How do get over being bitter about the past or people that have done you wrong?

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Once upon a time, two monks were traveling a long distance together. Somewhere along their journey, they came upon a river with rapid, choppy waters and they saw a woman standing by its margins, unable to cross by herself.

Despite the sacred vow the monks had taken (not to ever touch women), one of the monks picked the woman up and carried her across the agitated waters, setting her down safely across the river. The other monk rejoins them across the river and is shocked and outraged that his traveling companion had broken the sacred vow but stayed silent about it.

A few hours pass as the two monks travel on. The monk who kept silent is, by now, quite agitated and finally interjects: “Why did you carry that women when we took a vow as monks not to touch women?”

The monk, his companion, replies, “I set the woman down hours ago by the river. Why are you still carrying her?



All in your mind, every time. To carry thoughts like this are dead weight, not in your best interests as you reactivate the Pattern by giving it your attention and thus a space in your energetics. Next time it happens imagine the thoughts as a black smoke, breathe it out, give it form, let it go. Yell and scream a little bit. Vent. Free yourself of the pinball memory bouncing around in your head.

Thoughts are things and words are weapons for those who are strangers to knowledge of Self:

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as they know not they are the one watching the motion picture in their head they not only direct but star in as well as edit.
 
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C Freeman El stated once in a lecture that when u dont forgive, you have hate in you, it builds up as matter and weighs down your heart then you start to get physically sick.

There is power in the art of letting go
This not the lecture, just a cool excerpt on detatchment

 

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You don't. Just cut people off. Sometimes it warrants confrontation; sometimes it doesn't. Why leave the door open for people who intentionally hurt you? One time a lollypop; 2 times a sucker.
 

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fukk what everyone else says.

I get REVENGE.

Even if it takes years. & I plan it so cold that I leave lasting psychological effects.

There was one dude at a job I got into a beef with but I wasnt gonna put hands on him. So ofc he fronted like he’d do something.

Brehs when I say I caught him months later when he prolly forgot about it & beat the greens, potatoes & yams outta that fukking fakkit. It felt GOOD.

There’s a ex manager who used to hate on me & c00n it up for the cracker management whose girl Im gonna fukk. She added me on IG & we been dminy. I got something for that clown.

I dont even think Ima fukk her, ima make her agree to fukking me then reject her. Then show him to basically show that I could have your bytch but I dont even want her. I wanna drive it home.

Idc what anyone else says, for me personally revenge always makes me feel better. I won’t stop until I get mines. I always feel 100% better EVERY TIME. It literally feels like a weight is lifted off my chest.

So far, all my opps have gotten theirs except 1. He’s on the way.
 

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fukk what everyone else says.

I get REVENGE.

Even if it takes years. & I plan it so cold that I leave lasting psychological effects.

There was one dude at a job I got into a beef with but I wasnt gonna put hands on him. So ofc he fronted like he’d do something.

Brehs when I say I caught him months later when he prolly forgot about it & beat the greens, potatoes & yams outta that fukking fakkit. It felt GOOD.

There’s a ex manager who used to hate on me & c00n it up for the cracker management whose girl Im gonna fukk. She added me on IG & we been dminy. I got something for that clown.

I dont even think Ima fukk her, ima make her agree to fukking me then reject her. Then show him to basically show that I could have your bytch but I dont even want her. I wanna drive it home.

Idc what anyone else says, for me personally revenge always makes me feel better. I won’t stop until I get mines. I always feel 100% better EVERY TIME. It literally feels like a weight is lifted off my chest.

So far, all my opps have gotten theirs except 1. He’s on the way.

Your frustration with these people has provoked you to this? :patrice:
 

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Setting the stage for someone’s downfall is extremely satisfying.

Because of this, I’ve seen peoples employment contract terminated and peoples work visas revoked and employment terminated. Ultimately, they did it to themselves. They had the choice to either stop being a a$$hole or continue thinking they’re bulletproof.

The game is chess not checkers.
 

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Once upon a time, two monks were traveling a long distance together. Somewhere along their journey, they came upon a river with rapid, choppy waters and they saw a woman standing by its margins, unable to cross by herself.

Despite the sacred vow the monks had taken (not to ever touch women), one of the monks picked the woman up and carried her across the agitated waters, setting her down safely across the river. The other monk rejoins them across the river and is shocked and outraged that his traveling companion had broken the sacred vow but stayed silent about it.

A few hours pass as the two monks travel on. The monk who kept silent is, by now, quite agitated and finally interjects: “Why did you carry that women when we took a vow as monks not to touch women?”

The monk, his companion, replies, “I set the woman down hours ago by the river. Why are you still carrying her?



All in your mind, every time. To carry thoughts like this are dead weight, not in your best interests as you reactivate the Pattern by giving it your attention and thus a space in your energetics. Next time it happens imagine the thoughts as a black smoke, breathe it out, give it form, let it go. Yell and scream a little bit. Vent. Free yourself of the pinball memory bouncing around in your head.

Thoughts are things and words are weapons for those who are strangers to knowledge of Self:

giphy.gif

as they know not they are the one watching the motion picture in their head they not only direct but star in as well as edit.
I like this post:russ: :mjcry: what was the other monks response to carrying his negative thoughts ?
 
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