How do get over being bitter about the past or people that have done you wrong?

[Complexion]

I like this post what was the other monks response to carrying his negative thoughts ?

See the thing about life is its meant to be lived, its a learning process therefore not rigid and fixed. Sometimes you get it right first go. Others it takes a few attempts.

The key is Incremental Betterment and the refinement it brings. Part of that is being discerning in what you choose to give your attention to because its very easy to become consumed by thoughts designed to take you off your purpose due to the energy leaking toward hatred instead of something worthwhile.

Like the other monk who was so caught up on wanting it to be one way he didn't notice where he himself was slipping. The false self is a slippery bish and yet it has most of the world in its grip. Total domination requires full concentration in all situations. Foundation.

Know Thyself...

 

[africngiant]

man i have so many stories. im the most slyly hated man in my town. i was brought up too nice and humble. ppl try to run a lot of slick game on me. i want revenge.

they talk behind your back surrounding your character as you’re moving up in life. mainly stemming from not growing up the stereotypical black dude. same dudes you watched get girls and you were happy for them.

i saw the bigger picture in school. was sheltered and didn’t get involved in a lot extracurricularly. i was still accepted around lot of people. a lot of fake dudes came up to ME because i was still liked by many.

years later, they try to hate on the ‘green’ tall nikka who they don’t really know. im on a slow come up now.

they still try to get around me and act fake innocent. but their energy is fake and they act sly.

they’re not doing shyt anymore.

while you’re starting to put things together.

they act like bytches and change depending on who they’re around…

once i glew up physically, the hate and weird shyt increased tenfold.

spoiled mfs don’t like when a nikka finally gets his cake. i definitely see the jealousy now.

popular circles hate to see dudes step over them that they probably used to front on. dudes hate on me as a cope for their fall from high school grace.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

I look back at that shyt like

 

[Panther]

Ive been working on understanding that I shouldn't always take things personally. People do messed up things but it doesn't define who I am.

Outside of that focus on self improvement. When you're focused on yourself it's easier to move on from the past

 

[donalon]

Set yourselves free brothers

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

 

[Ghost Utmost]

You're somewhere mad at a person who is not even thinking about your ass.

They may have forgotten all about you, but you're still upset.

Your being upset doesn't do anything except make you feel bad.

This is the reason to let things go. You still got a life ahead of you and you don't wanna spend it mad at people who couldn't care less.

 

[At30wecashout]

Time. Life is long and short at the same time and there are things to prioritize. I learned how to be

 

[StayOffMe]

Get your lick back.

 

[semicko82]

fukk what everyone else says.

I get REVENGE.

Even if it takes years. & I plan it so cold that I leave lasting psychological effects.

There was one dude at a job I got into a beef with but I wasnt gonna put hands on him. So ofc he fronted like he’d do something.

Brehs when I say I caught him months later when he prolly forgot about it & beat the greens, potatoes & yams outta that fukking fakkit. It felt GOOD.

There’s a ex manager who used to hate on me & c00n it up for the cracker management whose girl Im gonna fukk. She added me on IG & we been dminy. I got something for that clown.

I dont even think Ima fukk her, ima make her agree to fukking me then reject her. Then show him to basically show that I could have your bytch but I dont even want her. I wanna drive it home.

Idc what anyone else says, for me personally revenge always makes me feel better. I won’t stop until I get mines. I always feel 100% better EVERY TIME. It literally feels like a weight is lifted off my chest.

So far, all my opps have gotten theirs except 1. He’s on the way.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

I usually approach them and then sock them in the muthafukkin mouth. Feel much better after showing dominance.

 

[Charlie Hustle]

I usually approach them and then sock them in the muthafukkin mouth. Feel much better after showing dominance.

Great user name/ post correlation

 

[semicko82]

I usually approach them and then sock them in the muthafukkin mouth. Feel much better after showing dominance.

 

[315]

Go out and win

 

[semicko82]

man i have so many stories. im the most slyly hated man in my town. i was brought up too nice and humble. ppl try to run a lot of slick game on me. i want revenge.

they talk behind your back surrounding your character as you’re moving up in life. mainly stemming from not growing up the stereotypical black dude. same dudes you watched get girls and you were happy for them.

i saw the bigger picture in school. was sheltered and didn’t get involved in a lot extracurricularly. i was still accepted around lot of people. a lot of fake dudes came up to ME because i was still liked by many.

years later, they try to hate on the ‘green’ tall nikka who they don’t really know. im on a slow come up now.

they still try to get around me and act fake innocent. but their energy is fake and they act sly.

they’re not doing shyt anymore.

while you’re starting to put things together.

they act like bytches and change depending on who they’re around…

once i glew up physically, the hate and weird shyt increased tenfold.

spoiled mfs don’t like when a nikka finally gets his cake. i definitely see the jealousy now.

popular circles hate to see dudes step over them that they probably used to front on. dudes hate on me as a cope for their fall from high school grace.

Nice and humble equals a soft target to some people