ugly she can get a man but she is going to have a harder time because men pick women based on looks ..... not just looks:whoa: but a big part of choosing is based off of looks.

women tend to do the same thing. If the guy is sexy women will flock to him. charisma or not. The bad boy image doesn't even really have to be their. women like charisma/swag.
I have to disagree, "looks" are to subjective to think that women are having a hard time because of it. There a lot of factors but most women are attractive to a large enough group of men.

The other part is that the whole thing about good girls wanting bad guys is off track as well. Bad guys is too broad of a term to define. You could have a lot of generally good traits and still be a jerk to the chick.
 
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